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Anonymous No.82243550 >>82243699 >>82243702 >>82243768
How do I stop being an uptight, sensitive, irritable little bitch and start acting like a calm and focused real man? I think I have autism or something that makes me very sensitive emotionally and gives me really bad social anxiety so it's hard to just man up
Anonymous No.82243612 >>82243652 >>82243768 >>82244518
Sadly, other than 'stop caring', you're fucked.
Alone, as a shut-in, I can be stoic as hell. I have always been analytical.
But put me in a crowded wage-cuck situation and I sperg out.
Literally nothing attainable suits me in wage-cuck-world.
Anonymous No.82243652 >>82243768 >>82244518
>>82243612
>But put me in a crowded wage-cuck situation and I sperg out
This has been my situation for the last year. People constantly ask me why I look so serious and if I'm doing ok. I can't help that the stress from being around people, noise, and an asshole boss causes my face to tense up. Every muscle in my body is tense at work and I can't even walk like a normal person because my legs feel like they're made of bricks. I just keep hoping it gets better one day but I don't know what will change. One day I'm going to really sperg out and just go be homeless and alone somewhere
Anonymous No.82243699 >>82243827 >>82244518
>>82243550 (OP)
>I think I have autism or something
people with autism don't act on their feelings,, if you're going to self-diagnose like some redditor at least do some reading

>uptight, sensitive, irritable little bitch
>calm and focused real man
the thing is many successful men who run businesses and raise families are act emotionally all day, they get angry and frustrated and karen out on their employees and random people and constantly gossip and gradate people by how much they like them, who is their enemy, who is their friend, they generally dislike most people

for normies their emotions give them motivation, not abstract ideals like us, normies are quick to conjur up some moral explanation for their actions or as an excuse to scold people like us, but as we have noticed all too often they are full of holes and fallacies, because it is not what drives them, rather they have these feelings, an emotional social brain, and everything else is an afterthought, and they can act on their emotions because they are surrounded at all times by likeminded normies

now with us it's different, normies hate us and whatever we do they will hate it, if we fail we're useless, if we succeed they have to kick down our sandcastle because it's funny and we're not part of their tribe, because it was arrogant to think someone like us could be a part of things, at best we can try and LARP like a normy, but they are always going to be awful people and we will always be fair game for that kind of treatment once they sniff out that we are not normal like them, in short your "insecurity" is due to a genuine lack of security surrounded by people who hate you and want you gone but cannot act on it due to our laws and liberties
Anonymous No.82243702
>>82243550 (OP)
the solution is to just be incredibly strategic, to expect normies to attempt to steal from you, defraud you, plagiarize, lie about you to get others to ostracize you, never do anything unless you get the full credit and pay for your work, even if it is a practical inconvenience, minimize teamwork with normies and when it is necessary, highly regulate it and keep tabs on them every step of the way, even if you have a long trusting working relationship, it is probably only because of said tabs

do this and you will be able to function with security, you will have nothing to fear because you will be in control, it will be like playing a video game where you have to build a guard tower to kill the zombies or whatever, except the mindless zombies, slimes and goblins are the n*rmies

it would be better if you didn't have to spend on security, but then the "game" would be boring, which is a good thing, in a way
Anonymous No.82243768 >>82243827
>>82243550 (OP)
>>82243612
>>82243652
You need something to shake yourself out of this mentality. For men, fighting can break that shell. Like in the film Fight Club, once Tyler starts fighting, his work life is no longer so important to him and he becomes more confident.
Anonymous No.82243827 >>82244498
>>82243699
>if you're going to self-diagnose
I said or something. I didn't diagnose anything.
>like a redditor
>proceeds to reddit space and use the word normie over and over like a redditor
>now with us
I'm not with you, and you should take your own advice and not diagnose me as whatever you think you are and lump me in with yourself
>in short your "insecurity" is due to a genuine lack of security surrounded by people
That's actually a good point. If I started acting how I really feel instead of nice and polite then people would turn on me in a second. I can't relate to people very much and don't trust them which makes me feel insecure around them
>>82243768
I have nothing to fight though. I think boxing would be good for me but then I have to deal with people. I just want to be alone and then the urge to fight will go away
Anonymous No.82244498
>>82243827
I know it's a common answer, but maybe fitness can help. Go for a jog, get the blood flowing. Increase your self confidence by improving your body and looking better.
Anonymous No.82244518
>>82243612
>>82243652
The best part is that women who are like this will never truly love you. You're either forced to put on a mask and get with some random slut that falls for it, or betabuxx. Either way she won't feel truly happy and safe and content being with you.
>>82243699
The average person is honestly just tiring to be around