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Men drive women away after breeding with them. Go on FB, where new moms hang out, and observe how they talk about the men they are with.
If I wanted a kid, I'd plan to be a single mom and plan a custody agreement with a guy who wanted to be a single dad. Men lose kindness to their wives and their wives are stressed and miserable all the time after having a kid. The women who leave their husbands do less work and are happier. In studies it shows that they do less work, and that women who are the breadwinners do even more housework than women who are stay at home moms.
Men don't really want a family, they want to get the achievement and respect that comes with getting to a certain point in life and that includes having a house and a wife and a kid so other men respect them more. All the women I know who have kids hate their spouse.
Patriachy used to do all kinds of shit to ensure that women couldn't make money or take care of kids, destroying extended families and keeping women out of the workforce, specifically so women would have to stay in marriages- that's more proof being a stay at home mom is so miserable no one would do it if they weren't forced to.