Thread 82262440

Got romantically rejected by two male anons this week and I am not even fat, it's just males only want casual sex(no I didn't already fuck them)

>>82262440 (OP)
Well that's because you're a whore who lets random assholes who don't want relationships fuck you.

I wouldn't date or fuck you at all because you're gross used goods at this point.

>>82262440 (OP)
that's how men pair bond is by fucking

women pair bond with their partner by nagging or something

>>82262454
I wouldn't date someone who can't read myself

>>82262440 (OP)
Sorry to hear that. Happens a lot it seems. Fucked up thing is there's a lot of people that will pretend that isn't even what they want so they can work you over later and then leave.

The dating scene is pure paranoia. I wish I could just make peace with being alone

>>82262501
Exactly like that is why I am so picky peoples character. Same I am so lonely

>>82262501
You typed this shit out and she still isn't gonna fuck lil bro

>>82262535
Misogyny coper

>>82262513
I can't trust people, but I still want them.

What a terrible way to live, eh? What is one to do?

>>82262552
Exactly, did you ever atleast have one friend you could trust

>>82262535
For all you know I am a fembot. I'm here for conversation. The chances of finding someone I want to date on this Hellhole are slim to none anyway

>>82262561
Thankfully I do have a group of friends now. I did go a large portion of my life without any one I could really talk to and it was a Hellish and isolated existence. I still have really bad trust issues though because of some things that have happened to me.

You have any good friends or family to fall on, Anon?

>>82262590
I am glad you found them nonna. No unfortunately and I know it is kinda my fault since I feel attracted to building romantic relationships rn you know? Like I tried platonic but for some reason rn I am so gravitated towards non platonic ones

>>82262440 (OP)
You are merely experiencing what guys experience regularly.

>>82262485
I read what you claimed, I just think you're a liar.

>>82262615
>for some reason rn I am so gravitated towards non platonic ones
I understand. I have a theory on it though.

More or less, we are all lonely and have issues connecting with the people around us. Even many of our friends and family we struggle to be truly vulnerable with them and understood by them. We wear a mask, we feel like imposters, even among the people closest to us. As such we seek that person that we can truly be ourselves with and that we can deeply understand and be understood by in a way that we could with no one else.

The problem is that in seeking that so very adamantly we are less likely to find it. We will find a person that fits roughly into the silhouette of what we are looking for and project onto them many things that just aren't there, and ignore parts of them that are. We struggle to find connection and will instead - ignorant of the fact we are doing so - force a romantic connection where one does not belong.

Pretty sure that's what happened to me at least. And I've seen a few friends of mine repeat the pattern... much to my dismay.

>>82262656
I am too sad to read rn but will try to wait

Regardless thank you

>>82262725
You're good, sorry I'm kinda speeding out and writing a wall of text.

>thank you
It's no bother. As a sad person myself, I like talking to other sad people and doing my best to make things better.

I wish you well

>>82262780
>pic
its called passive suicidality. I've been feeling like that since preteen. It never goes away.

>>82262807
My shrink called it suicidal ideation. Apparently I've had it since I was six. I keep choosing dangerous jobs hoping it will happen without me being the guy who has to do it.

I get money from the VA for it though, so whatever.