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Anonymous No.82264640 >>82264664 >>82264678 >>82264704 >>82264749 >>82265906 >>82265961 >>82266091 >>82266442 >>82267163
Men complain about the male loneliness epidemic and blame women for all of it, yet they refuse to build deeper connections with other men and accept subpar treatment from their male friends. It's truly insane to me
Anonymous No.82264664
>>82264640 (OP)
>Men are complaining that I don't do anything for them? Clearly they should just rely on other men for everything and only interact with me when it'a time to give me what I want
I mean it's your life to live but don't you dare fo around whining about how "guys these days are scared of committment"
Anonymous No.82264678
>>82264640 (OP)
Men suck. It is like demanding that a scorpion stop stinging people. Only homosexual men have actual depth and feelings. Guys that were not lucky enough to be born gay are doomed. It is probably karma to be born as a bottom 80% straight male. Most bottom 80% men would betray any other low value men for a crumb of pussy. As a result they do not have real lives or relationships. This also explains why some low value men will get repeatedly divorced yet keep marrying again and again
Anonymous No.82264704 >>82264752
>>82264640 (OP)
Foids and their simps will say that but I have good friends, ones that are better than they will ever have. I work with women, women will have different "friends" at each birthday party they throw. Laughable that they are the ones to even distort what it means into it being an all encompassing friendship thing.
I just dont have a lifepartner, that is all.
Anonymous No.82264749
>>82264640 (OP)
>Men complain
I'm very grateful.
>Male loneliness epidemic
It's ok to feel alone.
>Blame all women for it
Mostly jokes but no? Who the fuck told you that?
>Refuse to build deeper connections with other men.
I'm like that with everyone but why do I have to build 'deep connections' with men specifically? Other guys are assholes mostly, unless you're a hole I guess.
>Accept subpar treatment from other men.
You are a really close to stepping into a fantasy land at this point.
>It's truly insane to me.
Who the fuck died and made you the expert on men?
Anonymous No.82264752 >>82266226
>>82264704

I have no problem at all admitting that male friendships are far stronger and deeper than female friendships.
But most moids here SEVERELY overplay their supposed 'loneliness'.
Like you said, they don't have a wet hole to fuck. That's all. But even the most quiet and withdrawn of them have richer friendships than a lot of women have.
Anonymous No.82265906
>>82264640 (OP)
>"Men complain about the male loneliness??? Just be gay, dude!"

Kys whore
Anonymous No.82265937
Current society is deeply sociopathic. People have stopped being relational beings and have become transactional beings. It's just not worth it.

Male "friends" nowadays are just as catty and malicious as women. Constantly envious and competing instead of building. Spiritually effeminate.
Anonymous No.82265961 >>82265970
>>82264640 (OP)
I got my male friends. Men that I can say without hesitation that I would kill and die for. Men that I can be open and honest with. Men that have talked me off of a ledge in my worst moments, and for whom I have returned the favor.

Still really wish I had a girl to spoon with so I could sniff her hair. I miss that shit.
Anonymous No.82265970 >>82265982 >>82266086
>>82265961
>Men complain about the ma-*ACKKK*
Anonymous No.82265982
>>82265970
>Forcing femanon to Brush her teeth against her will.
What a deplorable wretch you are, anon
Anonymous No.82266086
>>82265970
that is so gangster
Anonymous No.82266091
>>82264640 (OP)
>Men complain about the male loneliness epidemic and blame women for all of it
I don't "blame" women for it. To say I "blame" them would suggest that I think there's some moral failing on their part for choosing to not associate intimately with certain men. While I think it's definitely the chief cause of loneliness in men (I don't know whether it's prevalent enough to call it an epidemic), I also think people should be free to associate with whoever they want in their personal relationships. I don't even necessarily blame certain women for feeling permanently turned off when their male partner is emotionally vulnerable with them. You can't really control how you feel about things, you can just accept it. But I will ABSOLUTELY blame the women who try to rationalize it by claiming that the man did something wrong by being vulnerable. That's levels of fucked up that are truly sickening. I also blame women who say they don't care about men being lonely. It's a very antisocial position. I think in a good society we all should be interested in our fellow humans doing well.
>yet they refuse to build deeper connections with other men
I can tell you from experience, that certain kinds of interactions with men simply don't make you feel the same way they would, if you were instead interacting with a woman. A hug from a woman makes you feel completely different than a hug from a man does. Talking to a woman makes you feel completely different than talking to a man does. I think it's simply a biological reality, that you cannot have the kind of emotionally intimate connection with another man you could with a woman.
>accept subpar treatment from their male friends
They treat me fine. It's not their fault they can't make me feel the same way that women can.
>It's truly insane to me
That's because you have a misunderstanding of certain facts around this issue, as I explained.
Anonymous No.82266226 >>82266917
>>82264752
>Minimizing the universal desire for intimate companionship as merely having a wet hole to fuck
Eros and philia are both nice and almosy key to a healthy social mind but they are vastly different and shouldnt even be grouped together.
Anonymous No.82266442
>>82264640 (OP)
I hate this claim that men don't have close male friends, it always comes from either women who don't actually know anything about male friendships, because how could they, or loser guys who simply don't have friends because they're losers. You see make friendships from the outside, the joking around and shit talk, and not behind closed doors where actual close talking and support happens.
Anonymous No.82266917
>>82266226
I wish the concept of the dour loves was more widely known. I think it would clear up a lot of confusion at the societal level
Anonymous No.82267163
>>82264640 (OP)
I don't want other men, I want a woman. Why is this so hard to understand? Do you think, as a foid, having other women in your life fulfills the same needs as having a man in your life? Of course not. So why would it be any different for men?