Thread 82268787

my only friends irl all ghosted me. now what? how do i make new ones?

sayonara

>>82268787 (OP)
I have no clue what an IRL friend is, but take solace in the fact all ghosters burn in hell because treachery is a major sin.

>>82268871
i don't believe people go to hell albeit

>>82268787 (OP)
do you have online ones? they can be way better rhan these fuckign normies you were with irl

>>82269000
Then know immense misery will follow them like they deserve.

>>82269064
i don't really trust people online enough to be friends with them. it sucks.

>>82269076
i trust my online frens more than anyone i ever saw irl with my eyes
but anyway idk u dont need that much trust to be friends with people like whast the worst that could happen??

>>82269151
i'm just paranoid i guess idk

>Ghosted me
They were never friends to begin with. True friends are few and far between

Everyone important to me always does this, and then claim to care...

bro bro i can be your friend

>>82268787 (OP)
just make online friends, you'll have more chance to find someone that have the same interests than you, and thus, create a strong bond.

>>82268787 (OP)
>how do i make new ones?
MMA gym

>>82269656
i doubt i'd be any good at it

>>82268787 (OP)
If you are over the age of 21, you dont.

>>82268787 (OP)
are you a femoid fembot female? add my discord jima1924

>>82270781
oh my god die

>>82268787 (OP)
Am I the only person who likes being ghosted? What a relief to be able to return to solitude. I can enjoy a person for a week or a month but any longer than that and I'm straight up not having a good time.

>>82270792
Yes. Abandonment is biologically wired to hurt people.

>>82270784
Dont add that piece of shit. Hes ugly as fuck and a sub 9 out of 12. Im a 4 out of 15 but I have a cool personality once you get to know me, youll really like being around me and my pretty big penis. Its pretty big, look im not the type to brag, but its definitely the biggest youve ever seen, probably bigger than the black guys you been dating.

>>82270818
Oh I got vaccinated in childhood for that. I don't understand not being abandoned like it actually makes me extremely uncomfortable.

If you have anyone who's still obsessed with you this long, chances are that's a loyal friend, Tosen.

>>82269288

>>82270842
People who have been abandoned a lot as kids tend to be even more fucked up by it, and become hyper dependant. Some people with some traumas as kids have harmful "hyper independance" which is where someone refuses to rely on anyone, and doesn't let themselves fully trust anyone. Then there is schizoid, but that is mostly nature (wired different) with some nurture.

>>82270892
I am schizoid. My understanding is that maternal neglect in very early childhood is a major trigger for it, something to do with the kappa opioid system if I remember right.

>>82270892
What if you're biologically wired to love being abandoned and your principle love interest is biologically wired to get off on watching you squirm

>>82270924
One person is abnormal and one is not. Only the person wired normally, or dependant is the one getting badly hurt in that scenario.

>>82270979
But what if both parties are actually into the dynamic

>>82268787 (OP)
Sometimes I isolate when I don't feel good. It has nothing to do with you and if it does then it's just something that we need to work out. I don't know why a lot of girls ghost instead of just sticking around and working through it. Hearing my person's voice is usually what gets me through. Something's feel like it takes a lot of effort or it's a big deal but if I just do it, rip off the Band-Aid then I find that I was over reacting and making it something it was not because I was having difficulty with my own stuff.

>>82270924
Bullshit. Girls are not biologically wired to want to be abandoned. All you're doing is trying to reinforce that statement with something sexual in the next sentence. Manipulative

>>82270979
you can post on this sub that's where all the lonely ones go

>>82268787 (OP)
They weren't your friends. You're lying to yourself.