Thread 82274523

how do you cope with limerance? i dont know why i like her so much, she is so clearly not interested in me and never will, im the total opposite of everything she is attracted to. and if i were to try to become what she was attracted to i would no longer be me. bros when does it stop hurting

>>82274523 (OP)
You were emotionally abused or neglected when you were younger

Instead of looking for people who align with you. You have the dysfunctionally belief you have to win over emotionally unavailable people

>>82274546
but idk i just like her so much and i want her to be part of my life somehow she just doesnt reciprocate it, but i know she is lonely, i dont know why im not good enough to get past her armor. you are right though i have this hole in me and i feel the need to fill it, im idealising her too much but i cant stop

>>82274615
I used chatgpt to mock me for my oneitis bs and it partially worked. I told it about her and it independently came to the conclusion that she was speaking to multiple other guys.

>>82274546
That is insightful and probably true. I also just will never find another 325 pound girl with blue eyes so it is GG

>>82274523 (OP)
all of these things are changeable. i recommend starting with learning how to get good sleep. it makes everything easier and makes the bad thoughts weaker

>>82274523 (OP)
Youre probably bored more than anything else, you're not busy enough to have the distractions that normally would prevent you from falling for such ridiculous human emotions
I've noticed I'm less depressed when I'm super busy even if it's just pain in the ass shit like work or stuff that I need to do at home
If your mind is unoccupied these types of thoughts may creep in

>>82274546
how did she paint her nails?