Thread 82288601

Its not even my looks that are keeping me from getting a girlfrend, I'm fucked in the head from growing up watching my dad get belittled by my mother. I was a little bastard and often sided with her, but secretly hoped he would smack the living shit out of her. Looking at it back now I even think if he killed her in a fit of rage it would have been 100% deserved. What makes it even more funny is that she used to date a abusive jerk and my dad never laid a finger on her - Did being a good kind man earn him respect? No, his kindness was seen as weakness.

>>82288601 (OP)
>his kindness was seen as weakness.
there are studies that show that in order to have a good relationship, the woman needs to love the man more, and we all know that rarely happens (unless they marry chad)

It's always the man who simps for her, thus most marriages end up bad.

>>82288601 (OP)
>often sided with her, but secretly hoped he would smack the living shit out of her
this is headcannon; you made it up to cope with your past behavior.