Thread 82290880

I just got diagnosed with autism as an adult, what do you guys do to manage?

how can i give you any tips when i don't know what your case is like

>>82290887
>how can i give you any tips when i don't know what your case is like
im retarded and dont know how to tell you what "my case" is, so please tell me what you need to know to give me tips

>>82290880 (OP)
Why in the fuck would you gimp your own life like that? There are literally zero benefits to getting diagnosed as an adult since you just get a "mentally defective" label slapped onto your permanent record so you're effectively shut out from anything higher than menial retail, and it's not considered debilitating enough for neetbuxx (which are getting cut) anyways.

>>82290880 (OP)
Does this pic work with sexes reversed?

>>82290880 (OP)
I just obsess over niche topics

>>82290948
>Why in the fuck would you gimp your own life like that?
I don't know how knowing if i have something gimps me

>There are literally zero benefits to getting diagnosed as an adult since you just get a "mentally defective" label slapped onto your permanent record
I already have that since I have a PTSD diagnosis and have had issues forever. These records aren't centralized either, at least in America, they're held by clinics.

>so you're effectively shut out from anything higher than menial retail
no? I dont have to share my medical record with employers. I'm self-employed anyways.

>it's not considered debilitating enough for neetbuxx (which are getting cut) anyways.
I don't want neetbux, i dont care to be another welfare leech and im glad that they're cutting these.

>>82290880 (OP)
I spent the ages between diagnosis and adulthood basically just denying I had any problems and forcing myself to socialise. I lost my virginity at 14 by pretending to be a quirky loser instead of just a sperg (this was 2009 when you could get a scene or emo girl by acting a bit wacky). When I turned 16 I started drinking before socialising and learning what parts of me people liked (gently sardonic, faux-egotism, saying the most ridiculous shit with a totally straight face) and discarded the things people didn't like. Eventually I started sleeping around like crazy after being dumped by my girl and losing 80 pounds. After years of this I had a mental breakdown and I am 30 and have lost all desire for material wealth and struggle with not just drinking all day to escape my own brain. I had multiple mental breakdowns over not knowing which version of myself was the real me. Sometimes I am not sure if my memories are real or if I invented them the way I invented my personality.

Basically, fake it till you make it, but even then you might just make yourself miserable. Also, probably relevant, but apparently I have an IQ in the low 140s, but that never made my life better. When people think you are "smart" they start having ridiculous expectations.

>>82290968
>Does this pic work with sexes reversed?
no, because aspie women are all lesbians or trannies and will never love a sperg guy.

>>82291017
>gently sardonic, faux-egotism, saying the most ridiculous shit with a totally straight face
this is also what people like in me, but it's not what I want to be. I like being spastic, naive, and nice to others, but others don't like that (or take advantage of me when I am like that).

>Basically, fake it till you make it, but even then you might just make yourself miserable
this is my current mode of operating and I was hoping that there's an alternative.

>I have an IQ in the low 140s, but that never made my life better. When people think you are "smart" they start having ridiculous expectations.
I'm also a smartie, i graduated early from college and high school and these days I try to present as much as possible like a retard unless it benefits me.

>>82291021
That's really evil of them..

Is there any group of people who'd love a sperg? Or what kind of sperg?

>>82291046
>Is there any group of people who'd love a sperg?
abusers, manipulators, and BPDemons. reason being, they're easy targets because of how inept they are and since they don't have support systems to save them.

but for good people? no, they'll just use a sperg's talents (if they have any) and then discard them the second they're spastic in an inconvenient way

>>82291061
Isn't there some so to say lost link between aspie girl's attractiveness and sperg's lack of it?

>>82291095
aspie girl = quirky
aspie guy = ick

>>82291223
But what stops the latter from being seen as quirky other than genitals?

>>82291245
When men behave inappropriately theyre a danger to everyone around them.
Women couldnt be if they tried

>>82291272
Ok, I'll put it straight, is it obtainable to be quirky in girl's way?

>>82291299
No. Unless you are a girl.
The exact same personality on a man may be creepy or threatening that would be cute and quirky on a woman.

>>82291314
Ans there's no solution to this?

>>82291061
This. Mind the tail.

>>82291326
No. You can enjoy your interests, but you need to understand that obsessiveness is not desirable when attached to a physically threatening being.
If youre a >160cm thin man, you can probably get away with it. But otherwise no chance.

>>82291353
>>160cm thin man
twink death kills all endearment too. even pedo foids will abandon you and your child-like ways.

>>82290880 (OP)
These niggas make bikes out of scraps of wood and use them to transport goods for cash. That makes them more productive and smarter then everyone in this thread.

>>82291872
they live in niggerborea where the lack of governmental regulations allow them to do this.

>>82291885
>they live in niggerborea where the lack of governmental regulations allow them to do this.
It's sad to think an illegerate congoese has more upward mobility then a modern westoid.

>>82291901
>an illegerate congoese has more upward mobility then a modern westoid
stop reminding me of that. when the tech industry collapses and the government steps in to put 5000 miles of red tape on everything, im going to end up just like every other unemployed aspie

>>82291921
>be illiterate African .
>Make bike out of scraps of wood.
>Make $500 a month transporting goods.
>Buy house and have 3 wives.
Frenchman
>Wants to do reselling
>Had to submit 17 forms , take 15 classes and do 19 inspections costing 2,000 euros.
>Need a license to buy used goods
>Need license to store good
>Need to send samples of items you bought to labs to see if they have "harmful materials"
>Need licence to buy from other resellers
>All licenses cost $200 euros
>You're a business so all supplies you buy have %30 tax to fund migrant shelters
>All profits are taxed at 65%
>Your taxes are taxed at 30%
>Make less then the African .

>>82292024
Reading it all out just made me have a panic attack
The modern civilization is seriously hellish and insufferable living in it causes me sharp suffering every single day.

>>82290880 (OP)
I became a Serbian patriot, just like Snorpu

You should too

>>82292024
anon stop it, stop reminding us of these painful truths

>>82291017
Shit like this sends my schizo side into a frenzy as it is 100% me. I've read so many stories recently on this website that makes me wonder if there's a goddamn CIA AI that tailors threads towards me. That, or why is it so many zillenialls are experiencing this?

>>82290948
I came to this thread to try and help OP out, but then I saw this post and realized I'm the fucked one here. I've been on neetbux for about 10 years now and I'm not even 30 yet. Haven't held a job longer than 3 weeks, I have gone to the hospital twice for stress and anxiety related conditions.

>>82292822
Bro its over. I went a year without holding a job and interviewers talk to me like I have a criminal record because of that

>>82290880 (OP)
Autism is not real. Kill yourself

>>82293596
I got an interview at a thrift store pretty recently and almost made it, but I have a bad back and can't do constant lifting. I'd accept my life as a failure but mom gets on me all the time about not being able to get a job.

>>82290880 (OP)
>I just got diagnosed with autism as an adult,
Lucky bastard. I'm waiting years for mine, even though I've tested multiple times at 30th percentile.
>what do you guys do to manage?
For me, it's being a NEET hermit. It's the least worst way for me to live.
Being around normies is hell. Just a shame about the inceldom though.

>>82290880 (OP)
I don't manage, I want to kill myself becuase I hated tismoids all my life. Knowing that I am one just makes so much sense now but it doesn't change that I hate myself even more now, it's compounding with other things that make me consider murder suicide.

>>82291017
>not knowing which version of myself was the real me.
>sometimes I am not sure if my memories are real or if I invented them the way I invented my personality.
I never made it in the sense that you did, but I did start masking heavily (it still doesn't make me that likeable) and it fucked my head up in a similar way.

>>82292024
I walk dogs and make 3k a month
I resell stuff for 500 a month
I am American sir

>>82290880 (OP)
I just gave up and live like a lunatic, or more precisely as a stylish and principled man in a world of retarded nihilist slobs.

>>82291017
We're kindred spirits but I never sullied my beautiful sperg body.