Thread 82292706

Is having the bpd gfs really as bad as people say it is?
The only thing I worry when having a bpd gf is she starts cheating on me or whoring herself as revenge because I didn't do what she had to say, is that common in the relationship?
Otherwise if she insults me it won't really affect me or if she tries hurting me it won't really hurt unless she has a knife

its fucking horrible. im not even joking. theyre so delusional it genuinely kills all feelings. im talking about actual bipolar women

yes theyre like a female abusechad and will leave you broken before monkeybranching to someone else

>>82292716
BPD is Borderline Personality Disorder. BPD for Bipolar is a 90s-00s thing.

>>82292706 (OP)
BPD women cheat. A lot. That's the whole problem. Otherwise people would tolerate their bullshit, but if there's one thing that everyone hates, it's being cheated on.

>>82292716
Please expand, what do you mean delusional?
>>82292720
What if I am an abusechad myself or the very least I have little to no importance of what she says to me?

>>82292725
Wdym cheat, like they go around fucking other guys or just sending nudes to other people

>>82292764
Both and more.

yes it is as bad or even worse speaking from experience

>>82292706 (OP)
speaking personally its WORSE than you imagine, seen it destroy so many peoples lives and nearly mine

>>82292720
>yes theyre like a female abusechad and will leave you broken before monkeybranching to someone else
Ok, but how do they differ from regular women though?

>>82292716
Idk if you meant bipolar as in always changing between opposites, or actually bipolar personality. The latter is completely different to bpd.

>>82292706 (OP)
Yeah, cheating is the only thing that worries me.
I can handle everything else, and have in the past.

>>82292725
Do all of them cheat? Can you have bpd and not do that?

>>82293617
Why dont you go watch YouTube testimonies on BDP abuse? Any anon on here could make up some bullshit and you clearly want to indulge in story time so why not go straight to the source?

I hate schniggers.

>>82293663
Stop, no racism in my thread
>>82293608
Poor anon
How was your life almost destroyed??
>>82292784
Oh gosh :|
Is there anything good about them then?

>>82292706 (OP)
If they tell you they have bpd. Run away. Even if they say they are "treated" you run the fuck away. There is no fixing them.

I heard it's like having all of the burdens of being in a relationship and the burdens of being single at the same time.

>>82293712
Can someone fucking explain to me what the fuck is BPD? I thought BPD women were just yanderes but irl

>>82293981
Im trying to figure this out too XD
I thought BPD women were clingy girls who loved you but just got really mad sometimes for no reason

when they're having their daily BPD tantrum just let them smoke it out in their room then come back in an hour and cum inside them

>>82293981
>yanderes
Similar, but a yandere actually loves their target a bpdwhore doesn't.
bpdwhores has something they call a "favourite person" that they love to abuse, gaslight, scream at, treat like shit. You would think after lovebombing and going out of their way to never let this favourite person they would never cheat on them, but they often do.
As for the getting mad part. They have something called splitting. Where some minor thing can turn them completely black or white. They will either see you as a complete saint or see you as a rapist degenerate.
Look you want to avoid these freaks. I have only interacted with one on the internet thank God. She was a freak who was into guro and had fantasies of cooking me. She had the audacity to call me a filthy rapist while getting off to disgusting psycho shit.
These "people" need to be euthanised.

This is literally the worst fucking mental disorder. I am afflicted with it. I have though, every single day, obsessively for this person for the last 9 years. 9 years of my life surrounded in my head with him. Please don't date us. I'm fucked up in the head and gay. Dating us will literally just make an inseparable pair bond that ruins our lives.

He's never coming back for me (I deserve this suffering)

>>82294083
this sounds amazing, I wish a girl thought like that about me, I want that inseparable lifelong bond, I want to cuddle every day and shape each other
the issue seems to be that bpdemons choose unattainable targets for their affection.

>>82294096
>inseparable
>lifelong
rofl he's clueless

>>82294096
Not the demon.
>I want that inseperable lifelong bond
That's a complete lie that bpdwhores love to play. They cheat more than the average person, they say they love you, but will cheat on you behind your back.
>I want to cuddle every day and shape each other
Expect a ton of cuddles during the lovebombing phase. After that only occasionally, since you will be spending 50 % of your time being screamed at, accused for random things, walking on eggshells. Then when she switches side you get cuddles.
Not worth it.

>>82294096
The thing is people with BPD can switch between hating you with every fibre of their being or loving you the same.

I've managed to mitigate it personally and I haven't felt hate in 4 years.

>>82294119
Yeah I'd like only the loving phase please... I would hope to keep her that way by treating her right and reciprocating and making sure she takes her meds.

>>82294119
>dude with bpd
this is the most accurate way to explain it. i really do love the people i'm with but my brain can randomly decided i hate you. there is very little control over it and i don't notice it when the switch to hate mode starts until hours/days after. i usually feel bad afterwards and try and get that person to like me again or sometimes i never feel bad and still hate them.