Thread 82294060

im an incel in the late 20s and every year i find myself going on less dates and i don't know why. not to mention more people my age are getting married. i didn't realize how competitive it was, otherwise i'd have focused more on dating when i was younger and not on my career or personal development, hoping it would happen automatically once i got money and status.

>>82294060 (OP)
>incel
>>82294060 (OP)
>competitive

>>82294060 (OP)
>hoping it would happen automatically once i got money and status.
The only thing that happens automatically when you acquire money and status is that girls who had their fun try to settle for you.

>>82294064
yes, im completing with other incels for an expired crumb of bread that nobody wants.

>>82294077
i went to several speed dating events this year and this hasn't happened to me yet. the women there were almost all older than me, half of them overweight, either worked with children or office jobs. the results for each dating event was either 0 or 1 likes received, out of a total of 30 women. so, yeah.

>>82294060 (OP)
>an incel
> less dates
>less
>than zero
do these words just mutate over time huh

>>82294306
normfag op uses the term incel since he hasn't had sex in a couple months

>even wanting to go on dates and not just fuck them
I've been incel so long I don't even want dates. Just fuck me or block me. Cut the bullshit.

>>82294401
i'd want that too, but more so a girlfriend i could bring to family gatherings and to travel with. coworkers all went for summer vacations overseas with their wives and children, while i work because i don't have anybody to travel with. and bringing her to social events would do a nice bragging, like, "look who's an inkwell now" sort of thing, and i believe having a girlfriend would improve my status and social life tremendously.

>>82294436
I'm too NEET to give a shit about any of that. I just want some unpaid sex before I die. I don't care if she's old.
Though yes, it does seem impossible to actually find good GF material. They have all been run through by Chads. Dating is pretty much a scam now, seeing as it's well known now that they fuck Chad at first sight. I suppose your only hope is to hook up with a woman who wants you, and then wants to stick around. But for non-Chad men, that seems almost impossible now.

>>82294060 (OP)
>i didn't realize how competitive it was, otherwise i'd have focused more on dating when i was younger and not on my career or personal development, hoping it would happen automatically once i got money and status.
Same here. The advice I got during my teens and twenties was just that: focus on your education and career and you will find a girlfriend easily. That turned out to be a total lie, unless these people meant single moms or run-through women in their late 30s. I know I'm not delusional for thinking this is the advice that people gave me, because I see people stating this every day. Society doesn't want men like us on the dating market and tries to stall us for as long as possible.