how should *i* reject someone for once?
I got more or less politely rejected by some grill on a dating app that I honestly only took interest in because I considered her to be ideal arm candy, she just said that we're definitely no match judging by my profile description. No big deal in the end, at least she was honest and didn't bullshit me for some free expensive meal or other w*man trickery.
I've been on that app on and off for months now and there's some 6/10 cookie cutter grill that always matches me and today she texted me with a simple "hey how ur doing?"
quick side rant, I find it absolutely infuriating that women expect some funny, witty, interesting, bold and creative opener from men but hit you with the most basic shit ever if they out of a million times decide to text you first.
Anyways, she has two giant red flags for me, being a nurse since I work at a hospital in an administrative position for years and have lost all respect for nurses because they're insufferable, smartasses, whores or generally just unpleasant to be around except for a handful I get along with who hate their jobs and coworkers. Second red flag is that she's part of a volunteer fire department, i've been coerced into joining by my parents in the youth, didn't like the people there to begin with and got hazed as a newcomer ritual, so I quickly left.
Should I just ghost her? I know it's a shitty thing to do and I'd hate it if someone did it to me, but I'm too autistic to come up with a respectful rejection and I think straight up telling her I don't like nurses and firefighters makes me feel like a massive autistic retard. also its been a few hours since she texted so should I even bother now?
I've been on that app on and off for months now and there's some 6/10 cookie cutter grill that always matches me and today she texted me with a simple "hey how ur doing?"
quick side rant, I find it absolutely infuriating that women expect some funny, witty, interesting, bold and creative opener from men but hit you with the most basic shit ever if they out of a million times decide to text you first.
Anyways, she has two giant red flags for me, being a nurse since I work at a hospital in an administrative position for years and have lost all respect for nurses because they're insufferable, smartasses, whores or generally just unpleasant to be around except for a handful I get along with who hate their jobs and coworkers. Second red flag is that she's part of a volunteer fire department, i've been coerced into joining by my parents in the youth, didn't like the people there to begin with and got hazed as a newcomer ritual, so I quickly left.
Should I just ghost her? I know it's a shitty thing to do and I'd hate it if someone did it to me, but I'm too autistic to come up with a respectful rejection and I think straight up telling her I don't like nurses and firefighters makes me feel like a massive autistic retard. also its been a few hours since she texted so should I even bother now?