>>82300687
>I don't know why they're so proud of being shallow and manipulative
Emotionally immature. In days gone by men would've committed to a family, provided. Ofcourse there were still bad ones, but on the whole, it seemed like men were happy to do that.
Now they are emotionally stunted, a 25 year old behaves more like a teenager than an adult man. I don't care about a man's interests, if he wants to mess about in a dirty shed, or paint, or collect rocks, I don't care, what I care about is growing with someone, sharing my life with someone, making happy memories and experiencing the ups and downs of life with someone I can rely on and trust. To me, that's what makes life worth living, and like you said, it's almost impossible to find someone who wants that. It crushes my soul. My dad is in his late 60s now, idk what I'll do without him, he's the only family I have