>>82303335 (OP)
Reverse the roles.
Why is everything about femininity capable of getting thwarted by the phrase "reverse the roles"?
It's almost like the current zeitgeist is the result of laboring for an illusion and any attempt at dissolving it is met with the plugging of ears. And the doublethinks pile up like cowshit. One day it will reach its limit.
There is no value in coddling a lesser developed parasite being unless you believe in it. And you were probably conditioned to believe in it.
When I hear the word "femininity", I either feel indifferent or disgust. You can be like me. Just try. Learn the art of internalizing things and beliefs.