How do I tell my dad I'm trans? (or at the very least want to be feminine)
I made a thread of this last night, so it wasn't very informative, but I'm in a bit of a conundrum, so-to-speak.
My family is a bit odd, everyone loves me, but only my mother, my sister, and one of my brothers knows I'm "this way." but to get extra support (I.E therapy, medication, etc etc), I need to go through my dad. My issue is that my dad is a GIGANTIC gossip, so as soon as I tell him? EVERYONE ELSE is going to know. That, and he also said before that the second worst thing I could end up being is trans (even though he said he'd still love me even if I did things he didn't like.)
But I mean fuck, he still loves his other son even though he's a crazy narcissistic drug addict, maybe he'll love someone who's only crime is not feeling like a man?
I mean, he's not homophobic either, he's said that it's fine if I'm gay or bi, so maybe I could play around with that? Either way, I plan to get the people in my family who HAVE supported me around to converse with him about it, but.. it's kinda hard getting all 3 of them together at once.
Any advice would be appreciated, and please be nice to me, I'm not the most stable emotionally or mentally ;w;
Anonymous
8/26/2025, 11:49:23 AM
No.82305599
>>82305626
>>82305547 (OP)
>Any advice would be appreciated
Grow up. Transitioning is not medically possible, you would just end up as a man with a messed up hormonal profile.
Anonymous
8/26/2025, 11:54:52 AM
No.82305620
>>82305633
>>82305547 (OP)
I dont fucking Care you mentally ill faggot. Take this shit to /lgbt/
Anonymous
8/26/2025, 11:55:23 AM
No.82305626
>>82305684
>>82305599
anon I've had the mental state of a 14 y/o for as long as I can remember, and I'm currently 21, so.. probably not possible, sadly.
(that, and that's not a very nice thing to say.)
Anonymous
8/26/2025, 11:56:33 AM
No.82305633
>>82305620
I WOULD! But from what I've seen, the people there are somehow EVEN MORE MEAN than y'all are, so I just gave up .w.
Anonymous
8/26/2025, 11:58:53 AM
No.82305643
>>82305652
>>82305704
>>82305547 (OP)
Let me guess, you always played female characters in video games. Lmao femprotagtroons really are all troons.
>I-I just don't want to stare at a man's ass
T R A N N Y
Anonymous
8/26/2025, 12:00:31 PM
No.82305652
>>82305661
>>82305643
damn, okay. idk what the difference between "Morning /r9k/" and "Nighttime /r9k/" is, but there seems to be a genuine discrepancy in people types.
..but to answer your question; well, yeah? and? I like being cute :3
Anonymous
8/26/2025, 12:02:07 PM
No.82305661
>>82305674
>>82305652
You will never be a woman and you will never be cute. I hope that clears up any confusion.
Anonymous
8/26/2025, 12:05:17 PM
No.82305674
>>82305681
>>82305661
in order to insult me, I must value your opinion first.
..since you're a stereotypical depressed-as-shit pessimistic /r9k/ member, that is not happening. sowwy ;w;
Anonymous
8/26/2025, 12:06:41 PM
No.82305681
>>82305674
Nothing in my post was an insult. Those were just facts.
Anonymous
8/26/2025, 12:07:17 PM
No.82305684
>>82305626
it's too late too pass nigga ,you are stuck repping with real niggas like me nigga
>>82305547 (OP)
>he still loves his other son even though he's a crazy narcissistic drug addict
stick to amphetamines nigga ,90% of troons are hons and treated like shit
Anonymous
8/26/2025, 12:13:42 PM
No.82305704
>>82305750
>>82305753
>>82305547 (OP)
therapy is a meme. just buy diy and you dont need no deal with doctors and their gatekeeping. if you're underage you may face long waiting list, years before some 2mg E daily (hondose). You dont want that. Get diy and can take secretly up to a year until you get noticeable breast growth. Also keep in mind some parents would rather send their kids into psych ward rather than letting them start HRT.
>>82305643
>>I-I just don't want to stare at a man's ass
lmao. Because its easier associate myself with female than male
Anonymous
8/26/2025, 12:22:41 PM
No.82305750
>>82305704
>Also keep in mind some parents would rather send their kids into psych ward rather than letting them start HRT.
LMAO luckily my dad isn't like that. if that was the case, my druggie brother would of been in rehab by now.
Anonymous
8/26/2025, 12:23:59 PM
No.82305753
>>82305764
>>82305704
>2mg E daily (hondose). You dont want that. Get diy and can take secretly up to a year until you get noticeable breast growth
the dose doesn't matter that much ,genetics are what's really matters
Anonymous
8/26/2025, 12:25:51 PM
No.82305759
>>82305773
>>82305547 (OP)
You can't run from the truth. You are a man with a dick between your legs. If you cut it off, you'll still be a man just a castrated one.
Anonymous
8/26/2025, 12:26:32 PM
No.82305764
>>82305784
>>82305789
>>82305753
luckily I take after my mothers side really well, which mostly has effeminate looking men, alongside being short as fuck and having a very pretty face. my only issue is that due to being on my mothers side, I need to shave near-daily to avoid thick stubble, but I also can't shave near-daily due to skin conditions .w.
Anonymous
8/26/2025, 12:28:05 PM
No.82305773
>>82305759
HUH? Hell no I LOVE this thing. you couldn't get me to lop my weiner off even if I was paid a million quid for it lmao
Anonymous
8/26/2025, 12:32:32 PM
No.82305784
>>82305791
>>82305764
i wish the worst things upon you lucky nigger
Anonymous
8/26/2025, 12:34:32 PM
No.82305789
>>82305791
>>82305764
well then you should make the family and friends aware of what is going on inside.
Anonymous
8/26/2025, 12:36:40 PM
No.82305791
>>82305806
>>82305784
you can be mean to me, but you know what? I wish for you the best of things in life. I think you'll do really well :3
>>82305789
I should, yeah, but.. anxiety and paranoia issues are a bitch :c
Anonymous
8/26/2025, 12:39:40 PM
No.82305806
>>82305791
>I wish for you the best of things in life. I think you'll do really well :3
it all went wrong when i was born in 2nd world country with a chad jaw ,genetics that made me 6'1 and very muscular even without working out
Anonymous
8/26/2025, 4:39:28 PM
No.82307141
>>82305547 (OP)
You don't have gender dysphoria. You are just a porn addicted narcissistic.
Anonymous
8/26/2025, 4:44:01 PM
No.82307168
So why is it that when retarded males are polluted by xenoestrogenic compounds and have their hormones imbalanced to being less masculine they think it's better to completely ruin themselves irreversibly towards pretending to be a sex that they will never be instead of just taking the hormone for the correct sex that they have the equipment for?
It's like firefighters literally using fire to fight fire to burn down a house. Like why? Why are you doubling down and amplifying your defect? If you were a second degree burn victim would you finish the job to the maximum degree? You know testosterone exists right?
Anonymous
8/26/2025, 4:48:34 PM
No.82307188
>>82305547 (OP)
> That, and he also said before that the second worst thing I could end up being is trans (even though he said he'd still love me even if I did things he didn't like.)
> even though he said he'd still love me even if I did things he didn't like
what are you even afraid of femanon