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Anonymous No.82307606 >>82307710 >>82307783 >>82307821 >>82307830 >>82307849 >>82307867
AMA anything about flirting
I heard that this is the incel board of the 4channels.
I have been fairly successful with women unironically and I am here to do an AMA for anyone who is interested.
The focus is not on details about my personal life, although I don't mind sharing some situations. I want to focus mainly on your problems with girls. Ask me anything related, if you have a situation you would like to resolve, etc.

>inb4 trolling
if you are going to troll my thread at least put some effort so we can all laugh

Trannies, faggots, lesbians and whatever LGBT need not reply. I am not homophobic, but I am only here to offer help to heterosexual males who want to be more successful with heterosexual females.
I don't have any LGBT relationship experience, so for what I know I might do more harm than help by advising on it
Anonymous No.82307710 >>82307822
>>82307606 (OP)
What's your most successful line?
Anonymous No.82307734 >>82307763 >>82307822
>I am only here to offer help to heterosexual males who want to be more successful with heterosexual females
>unironically looking for dating advice HERE out of all places
I doubt anyone is seriously this retarded.
Anonymous No.82307763
>>82307734
This place is dead Friday night and Saturday morning/afternoon. There's probably more normalfags than autists here now
Anonymous No.82307778 >>82307795
what do you do when your GF takes a shit then comes to bed and she didnt tell you. you put your face next to her ass and it smells aweful.
how do i deal with that ?
Anonymous No.82307783 >>82307894
>>82307606 (OP)
>I have been fairly successful with women unironically
body count?
Anonymous No.82307795
>>82307778
what kind of question is that? obviously take a nice deep whiff.
Anonymous No.82307821 >>82307898
>>82307606 (OP)
I genuinely have no idea what to talk about with women. My interests are somewhat niche and extremely male brained.
What do you even talk about with them? How would an example opener go for talking to a woman you'd like to date?
Anonymous No.82307822
>>82307710
I have found that with most women it is not what you say but what you do. Especially in the beginning non-verbal communication is infinitely more important than verbal communication.
EXAMPLES:
- Eye contact
WHEN do you look at her?
HOW you look at her?
HOW OFTEN you look at her?
FOR HOW LONG you look at her?

- Understanding of her non-verbal communication:
Do you know what her signals mean?
Can you infer her current mood from her non-verbal signals?
Can you adapt to her mood based only on non-verbal clues?
If your answer is Yes, than she will be more interested in you because she feels she doesn't have to explain herself as much for you as for someone who doesn't understand this

I can expand on the topic of non-verbal communication, especially during the early stages, but to answer your Q - There are no magic "successful" lines. You can keep some lines in your armory, but they will be more like a construction of what you need to convey in certain situation and you create lines based on these constructions

>>82307734
I am not sure I understand what you mean, so I will disregard
Anonymous No.82307830 >>82307975
>>82307606 (OP)
>How do I find true love, anon
You don't know either lol. Fuck off
Anonymous No.82307849
>>82307606 (OP)
I never meet women to begin with kek.
Both my work and hobbies are just men.
Anonymous No.82307867
>>82307606 (OP)
Im an indian man

not even your experience can fix this, AMA this lil bro
Anonymous No.82307894
>>82307783
Around 30-40. I have had pretty wild 20's and it often happens that a memory of some girl that I have forgotten about suddenly appears in my mind.
Also - not all my conquests have involved full on intercourse. Some were just making out, some a bit more passionate naked making out, some were sex and some were just really nice deep conversations full of sexual tension.
So actual body count as in sex with should be around 30-40.
Anonymous No.82307898
>>82307821
>How would an example opener go for talking to a woman you'd like to date?
Really depends on how likely are you to meet that woman again. If you are colleagues and are likely to meet often for the foreseeable future, then start studying her:
Who is she friends with?
How does she dress? Does she have some personal style of just following trends?
Is she a happy person or sad?

When you get to know her periphery you will then start thinking of ways to cross her path and talk with her:
Maybe you are friends with someone who is close to her
Maybe you can arrange to have a shift together

No matter what you have spend time learning her routine at the place where you meet her, so if none of the above are optional just try to spend as much time around her and eventually an opportunity for "spontaneous conversation" will arise.

One really important thing - she should not feel like she is being stocked. You need to be extremely subtle with your information gathering. Just "happen" to be in the same place as her, but "happen" by chance doesn't mean 100% of the times. In some situations it is better to avoid going where she might be now, because you already went there yesterday and the day before.

If you have met her on the street, park, bar and you are not as likely to meet again look for something really unique about her - could be a piece of jewerly, could be her skirt, could be her make up, shoes, whatever seems unique and intriguing to you. Go to her and compliment her on this unique thing.

If you genuinely feel that this is what makes her special your "line" sound much more sincere.
Anonymous No.82307975
>>82307830
You need to try and get rid of the fear of being hurt as much as you can. You can never erase it completely but you try to lower it and you will find love