Thread 82311124

Im 27 and ive been with my girlfriend for the last 5 years. She was my first for everything, i was her first for nothing (she had two boyfriends before me). She is a very loyal partner and ive never felt like she was interested in anyone else, and she is also attractive, but i cant but feel a little resentful and desire having other experiences. Lately I have been getting infatuated with other girls. There is this Australian girl I have become friends with online who I find incredibly endearing, her voice her mannerisms etc. Something inside wants so badly to be with and experience other women but I worry 1) im too old, im approaching 30 and often times the girls im in interested in are around 19/20. I am probably passed my prime years for having fun and sleeping around, and 2) it may be the biggest mistake of my life. There is nothing really wrong with her even though we do have our fights, she is a loyal partner. Its not guaranteed anyone would ever love me again.

>>82311124 (OP)
>girlfriend
>>82311124 (OP)
>fights

>>82311124 (OP)
The Spaniard were just as brutal if not more with the natives.

>>82311124 (OP)
You are mentally ill.
You are obviously in the wrong, and retarded, but no amount of telling you bow retarded you are will change anything. You will fall for the first ragebaiter that calls you a cuck and have a meltdown. It will ruin your life.
I hope you at least know this and are able to think ahead.

>>82311124 (OP)
Yeah it's so over, am I right, fellow normalfags?

>>82311124 (OP)
DO
NOT
FUCKING
DO
THIS

girls will never give you what you want. I am you from both futures. I pursued the girl who reciprocated and always wondered what if. The australian girl was okay but it fizzled because the thrill wore off and she didnt improve my life in a particular way.

Alternatively I stayed with my girl now who was fine and i pat myself on the back for it but still thinking what if makes her behavior distasteful and like all women she is a selfish ingrate so i wonder what if.

I have had both relationships and more. It genuinely truly doesnt matter. All women are the same. Truly. Sorry.

>>82311151
Can I at least get a reason. I try to be logical. Why should I stay with someone if I just find myself emotionally detaching from them? Why is it wrong to crave variety as man

>>82311139
This is completely unrelated.
I think that comparing brutality is kind of retarded, in a war, both sides do bad things.
The spaniards, for example, had the last Inca emperor captured, and demanded all their riches in exchange for his life, he obliged. In the time his Inca subjects got all the gold and silver they had and dalivered it to the spaniards, the Inca emperor talked with his captors, he amazed them with his intelligence and skills, he even learned to play chess very quickly and was somewhat good at it. After all the valiables were delivered, they dragged the Inca emperor out of imprisonment to execute him anyway, breaking their promise. As he was being dragged, he died yelling:
>why are you killing me!
>what have I done wrong?!

The inca were very advanced, they were in process of erradicating human sacrifice and also enforcing monogamy. They permitted their conquered people to keep their cultures but to pay tribute to the Inca emperor, in short, they were extremely similar to every other empire of old, thought of themselves as "evangilizers" or bringers of civilization and were very reasonable. All of their culture was erased, however, to the point where we don't even know how to understand their writing system, the quipu, which they used to control cities, register taxes, record census data, record messages, etc. Only some oral traditions remain. And the writings of very few spaniards who took interest in their culture.

>>82311124 (OP)
Youre retarded dude youre 30 youre gonna ruin this relationship and then have nothing so you can have shitty sex with somone you dont love

>its not a guarantee anyone will ever love me again

I promise you they won't LOL

>>82311212
None of that is wrong, but the reason you frame it that way is because you are rationalizing you insecurity.
You have a good relationship with someone who loves you, but your head is too far up your ass thinking about having more pussy, that will ruin everything because of this insecurity.
It is not wrong to lose attraction for someone, it is wrong to let your insecurities grow so much and cotrol your thinking, blinding you to what you have, in the face of what COULD be, specially when what you want is so superficial.

>>82311124 (OP)
>fuck up gf
>fuck up yourself
>potentially fuck up other women for other men
Common blackpill W, do it.

>>82311237
I guess I feel a lot of regret and remorse for letting this relationship go on for so long. I used up all the best years of my life committed to this one girl I can never feel equal too. Youth passes so fast. I feel so stuck

>>82311124 (OP)
Just talk about having a threesome and get it out of your system.

>>82311265
She is an incredibly jealous type. Psychotically so. She would have a total meltdown about me suggesting it, even though she is a supposed bisexual woman

>>82311237
Whats wrong with being 30?

i'd pay 1k to fuck her desu. what's the lowest she would take?

>>82311124 (OP)
It's so funny that onionsciety will tell men like you that they're insecure and in need of therapy for disliking the fact that their girlfriend has had prior boyfriends but will tell INSANE TRANNIES that they are hecking valid and should chop their dicks off.
YOUR FEELINGS ARE VALID AND RATIONAL.
THERE IS A REASON THAT WOMEN WERE VIRGINS AT MARRIAGE ALL THE WAY FROM ANCIENT GREEK UNTIL WORLD WAR 2.
This is true EVERYWHERE that hasn't been RAPED by feminism. In Africa, the tribes that haven't been raped by contact with zog civilization practice teen marriage to nubile virgins.
My advice: CHEAT ON HER
It's pretty simple. Be discreet, hire escorts with cash you've withdrawn from your bank account in a variety of small payments and fuck them until you've beaten her numbers by a hefty amount. This way, you're no longer the more inexperienced one in the relationship. If you feel bad, just know that now both of you feel equally bad about having sex with someone who you aren't going to spend the rest of your life with. If she doesn't feel bad, SHE'S A DISGUSTING TREACHEROUS TRAITOROUS WHORE.
>What's wrong with you??? Icky disgusting incel! She's allowed to have sex with other men before him!
And he's allowed to have sex with other women after her. MAYBE she should have WAITED. It REALLY isn't that hard, given that I have waited TWENTY-TWO YEARS OF MY LIFE WITHOUT AN INKLING OF ROMANCE OR SEX.
If someone like ME, someone with an INTENSE DESIRE for love and compassion and companionship and SEX AND FUCKING can wait, then so can she.
BUUTTTT NO.
Do it, and know that you're only cheating because you love her enough to destroy yourself, crumbling to her level and making you equals.
(I'd never be able to tolerate this so I applaud your mental fortitude. If I found out the virgin teen I WILL shortly ACQUIRE and MAKE LOVE TO and MARRY lied and had had sex with someone else prior to I would cut her into cubes and flush her down the toilet and then slit my own throat.)

>>82311124 (OP)
If you want to have a relationship with more than one person, there are legitimate ways to do so without hurting other people.

>>82311124 (OP)
Don't listen to all the toasty roasts ITT, you're a man you need sex to stay fresh or your need for novelty will kick in, and physiologically make you like your gf less.
Your option are the following:

1)cheat, fuck and don't care, you did it, you got your new pussy, go back loving your gf as usual

2) ask your gf to open the relationship or just ask her to fuck someone else

3) ask her to role play and wear different dresses, fuck I'm different places out try new things in general

4) suppress your libido and emasculate yourself like most married men so.

No your desires are perfectly normal op, so pick your poison

>>82311124 (OP)
You gotta ask yourself if trying to fill the void is worth destroying a potentially great future. I'm in the same boat as you except I'm 32 and I've been feeling resentful that I wasted my youth. I look back filled with regret that I was such a pussy and missed so many opportunities to get laid. I at least have the excuse of having a large scar I've been self conscious about my entire life for holding me back. My fiance has not once ever cared about it or given it more than a cursory glance.

She's one of the best things to ever happen to me yet I still feel like I need more. Like banging sluts would somehow make my life more complete. Would the sex even be better? Very unlikely, my fiance lets me cum in her mouth and she swallows.

God I wish I could turn back the clock. In many ways I'm exactly the same person I was a decade ago crying on /r9k/ about how life sucked and everything was so unfair. I guess some of us are just destined to be bitter and forever able to find unhappiness where none existed previously.

>>82311212
Then don't. Throw away five years of investment in a potential family for something that has a miniscule chance of success just because of some feelings.

Just realize at the same time that you're the same type of for-the-streets low value trash everyone makes fun of. I'm not telling you not to do it by the way, you should 100% break up with your girlfriend to let her stop wasting her time with you, you can optionally also tell her that you want to fuck hoes on the side and see if she stays.

>>82311788
Go on, explain please anon

>>82312068
>you should 100% break up with your girlfriend to let her stop wasting her time with you
Or he could just fuck other women behind her back and keep the relationship.
Have his cake and eat it too.
I'm playing the devil here, but 99% of the time arguments like this come from women.
As I said
>>82311882
these are his choices, pick one or live repressed and restless.
None wants to admit that men need sex and need it from multiple partners on a most basic animalistic level, unlike women that are fine with one Chad.
Either explore polygamy and have wealth and courage to face its problems and risks, or be creative with your gf,or just fuck behind her back.

Most women don't understand also that men cheating doesn't compromise their love for their woman, unlike for women cheating.

>>82311124 (OP)
Don't do it anon. A moment of pleasure isn't worth throwing away 5 years of your life and countless of the future.
Please keep in mind you are asking this question to a bunch of retarded larpers who have very likely never interacted with a woman. It is okay and perfectly normal to think about other women, both romantically and sexually, but please never act on it.

If you absolutely must throw away everything for this woman, break up with your girlfriend first. Nobody deserves being cheated on.

My favorite hobby is creating a bunch of issues and throwing them in the middle of the road so I trip and stumble to get hit by a car so I don't get what I want

>>82312117
>Go on, explain please anon
Polygamy is an example of a legitimate way to be sexually active with more than one person without hurting anyone. An open relationship (where you can be sexually active with other people but keep dating/having an emotional connection with one person) is another example. Couple exchanging (swinging) is another possibility. An orgy is another one (you get the point, any non-monogamous type relationships/activities). When you *choose* monogamy you sign a social contract that you'll keep fidelity to one person and breaking it is immoral and will hurt people.

>>82311124 (OP)
Just cheat on her if you wanna get it out your system

I honestly can not comprehend why a non virgin woman should deserve even a nanometre of loyalty

>>82311232
And we would do it again

>>82311124 (OP)
i used to follow the girl in the picture on instagram, she has a cute nose.

>>82311124 (OP)
Ignore the doomers/cucks in the thread, if you want more sexual experience then go and get it. If you really dont want to break up just cheat on her, but its probably better to just break up. If you missed out on fucking around in your 20s its not too late to get a similar experience in your 30s.

>>82313639
>If you missed out on fucking around in your 20s its not too late to get a similar experience in your 30s.
The caveat being you have to like fucking single moms and girls with visible signs of aging