Thread 82312296

Can you make up for lost youth in your 30? Specifically as it pertains to dating/hooking up with young women, having fun with friends, and generally living a carefree lifestyle

>>82312296 (OP)
>Specifically as it pertains to dating/hooking up with young women
If you're willing to be the creepy old guy in the club hitting on college girls, but even then at best you'll get a frigid gold digger. at worst you will get kicked out of the club.

>>82312296 (OP)
>Can you make up for lost youth in your 30?
no

>>82312296 (OP)
It's weird how you keep turning it into something it's not. I'm obviously attracted to his age and he's attracted to mine but it's not about a number it's about each other.

So yes we will fuck each other's brains out. That's a given

>>82312296 (OP)
you can easily hook up with young women via tinder but dont expect to be seen as one of them, you were only young once and never again.

>>82312362
I've lived a very carefree life.

>>82312296 (OP)
I doubt it. The damage is already done

>>82312644
Clearly. Kek

>>82312296 (OP)
No because you are no longer a youth. You're over 30. You can still do all the exact same things but it will never be the same. You have 33% more life experience now than you did at 20 and that's counting the time you weren't even fully conscious as a baby. That youthful sense of discovery and uncertainty is gone and it can never be recovered. Welcome to the club OP.

>>82312296 (OP)
>Can you make up for lost youth in your 30?
Yes, it requires a certain mind-set and personality, though.
>Specifically as it pertains to dating/hooking up with young women
I've seen it happen. A~40yo guy with a 16yo girl, and she gave him a child when she reached 18. But the guy had tons of charisma and it's an extreme case that happened in a specific friend circle (a LARP group). So choose where and who with you hang-out.
>having fun with friends
You can do that at any age.
>generally living a carefree lifestyle
Yes, see above.

>>82312362
>>82312644
>>82312656
lore dump?

>>82312500
>>82312682
Man. It hurts so bad. I want a do over

>>82313260
What makes you think it'd be any different this time around? Have you learned anything, are you a different person? It's not even necessarily your fault of course. Also, you may not have even liked that life. You may just want attention and love which is still attainable.

>>82313320
Yeah we both have grown a lot

>>82312296 (OP)
The same retarded thread day after day. Your life is over, no woman dreams of some 30 year old ugly NEET fag

Yes, if you retire early you can do and experience anything you want.
t. exmil retired cryptofag

I'm gonna be honest, it has a lot to do with how you look. I went to my first animecon at like 32 and fit right in with the zoomer nerds because I look 25. You are treated how you look.

>>82312296 (OP)
Yes, but for you it's over. You don't have the money or balls to dress nice, drive a nice car and give drugs to barely legal teens until they're zonked out of their gourd and give up that tight little pink oyster

>>82313678
I was glad I spent 18-33 grinding.
As a man you should front load your hard work early in life while your body can take it.
The earlier you invest the better as well due to compound interest.
A lot of my peers who "lived the good life" in their 20s are like the grasshoppers who didn't put shit away before winter. Now their bodies are falling apart and they are trying to make up for lost time.
What's hilarious is being retired at 33 and having these clowns say "must be nice" as I choose to do whatever I want every day.

>>82312296 (OP)
Yes but it depends on where you live and if you look younger than normal. For example in New York City, there a many men who continue that lifestyle until they are 40.

>>82313710
that's funny being I date a 19 yr old when I'm 33 lulz. Things are never over for you if you have looks and money.

>>82312325
Best post. Its this simple

>>82312296 (OP)
There's no reclaiming for lost youth. There's no alternative to young love. Age gaps, the gym, and hooking are just ways to cope. Imagine an elderly person trying to graduate from high school it's just not the same.

>>82312296 (OP)
You can get on female hormones so you can stop your aging, and just become a rave slut

>>82312296 (OP)
Short answer. No.
Long answer. No.

>>82313320
>What makes you think it'd be any different this time around? Have you learned anything, are you a different person?
Of course with my experience I know how to avoid my life mistakes, and I have enough self believe to do things much earlier, because I finally did them. But that is of course cheating you can't go back in time and if you can then just
>buy Bitcoin

>>82312296 (OP)
No. This works when you are figuring out what kind of miserable cog you want to be exploited as under capitalism. You are in your 30s, you are supposed to have a house by now, regardless of how unrealistic this is, it is still the metric by which you are being judged. You are a loser and a deadbeat by this standard, you won't be interesting younger people, who will see you as a weirdo loser. You might be able to find a single mother to hook up with.