Thread 82313561

What is it actually like to have sex with a guy or tranny? Is it worth it?

>>82313561 (OP)
I want to sit in a guys lap and kiss him and have a long term and loving relationship holy fuck I'm a freak

>>82313561 (OP)
Idk you can frot and suck their dick and or fuck them in the ass or you can get fucked if you have enough prep

>>82313561 (OP)
I have been talking a big game to a guy online so I may be forced to find out sometime soon, hopefully I can do it and it isn't just horribly awkward.

>>82313561 (OP)
Like everything else sexual, once primal curiosity has been satisfied it's all about who you're with. Whether you're into them or not. If they're really incredible then it'll be great. If you're only in it for the tingle then it'll be...whatever.

>>82313561 (OP)
It is disgusting and you drink yourself to sleep because it makes you so disgusted and sick

>>82313561 (OP)
im soon gonna find that out, i've been in relationship with this tranny online and i believe i really like him, but idk how sex if gonna work because both of us have dicks and i might have a little fetish of getting pinned down by a feminine boy

>>82313561 (OP)
I want to have sex with a man so badly

I'm gay and a virgin at 20 somehow and i never did it and i really want to, i wanna kiss a guy and cuddle him so bad too

>>82313850
go on grindr
lots of men wanna fuck

>>82313850
what exactly are you waiting for? You know about the apps right?

i really liked this one guy on grindr and we planned to have sex, but i ended up deleting the app and never had sex with him because it didnt feel right
mfw im looking for real love even in men but everyone just wants sex

>>82313865
>>82313871
I'm too ugly for the apps... nobody would want me, i'm a mixed brown subhuman, not only did i fail at reproducing since im gay i also can't even attract other fags either

>>82313930
Do you have any idea how lower the standards are for gay men?? They fuck anything, literally just go in grindr

>>82313569
kys tranny/gay

>>82313929
Plenty of men want love, you are just shutting the doors to your heart and never trying.

>>82313948
Why did you come into a gay thread then? You can just hide and ignore it but you had to come in here just to be a jerk!

>>82313930
Maybe a guy who's just as ugly as you would want you? Isn't that enough for you?

>>82313930
>i'm a mixed brown subhuman,
This place is so dangerous because it preys on young vulnerable people like you, and make you believe these lies.

>>82313965
yeah, maybe thats true. but i wish i just had a genuine relationship wirh someone before having sex and not the other way around

>>82313947
I mean yeah someone would fuck me but would anybody even wanna date me?

I feel like i'd be good for only one fuck and that's it, i have a horse face.

I did e-date this guy who said i was cute but he ended up being massively mentally ill, narcissistic, and threatened to kill himself if i left him. He also obsessed over his ex and constantly talked about how much he hated him which made me uncomfy and it was also clear he wasn't over him

Whats sad is that he was actually really cute, even though he was a bit fat (i kinda like fat guys), he was 100% my type and usually i don't ever see a guy who i think is super cute and handsome and i'd wanna marry him, I genuinely wanted to be with him and i was considering meeting him IRL. i ended up ghosting him because he just started to scare me with his erratic behavior, the whole thing was just so disappointing i wanted to kms and i was so sad i was crying my eyes out
>>82313974
Uhhh yeah thats enough

I mean i wouldn't say i'm like deformed ugly but i am not conventionally attractive at all, my eyes are my only good feature but my facial structure is strange, nobody has ever complemented me in my life, yeah i could easily be with someone whos my looksmatch
>>82313980
Being brown is literally inferior, brown people are completely subhuman compared to whites, my father is one of the only exceptions. His country (bangladesh) is a fucking shithole full of people who aren't even human, of course he left there and married a white woman selfishly to have me

I wish i could just be white or something, white people are so fucking beautiful, the guy i was with looked like an angel and he was a white dude and it's fucking crazy how most white people just get to look like that

>>82314005
>genuine relationship wirh someone before having sex
Puritanical bullshit. There's nothing wrong with having sex in the beginning, before commiting. Don't be such prude about it. Or be ready to date a sexless weirdo like you.

Are there glory holes big enough for people to put their butts through?

>>82314010
>would anybody even wanna date me?
Yes, your looksmatch. You just have never tried

>>82314044
at that point why have a wall at all? Just go to a cruising spot

>>82314010
>e-date
>0 irl dates
And then you wonder why you don't have a bf

>>82314046
>Yes, your looksmatch. You just have never tried
I have like i said i tried to e-date this obese lard virgin furry NEET and i thought he was cute
>>82314062
I could try bringing a guy over to my apartment if my roommate isn't here but idk how that would go, i'd probably get blocked for being too ugly

I'm also a furry and i kinda wanna date another furry so that is impossible to find IRL or on grindr or whatever

>>82314010
>Being brown is literally inferior
My dear son, this place has rotted your brain like a disease. Imagine a homosexual who visits /pol/ and believes every piece of homophobic propaganda he sees there. That poor soul would become so self hating and self conscious.
That's you right now, but with race instead of sexuality. This place has distorted your senses, corrupted your better judgement, bewitched your mind and soul with lies and made you believe for real that you are less human for being brown.
Please anon, they're lying to you. You're like one of those school shooters from here who mistook memes for reality. You deserve better than that. Your skin is like chocolate and you should be proud of it. You are beautiful and you can't let this incels bring you down. As a white guy I tell you: there's nothing more beautiful than the bronze shades of skin.

>>82314082
>e-date
Doesn't count,not real. I want you to try in real life dating instead

>>82314095
Pol is wrong about many things but they are right my race is inferior, maybe mentally we aren't but physically indians/bangladeshis or whatever the fuck shitholes countries are in that subcontinent are ugly as hell, and very unfit, and also especially they are skinnyfat, which i am

At least i am half white so i can pass as an arab somewhat
>>82314118
I wanted to make it irl, i genuinely would've moved in with him after i graduated college and let him live with me, i wanted it so badly, i literally loved nobody else as much as him. I didn't care he was a mentally ill NEET that literally had no job, no life prospects, nothing and rotted at home, i wanted to fix him. But he was just a shallow, lazy, mentally ill, vapid retard, and i probably was just cock drunk after seeing his pics. I'm still sad about him.

I would try IRL dating maybe but like how do i tell people i like furries and i have a fursona or whatever i mean that is just fucking weird to everybody who is not that or has interacted with those people before

>>82314189
>they are right my race is inferior
No. My dear boy. They are not right about that at all. You believed their lies. You fell for their tricks. They got what they wanted: you completely demoralized, self conscious and ashamed.
You are not inferior because of your ethnicity please stop buying into racism. You are an individual, not a fucking point in a graph, not a statistic, not a number, you are a person and your worth doesn't depend on circumstances of birth beyond your control.
This place is poison for your soul, my dear boy. You are beautiful and your caramel skin is beautiful. Don't let anyone take it from you, your dignity. Your pride. Your self love

>>82313840
>him
do yourself both a favor and kill yourself

>>82314189
>literally loved nobody else as much as him
Are you 14? You never met this guy. That's not love, it's an infatuation that lives all in your head. Forget about him, forget about online flings, don't waste your time with long distance, e relationships.
>I would try irl dating but
No buts! No excuses. I don't wanna hear a single more pathetic excuse. There's no reason for you not to try.
>Furry shit
Forget about that too, and all these ungodly fetishes, and just think about having a first date with a guy irl at the nearest caffe. Go from there. Build your dating life up one step at a time.

>>82314189
>what is it actually like to have sex with a guy or anon?
it's very different because the sex is not mutual, since they have no clitoris

>>82314243
>You are an individual, not a fucking point in a graph, not a statistic, not a number, you are a person and your worth doesn't depend on circumstances of birth beyond your control.
>This place is poison for your soul, my dear boy. You are beautiful and your caramel skin is beautiful. Don't let anyone take it from you, your dignity. Your pride. Your self love
Okay fine anon, i don't really actually have naszi beliefs anyway, i don';t think i'm beautiful but i don't actually hate all brown people i just think i'm ugly
>>82314284
>Are you 14?
I'm 20 and in college like i said
>That's not love, it's an infatuation that lives all in your head.
Maybe but i actually planned my suicide very meticulously after we broke up, like literally i was writing letters to all my family members and i almost went through with it, i bought a rope and was going to hang myself thinking of him to calm myself while i did it, i only backed out of it at the last minute

I checked his profile again and he announced a new bf literally 2 weeks after i blocked him
>No buts! No excuses. I don't wanna hear a single more pathetic excuse. There's no reason for you not to try.
I wanna try really bad, actually there are furries at my university so maybe i could date one
>Forget about that too, and all these ungodly fetishes
It's not a fetish to me.. well, it kinda is but it wasn't originally. It's like anime fans and hentai for me, i like furry characters in a non sexual context but i also like the porn, but i'm trying to quit porn in general

It's just hard to explain, it's like a part of my identity and personality, i don't think i would be me without it, i can't really abandon it, i have nothing else that's unique about me
>and just think about having a first date with a guy irl at the nearest caffe. Go from there. Build your dating life up one step at a time.
I want that so bad that sounds amazing i actually started tearing up thinking about it

>>82314354
>tearing up thinking about a date at a caffe
Jesus Christ dude, you need to get out there as soon as possible, you are clearly so starved of affection and intimacy it's literally messing with your brain. Dude. Just. Get. The apps.
Arrange a date in public. You could do that today. Don't become a 21 yo incel. Let it end. Let your new gay life begin

>>82314354
>It's not a fetish to me..
Nigga can't you wait for the second date to mention your furry side? Please you are more than a furry costume

>>82314405
>you are clearly so starved of affection and intimacy it's literally messing with your brain.
I know, i don't go outside anymore besides for class and food, i cannot interact with people anymore, my brain is slowly forgetting how to interact with people on a basic level. I literally have no social interactions with anybody my age, the person i talk to my most is my Dad. My anxiety is bad to the point i refuse to leave my room to even speak with my roommate or interact with him. I don't even get food from the fridge unless he's in his room or left the house

>You could do that today. Don't become a 21 yo incel. Let it end. Let your new gay life begin
It's hard because anxiety and extreme fear of rejection makes me not wanna approach anybody in general. I shiver at the idea of talking to anybody i don't know these days. i also cannot drive so the guy would have to be proactive and drive me everywhere and arrange the dates but i don't know if that's a red flag or not. i could meet somebody in my uni tho or join a club but people find me creepy and i have weird body language, i assume they are afraid of me. since all my peers would hate me i've been thinking maybe i could run away with an older guy and get away from my shitty incel life that i lead now but that might be a bad idea

i just want somebody who has my interests, i like history and computers and i want somebody adjacent to that, it would be really hard to find that on the sex app that is Grindr also i want another furry above all else because nobody else would "get" it if it makes sense and it's a hobby i want to share with someone else i love and not have to hide it
>>82314463
>Please you are more than a furry costume
It's not really about the costumes, it's more like i like the art and characters

Also i'm not worth anything at best i would be a glorified live-in sex toy for another man and maybe cook his meals and we grow old together

>>82314248
was considering that but life is worth much more
so no, thanks for your opinion

>>82313561 (OP)
It depends are you attracted to men and trans women?? If you answered no then you have your answer if you answered yes of maybe. Then honestly there is only one way to find out. And thats to go give it a try and see for your self. But be advised like women sex varies how good it is from person to person so your not gonna be able to just do it one and get a actual feel answer if its for you or not. Sadly like most things in life you gotta try things more then once and even again when your older.. As things change tastes change and what you may not like now you may later on in life. So my honest opinion is if you said yes or maybe and your mentally ok enough to have a hookup with a member of the same sex or trans women and this is not going to cause you mental stress later on after its done. Then go give it a try, But be care like all hookups risk of std's and shit are high.. Anyways hope this answer helps ya some.. Been a bi sexual male for my entire life and love it.. just a fyi encase you wanted to know.. anyways best wishes and have fun if you do decide too..

Straight guy here. Im hearing lots of sad stories here. Im kinda old, all my friends are gay and ive heard their stories when they where virgin and also the typical gay men only want to have sex, no dating lore. I can give you an advice. Theres a saying in my language that says every sheep with his couple, it means that whatever you are, theres somebody out there that will find you precious, not like a plan b, but as a real deal. I find that it is true on all people but being gay i think you have less of a cultural bias that enables that in a more real way. Truly, all my gay friends have so much diverse types of men they like, some sound like the ones you descrive as yourselves, some people crave for people like you, you just dont know it yet and have to be there out and be abailable to meet other men, it takes time of course, but i have to say im a bit jelous of how this feels more balanced for gay people. Im actually kinda shocked that you dont know it yet. Just avoid dating apps, just go to bars where theres gay people, i dont know how it is in your city but in mine my friends kinda avoid gay bars per se and go instead to bars where it feels less like a dating app and more a place where people just are there to have fun and maybe meet, i dont know go to a karaoke or something like that, people flirt in places liek this and maybe are more prone to be knowing/dating that just sex. But also as some other anons mentioned, dont be afraid of having sex first, getting to know the guy after, its just much easier that way, if you are a virgin let me guve you a spoiler, when you have sex you also talk, you also cuddle, and there are chances that you end up in a relationship that way. That is the way I ended up in all my relationships and also some of my good friendships.

>>82315253
>whatever you are, theres somebody out there that will find you precious, not like a plan b, but as a real deal. I find that it is true on all people but being gay

lol i was a giga incel until i was 25 until i met my boyfriend and he is completely in love with me

Sex is cope and doesn't feel better than masturbation case in point these fellas couldn't cum from anal and had to jerk off in front of each other

>>82313569
if youre hot this is very attainable, sadly most troons are ugly and most femboys put no effort in

>>82313561 (OP)
how tf do you answer that? I don't do, go bugger yourself with a dildo and find out. maybe steal your homie's shirt so the scent of another man is there too. really immerse yourself in it

>>82314010
Honestly it surprises me that so many femboys have issues finding good partners. I've been friends with this guy for a couple of years now. I know he's a femboy and we keep our conversations strictly platonic. We have some similar interests like anime and cars and stuff. What I found out after I became friends with him is that he's horny as a motherfucker and I've seen his body nude. He has zero idea that I know. He's so beautiful that if I could I'd wife him up. The fact that we have a pre existing friendly relationship only make me want him more. God I want to make love to him as he clings to my sweaty body and I hear him softly whimper.

>>82315421
for me it's not worth it.

>>82313561 (OP)
Top here
I haven't been with many but sometimes you worry about if they have/want to bust a nut too. Sometimes they don't care and will just lie on their belly and let you plow away, other times you have to time things just right so you both cum at the same time or maybe they cum first and you cum right afterwards

Grindr is 99.5% hookups and sometimes super attractive people are picky, other times they arent. I got with a 11/10 qt 18yo femboy and apparently his body count was only 1 or something. I don't find myself attractive but apparently he actually was picky and chose me because he thought my pfp was based. We had a fling that went on for 9 months or so.

A few weeks ago i was on a business trip and i got on grindr. My guaranteed options was a dominant bottom latino twink who wanted a submissive top and this cute tall femboy who said "no sex or blowjobs, only cuddles". I chose the femboy. He loved the cuddling, we frotted and beat eachother off and he made the cutest sounds when i'd feel up his lean body. We hit it off well enough that he came back the next night and stayed over. Still no sex, just cuddling and lots of talk. It was coincidence that i was there and he wanted cuddles at the same time; he is almost never on grindr but his online friend and crush turned a relationship down and cuddles were just what he needed.

We enjoyed eachothers company enough that he bought plane tickets to fly out to visit me for 5 days, so maybe he'll be my bf or something.

>>82316587
>Honestly it surprises me that so many femboys have issues finding good partners.
I wouldn't really call myself a femboy, i mean, my personality kinda is that and i sound really feminine (like a total faggot i mean), but i don't look feminine at all, and i'm hairy and fat
> The fact that we have a pre existing friendly relationship only make me want him more. God I want to make love to him as he clings to my sweaty body and I hear him softly whimper.
You should go for him he's probably lonely

>>82317532
Wow that sounds like a dream, I am incredibly lonely