>>82314029 (OP)
Young millenial women dated older men, ignoring millenial boys.
Millenials are now in their early 30s at their earliest, the men who were ignored when younger have zero reason to commit to millenial women at this phase in life.
Millenial women are now trying to cut off as many options as possible (age gaps bad, dating foreign women bad), to try and get millenial men to catch them before they fall into the void.
TDLR; a big chunk of society who lives on social media is trying to salvage their lives, having never attempted to form a relationship with men their own age, they need commitment in the next few years or they die alone.
Just ignore it. If you like zoomettes date them. If you don't want to date, don't. The only thing you shouldn't do is try to save them, you're cleaning up a party you weren't invited to. Have some self respect.