Thread 82314587

>38 next month
>still no husband

Its over, im gonna kms at 40

>>82314587 (OP)
Pretty common for a Libra to end up alone.

>>82314615
Im a Virgo. Ive always had relationships but recently i became asexual and men are shallow and selfish creatures

>>82314624
All normies are shallow and selfish creatures, regardless of gender. As an asexual man, I can't find a single woman who has a low libido or isn't hypersexual.
>recently i became asexual
Must be your age. What do you want a husband for?

>>82314652
>What do you want a husband for?

To share my life with, to build a life together and to have happy memories. To have someone in my life that i can rely on, and he can rely on me. Someone to watch movies with, someone to taste my cooking, someone i can sleep next to and smile that they're in my life.

Life can be so shit, but when you think of someone special suddenly it becomes worth living.

Right now idk if my life is worth living. Do you find dating difficult being asexual?

>>82314701
>To share my life with, to build a life together and to have happy memories
Does having sex with him prevents any of that ?
Or whatever else you wrote ?

Idk much about it desu, does asocial means no interest in sex? Or that you really hate sex?
If its the former then it wouldnt bother too much to find a husband whos not asexual, as long he does ask too much for it.

>>82314624
>Ive always had relationships
you were supposed to have relationships with men looking for long term and marriage
retard

>>82314736
>asocial
Asexual
My bad

>>82314701
Ok, so you listed a bunch of things you want. The man will always want sex and considers it important, yet you want to request everything and then reject what the man wants?

An interesting strategy for being alone

>>82314587 (OP)
Any woman who makes it that far without marriage is intentionally single, insufferable, or has a fear of commitment. You're probably some weird combination of all 3.

>>82314587 (OP)
>failing tutorial mode
holy kek

>>82314701
I'm sure you have happy memories now and don't need a husband to help you create them. I relate to the desire to share moments with a loved one, however.
>Right now idk if my life is worth living.
That's a lot of responsibility to put on another person. Whatever you are feeling right now is temporary and will fade.
>Do you find dating difficult being asexual?
Incredibly. I've learned how to act more like a typical man and I'm not ugly, so getting women interested in me isn't difficult, but anything more than a hook-up or fwb isn't what the women near me seem to desire. I started being honest about my sexuality, so now I just get ghosted a lot. I'm not sure if it's the dating culture or women expecting men to only want sex. I'm very bitter about it desu and I feel like a freak for wanting something more from them. I wish women were as romantic as men are, and not just use their bodies to "reward" a man's efforts to romanticize her.

>>82314624
Foids are such a retarded meme holy shit.

>>82314587 (OP)
DO YOU LOOK LIKE THIS? ARE YOU INTERESTED IN A 21 YEAR OLD MAN DESPITE BEING 38?

>>82314770
>and not just use their bodies to "reward" a man's efforts to romanticize her.
FUCK OFF NIGGER I WANT TO B REWARDED WITH SEX

>>82314779
Wow i do look a bit like that lol. I exercise but im a bit curvier than when i was 20.

You wouldn't want to settle down with me and get marries though

>>82314789
Then why are you complaining? Hop on any dating app and get some.

>>82314778
It's true, this thread really makes the whole sex look worse.

>>82314736
Im asexual, i dont have a desire for sex. Im capable of performing sex but it isnt something that drives me.

I would be open to having sex on occasion, but i could very comfortably cuddle or just be close for 99% of the time. I dont *hate* sex, it just isnt a priority for me. My ex bf liked missionary and being really slow with me, which i quite liked, it didnt feel energetic but sensual. I understood it was just a need he had to satisfy.

>>82314624
>Ive always had relationships
Did you forget to get off of the cock carousel in time? Many such cases.
>men are shallow and selfish creatures
That just tells us about you and the kind of men you pursue.

>>82314753
Yes but the things i want are collaborative, not selfish. Creating a memory together is a joint activity, cooking together, watching movies together.

They're things i want to share

>>82314587 (OP)
Why are foids such selfish vain narcissistic entitled animals?

>>82314805
>>82314778

What have i done wrong?

>>82314770
>I relate to the desire to share moments with a loved one, however.

I want that very much. Also i wouldnt say im putting responsibility on another, just expressing how important having a companion is to me. My immediate needs are met, i have food, but im missing love, and thats important to me.

Im sorry you cant find anyone suitable for you. I feel the same way you do, that men just want sex, they immediately talk about sex, and never have any plans for commitment, or even dating. One guy was telling me about his life, his family then started talking about his dick, i was so disgusted. I told him to fuck off.

>>82314587 (OP)
>>82314624

i was having a nice romantic fantasy in bed thinking about wifebeating a cuck gf until i saw this thread and got tilted and had to go to my computer

actually SHUT THE FUCK UP. your complains fall in deaf ears. you had plenty of sex, relationships, love, passion, orgasms, meaningful connections

i, alongside other robots, NEVER fucking had any. lots of people here are 30+ VIRGINS. you are like a rich person crying that they no longer can afford the latest mercedes. i, on the hand, have to take the bus or walk in my dollar store slippers

you CANNOT understand pain or relate to anyone here. i bet you're a shitty person too, if we were to carefully look at your behavior of how you treat people and animals

>men are shallow and selfish creatures
stfu you entitled whore look in the mirror

>>82314837
You had sex most of your life then now call men who want sex shallow.


Hang urself pls

>>82314853
I'm adding you to the based department

Guys are always going to want sex from their wife because they're giving up sex with everyone else by getting married.

Basically, you're asking guys to give up sex altogether, out of fear of them only wanting you for sex.
No, you're just the only source of sex that remains acceptable.

Just keep taking advantage of your friend-zoned orbiters. It has worked for you so far right?

I'm thirsty. When you think too much even your mouth becomes dry

>>82314701
>To have someone in my life that i can rely on, and he can rely on me
What you want is called a friend. No heterosexual man is interested in marrying, and especially cohabitating, with a woman without regular sex. You're asking a man to work to support you, your interests, do labor outside and inside the house, in exchange for what....? The food you make? For you to use him as an oversized stuffed animal at night? How awful. Being alone would be significantly better.

>>82314587 (OP)
It bugs me that her nails are painted in the first image, but not the second one.

>>82314587 (OP)
>38 next month
>still no husband
why do you even want a husband when you obviously despise men?
>im gonna kms at 40
Good.

>>82314701
>To share my life with, to build a life together and to have happy memories.
Half your life is already over. Why would anyone want to spend half of your bad years with you when they don't have the memories of your good years carrying them?

>>82314587 (OP)
>Tell me you're American without saying you're American

Obsess over marriage!

At 38 you should focus on just getting kids because no one is going to marry you for the sake of marriage! Entrap a man with a kid and he might mercy marry you.

>>82314587 (OP)
Fine, I'll bite, FemanonOP.

I am 24, there's this 31 year old woman interested in me. Should I engage?

>>82314800
Beggars can't be choosers, probably your best option is to entrap some virile young man who'll be happy to get regular sex.

When I was a bright eyed 19 year old I was infatuated with a 36 year old who I fucked once while we were drunk, I still fap to the memory and don't think it would have been half bad to get with her, she still looks good for 52.

>>82314624
>always had relationships
>waaah im alone
is it too much to expect women to not be run through?

>>82314624
lol ran through and suddenly youre not interested in sex and want a provider. why do most people actively sabotage their own happiness? self control when you were younger wouldve gone a long way, but that would also mean you wouldve been someone worth marrying and you wouldnt be in this spot

>>82314587 (OP)
I can't believe all you retards are falling for this shit. How can you possibly imagine that a lonely wine aunt would come to /r9k/ of all places to vent about her relationship woes?

>>82314615
libras are a blessing and i will marry all of them

Tick tock. The biological clock is ticking.

>>82314701
I'm about your age. I date you most likely. I have a pretty high sex drive still though. Older fembots seem to always be into young guys though.

>>82314624
>Ive always had relationships
Time always punishes women. Good.

>>82314587 (OP)
I would marry you femanon. I'm a 24 year old male but I've always wanted an older wifey. I'm ready to be married and start having kids. Maybe we can make it work?

>>82314587 (OP)
Millennial women alone yet again
Zoomergods won

>>82314753
I am pretty sure the things she listed are universally mutually beneficial. So why should he have an extra right to ask for more than that?

>>82314624
What's your moon sign? Or do you not even know? Goddamit how does a woman live nearly 40 years on easy mode to suddenly decide she's "asexual" and that men are the problem without ever picking up a book that isn't Harry Potter.

>>82314624
Stinky and obvious bait.

>>82314701
>WAAH I WANT TO BE A WARM BODY WAAAH
How tragic. I believe you can be a warm body. Please don't lose hope, Ms. Hag.

>>82314587 (OP)
I like your picrel OP. Yeah getting old sucks. Oh well

>>82317224
Sex is also mutually beneficial, so by what right is she refusing?

>>82316859
Ticking? That shit broke after she snoozed it for the dozenth time.

>>82315934
Yes, treat her like a queen, and make a happy life together

:)

>>82317271
My moon sign is Cancer Rising.

>>82317334
I can still have kids, my mother had my at 40, theres still time, my friend had a kid at 50, theres still time

>>82314924
I dont cuddle my friends at nightime, they all have relationships.

I want more than a friend, i want someone i can share intimate secrets with, and be in my life all the time.

Im not sex negative, i would be ok with having sex on occassion, im just not obssesed with it

>>8231738
Yeah there's some cancer rising here all right.
"Cancer rising" isn't a moon sign. Try again.

>>82317391
We're old enough the get that flying pig simpsons reference

>>82317391
>my mother had my at 40
No wonder you're autistic

>>82317406
>begrudging occasional sex
Wife material

A cousin is like that currently. It's mistifying to me, I thought she was the most social one of the bunch

>>82317413
Yes it is.
>>82314701
Would you be willing to have kids? I'm getting old and starting to want kids before it's way too late.

>>82314701
>>82314587 (OP)
LONDON. I want an asexual gf so bad. I'm sick of getting into a relationship and then it ended cause I have zero libido as a man.

>>82317691
People sometimes have different internal selves than the ones they show to the world. Classic schizoid dilemma

>>82317697
No it isn't. No wonder you're practically 40 and childless if this is how you react to just getting a basic fact about yourself wrong kek

>>82314624
And let me guess, you don't want to let your husband get sex anywhere else let alone get a side chick.

>>82314587 (OP)
>38 year old woman posting anime pic on 4chan
Bai

>>82317746
Maybe it's Clara or Clio

>>82314587 (OP)
>38 year old woman posting anime pic on 4chan
Bait

>>82317391
Your eggs are rotten bitch and very few people will be bother to have children with you through ART

>>82316952
Would you be open to having kids?

>>82314624
Chad is shallow and selfish, I agree.

>>82317736
>you're practically 40 and childless
/our girl/, fr she's just like us.

>>82317938
>Would you be open to having kids
The question is how many would you be willing to have but yes I'm open to it. I'm getting a bit old and I don't have much time left. Think about how old we be by the time our kid hits 20.

>>82317008
Everyone gets old, even you

>>82317427
Lol funny, it'll happen to you!

:)

>>82317754
My literal life is considered bait. What do you want, my passport deets?

>>82314587 (OP)
Awww, kept getting pumped and dumped?

>>82318012
Id like two kids, one boy one girl.

I dreamt of a big family when i was younger but id be happy just having a husband and two kids, and dog, and a cat. That would be such a happy way to live life.

I dont cheat, i love being quiet, i can occupy myself and keep busy. Some men would say thats boring but its how i am

>>82318213
I can still date a 22 year old who loves me, it's still possible, I just need to hit the gym more and make more money, it can still happen, I'm not coping at all

What are your thoughts on adopting kids if you are unable to have your own?

>>82318349
What 3 kids be a deal breaker?

>>82318424
No, it would not be a deal brea,l. If my hubby was insistent i would agree, but id rather sooner than later.

I think the first kid would always be the scariest lol by the 3rd youd know what to do (i hope)

>>82316859
I remember when for like half a year there was a shitposter who did nothing but remind femanons of their impending expiry date every day, multiple times a day

>>82318562
We're a diverse bunch

>>82314587 (OP)
Maybe the problem is the way you present yourself, or maybe you have irrational standards like most women do these days.

God I need an asexual woman to help me tame the fire of my lust, it burns

>>82317384
Holy shit why did I laugh so hard at this

>>82317271
oh i missed this post. my moon is scorpio. that probably also explains a lot about why i'm single lol.

>>82314853
>>82314883
As of right now, I'm reopening the Based Files.

>>82318584
Tick-tock, roasties!

>>82318546
Want to chat off site for a bit?

>>82318546
Do you want to homeschool, send them to public school, or send them to boarding school?

>>82318614
Where did you run off to hagbot?

>>82314587 (OP)
Yep, but at least you can celebrate you've lived this long without killing yourself. Typically trannies ACK in their late 20s when the tranny wall and worsening mental illness kicks in

>>82318990
Yes please, post discord

>>82319656
I would say homeschool, but i don't know if im smart enough.

Definitely a good education is important, im not a snob, but education is the best route to a well paid career

>>82321088
It's a close second to nepotism

>>82321097
Unfortunately i wasnt born into a wealthy, well connected family lol, quite the opposite

>>82314624
>Ive always had relationship

>>82321166

What a joke. Clown world.

>>82321295
>>82321166
I don't understand, pls explain

>>82321076
chattyrobotr9k@gmail.com
Here's an email. We can chat for a bit and exchange discord later.

>>82321401
it shows she has a horrible taste in men if she is constantly in failing relations and gets abused, pumped and dumped.
zero introspection.
zero planning.
zero foresight.
zero self awareness.
but yes, it's allllll men's fault. i am so bad for sitting here playing world of warcraft. i'm such a bad bad moid.

>>82314624
>Ive always had relationships
How many relationships? Used goods. Used goods.

>>82322284
Romance is dead at 40+

>>82314587 (OP)
Can I impregnate you before you kys? No Im not raising the kid

>>82317391
Are you ready to speedrun 3-5 kids family?

>>82321609
Maybe men shouldnt lie.

If you meet a man, and he comes across as decent, sweet and seems caring, is it my fault if i believe him? Am i supposed to believe all men are pieces of shit?

Isnt that the opposite of what you are saying in your post?

>>82322358
>Maybe men shouldnt lie
I'm not lying. I'm honest that I'm a flawed person, I'm not the confident muscled viking chad with tattoos and a motorcycle that women are looking for, but that doesn't get me any attention from women.
The most honest men are unironically here and on /soc/, you get exactly what you pay for.

I don't know where you choose the meet and hang out with guys, but your strategy isn't working if the lesson you're taking away is 'all men lie'

once again, I will just sit here and play my comfy videogames, waiting on a girl to join me.

>>82322423
Wow isnt comfy.

>>82322438
it's pretty comfy. plus i have loads of other games

>>82314754
This, but also add impossible standards, incapable of tolerating differences, or cannot love and sees partners as objects to serve their needs.

>>82321076
You didn't add me yet hagbot.

I hate millennial women so much. I wish they were all as miserable as OP.

>>82314587 (OP)
This is what you get for not grooming me on WoW like all the other old bitches and young boys. Why was I not good enough for you femanon? I was a smart boy, just really sad and lonely.

>>82314587 (OP)
>>82314624
You did this to yourself. Don't bitch about the consequences of your own actions.

>>82314800
Post nudes 38 year old hag anon let's goon together and then figure out how to get you happy

>>82314587 (OP)
good please kill yourself
>WAAAAAA CHADS DONT LIKE MEEEEE IM FEMCEL SAAAAAR!!!!!