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Anonymous No.82315765 [Report] >>82316149
I turn 25 this year and I never had a girlfriend or had sex. I'm 99% certain it's because I've been fat since I was like age 8-10 (and still am fat), but it's also because in my young adult years I never (and still can't) afford to move out on my own even if I had a full-time job, which thus can't give me the privacy to have a girl live with me. In terms of sex, having sex with random strangers is too risky for STDs plus it's degenerate, so I always decide to just stay home and jerk off instead.

It's not surprising how fucked I was in my youth and I refuse to put extrodinary effort to getting a gf when everyone else can get one effortlessly. Even then, modern wahmen are practically demons so I'm probably not missing out on much. So probably by next year I'm going to contact a nice girl that I knew from HS who would sometimes walk home with me after school, but I'm not expecting much to happen because she probably already found a bf and/or moved on with life, and the last time I saw her was in 2020. If she can't be my gf then I'll probably be destined to die alone because I can't imagine myself being with anyone else and be content in it, and idk if this makes me an incel or a volcel.

TLDR; Almost 25 and still get no pussy
Anonymous No.82316088 [Report]
I love fat/chubby guys, Ik not everyone does. But, I don't think that could be the only thing keeping you from getting a girlfriend. Might just be because you still live at home. But, I feel like a real girlfriend would help you by both of you pitching in to get a place together.
Anonymous No.82316149 [Report]
>>82315765 (OP)
Instead of blaming your past and the fact you are fat why dont you man up an losing that weight? You already see that your problem is being fat. Why is it that u cry about it instead of being in a gym and ending up ad a man who you can respect? If you dont even respect yourself, why would you expect a girl to do that for you