Thread 82319300

how do i get someone to be obsessed with me i want to feel like i matter to people

>>82319300 (OP)
Are you by any chance cute at all?

Is this Orbitchan? I support you in your endeavors, however I am too lazy to make any sort of post about it

keep saying controversial shit on twitter
the cancel force will be obsessed with you and finding out who you are so they can kill you (socially)

>>82319300 (OP)
I can only be obsessed with someone who is obsessed with me

>>82319300 (OP)
Act vulnerable and helpless, then lovebomb someone when they're nice to you

>>82319399
i've been told i look cool and cute sometimes
>>82319479
no idk who that is
>>82319519
that's not really the kind of obsession i was thinking of though.
>>82319535
i'd rather be the one getting lovebombed honestly

>replied to everyone except me
I'm not hurt I'm not hurt I'm not

>>82319625
>i'd rather be the one getting lovebombed honestly
They will when you act vulnerable enough
Like I wish someone was kind to me I'm so lonely and isolated (I'm a cute girl btw)

>>82319645
sorry anon i didn't notice
>I can only be obsessed with someone who is obsessed with me
i can get obsessed with someone that isn't obsessed with me and it hurts a lot
>>82319652
>(I'm a cute girl btw)
no one gives a shit unless you add that at the end

>>82319664
>no one gives a shit unless you add that at the end
Type in all lowercase and use anime girl pics. People will assume you are

>>82319664
>sorry anon i didn't notice
It's too late now, the ax forgets but the tree will always remember
>i can get obsessed with someone that isn't obsessed with me and it hurts a lot
For me it's like brainwashing I just convince myself into the obsession when it seems like the right thing to do.

>>82319664
>i can get obsessed with someone that isn't obsessed with me and it hurts a lot
I'm >>82319652 and I've been there before it sucks
She stopped caring and I didn't

>>82319679
huh well i guess i'll do that
>>82319689
>It's too late now, the ax forgets but the tree will always remember
im genuinely sorry anon i didnt want to ignore you
>For me it's like brainwashing I just convince myself into the obsession
i dont really have control on who i get obsessed over sadly, i can't even delude myself into liking someone
>>82319722
im still obsessed over someone who doesn't like me as much and its killing me

>>82320405
>im genuinely sorry anon i didnt want to ignore you
i-it's ok I was just joking anon
>i dont really have control on who i get obsessed over sadly
That's too bad, but I guess we can't always control who we like. What kind of people do you get obsessed over, or is there no pattern to it?

>>82319625
If you're a girl it's easy, see>>82319652
It's possible if you're a guy but it's more chance combined with not being a suckup and having the woman be into your looks

>>82320432
>What kind of people do you get obsessed over, or is there no pattern to it?
basically anyone who'se really nice to me and acts somewhat cute i guess
>>82320538
i dont think my looks are bad honestly im just retarded and no one seems to ever like me enough

>>82321319
>basically anyone who'se really nice to me and acts somewhat cute i guess
Understandable. I don't act cute so I'll never be obsessed over, oh well. NTA but what do you mean by retarded?

>>82320405
>huh well i guess i'll do that
It worked for her!
>im still obsessed over someone who doesn't like me as much and its killing me
I miss her but it's for the best that I let go
I thought I was getting over her but the thought of her replacing me makes me so anxious I want to vomit

>>82321404
>but what do you mean by retarded?
i tend to be overly clingy and sometimes it's hard to come up with stuff to talk about and usually i say stupid stuff
>the thought of her replacing me makes me so anxious I want to vomit
it's the same when i think about the one im obsessed over. i get so anxious it hurts

>>82321767
>i tend to be overly clingy and sometimes it's hard to come up with stuff to talk about and usually i say stupid stuff
I like that, surely other people do too. Stupid stuff is better than just not saying anything at all anyway. I don't think that's retarded.

>>82321767
forgot to link the anon
>>82321767
>it's the same
>>82321784
>I like that
eventually you'll get tired and even if you don't im gonna get anxious that you got tired and i might just stop talking
also stupid things don't make for good conversations

>>82321817
>eventually you'll get tired and even if you don't im gonna get anxious that you got tired and i might just stop talking
I used to talk to someone like that and I don't really get tired of it as long as I'm allowed to have some time alone. Anxiety isn't too hard to deal with either, if someone like that goes quiet I just ask if they're doing alright. Or they can just like, tell me they're anxious.
>also stupid things don't make for good conversations
They make a good springboard for one though and as long as everyone is talking you can keep moving the conversation along. Most conversations aren't super deep and intellectual you know? Sometimes it's nice to talk about dumb stuff.

>>82321767
>it's the same when i think about the one im obsessed over. i get so anxious it hurts
The funny part is that she presented herself in a similar way to you, and I'm the one that ended up like this. As much as it hurts, I know she has her own problems, and I wasn't always the nicest person to her

>>82319300 (OP)
hello, I'm 4 hours late to the thread and I'm at work so I can't read it. Are you a woman? I will obsess over you

>>82321848
>I just ask if they're doing alright.
well that's nice of you most people don't and it makes me feel like im always the one putting the effort in relationships and never getting anything back. and if they don't answer me for long i get scared i said something wrong
>Sometimes it's nice to talk about dumb stuff
i mean sure, i can manage to hold a decent conversation at times it's just that it annoys me greatly when people take a long time answering
>>82321860
>she presented herself in a similar way to you
many such cases anon, sorry you had to go through all that. i think it's kind of hit or miss with people like me, i either get obsessed or have almost no interest, there's rarely a middle ground. i just wish someone liked me enough.
>>82321900
im not

>>82321935
>many such cases anon, sorry you had to go through all that. i think it's kind of hit or miss with people like me
Can you tell me whether this was genuine or it was just a girl soft rejection

>>82321935
>if they don't answer me for long i get scared i said something wrong
I usually just assume that I'm completely unwanted and bothering the other person. Them being talkative and clingy helps to dispel that to some extent. I guess that's also why I worry about their internal state because I don't want them to feel like I don't want them around either. That said I struggle with being a warm person, it's difficult to express myself and I have a lot of emotional problems.
>it's just that it annoys me greatly when people take a long time answering
I don't mind this really as long as it still seems like they want me around. When I talk to people I mostly do it over email so long response times just don't factor in much.

>>82321953
i think it's genuine anon
this person really doesn't seem very stable. also i might be cynic but i think if they genuinely loved you that much they'd at least try their best to stay with you. so maybe it wasn't really that deep.
>>82321970
>I'm completely unwanted and bothering the other person
i mean i think that too with everything else, i've never really had anyone be clingy with me and i kind of need a constant reminder that im liked otherwise i start believing they hate me
>it still seems like they want me around
that doesnt really work with me since i've got thoughts convincing me that if they're taking too long to answer it just simply means they don't care. thats why i'd love to have someone that always reminds me im appreciated and answers quickly even though i know its unrealistic

>>82322017
>i think it's genuine
>i think if they genuinely loved you that much they'd at least try their best to stay with you
I'm getting mixed messages here!

>this person really doesn't seem very stable
She's diagnosed bipolar
When we talked the week after she said she was concerned for my wellbeing
I miss her..