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Anonymous No.82322353 [Report] >>82322367 >>82322391 >>82322409 >>82322466 >>82322474 >>82322482
I read comments on reddit of people saying their current partner isn't that attractive and so many people are better looking and it makes me sick. Ive seen guys on reddit say they compare their gf to random women and wish she had their features. What even is the point of being in a romantic relationship if my boyfriend is going to think of me like that? I saw some tweet from a guy saying a huge struggle every man goes through is settling when there's a beautiful woman he really wants. I will never be enough for a partner if I'm not pretty, I will never be fully romantically loved if I'm not pretty. It doesnt matter if I have the most perfect personality, i'll never be his dream girl, and he'd always pick for a pretty girl to have my personality if he could.

I just want to be pretty for the love of my life. I want him to like seeing my bare face in the morning. I want him to be happy with me and to say he would choose me in a room full of women. What man is going to feel this way about a below average looking woman? 100% of men want a pretty life partner, and if he doesn't get one then he's setting and will cope by fantasizing about other women/p0rn or cheating. I feel like I'm missing out on true love all because of my face.

I'm a romantic at heart and I do crave a romantic life partner. But at this point I'd rather die alone than be with someone who's settling for me and only loves me 50%

I don't need the world to think I'm pretty, I just want my one person to find me attractive and such a person doesn't exist.
Anonymous No.82322367 [Report]
>>82322353 (OP)
>Scratch any cynic and you will find a disappointed idealist
I think about this quote a lot.
Anonymous No.82322391 [Report]
>>82322353 (OP)
All of those men are porn addicts. Normal men are not nearly as shallow as all women are.
Anonymous No.82322409 [Report]
>>82322353 (OP)
heh uh no no.. not me, fembot. im not like the other boys. could i be the one to use your cute clean wet mouth??
Anonymous No.82322466 [Report]
>>82322353 (OP)
You're delusional. Unlike girls, we know we aren't fucking special and we don't REQUIRE perfection. While we might have ideals, we know we aren't ideals ourselves so we're fine with being someone who isn't ideal.
>I want him to be happy with me and to say he would choose me in a room full of women
You don't need ideal to be happy. Also do you want him to say that just to make you feel better? Sure, words cost nothing. Want it genuinely because of your looks? Then there is no other way than becoming ideal. Are you willing to put the effort? But then you'd probably thing you also deserve someone better, turning this into rat race but in looks. In reality good bf would pick you in that room not because you're most beautiful, but because you're his gf. Just be a good gf and he will pick you and be happy with you even if you aren't ideal.
Anonymous No.82322474 [Report]
>>82322353 (OP)
Most men are just desperate to get with any woman who can tolerate them.
Anonymous No.82322482 [Report]
>>82322353 (OP)
Men dont view marrying non Stacy as settling unless they are sociopaths