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Anonymous No.82324518 >>82324528 >>82324537 >>82325138 >>82325159 >>82325211
Why do some chuds ghost people who they're having a conversation with? For example, there's been plenty of times when I would be having a conversation with people (they would also be good conversations at that) and then in the middle of nowhere they would end up ghosting me or not responding to me for over ten minutes. As a person who replies fast (and also has a past of having mommy issue's), this always gets on my nerves and makes me stress out like crazy. I need to have myself some answers because I know for sure that it's not my fault.
Anonymous No.82324528
>>82324518 (OP)
>over ten minutes
Pathetically weak bait.
Anonymous No.82324537 >>82324569
>>82324518 (OP)
Were all socially anxious and autistic and are constantly wondering if the other person is actually enjoying the convo. If you dont explicitly state youre enjoying your time spent with us, then we assume youre not enjoying it.
This makes us feel pressured to entertain and pressured to always have something to say, but being autistic, we oftentimes dont know what to say. So when we eventually run out of items to talk about that we planned before hand, we get scared and leave.
Anonymous No.82324569
>>82324537
Oh, I guess that makes a bit more sense. I remember when I first started using the internet, one person once told me that we all are a little "self-centered" when it comes down to having conversations with people rather we realize it or not.
Anonymous No.82325138
>>82324518 (OP)
It means somebody they care more about got online and they're ignoring you for them.
Anonymous No.82325159 >>82325166
>>82324518 (OP)
10 minutes isn't ghosting.
Anything less than 2 days not responding isn't ghosting, in fact, by definition it's not ghosting if someone replies, no matter how long it takes
normies have shit to do, places to go to, tasks to complete, people to talk to
Anonymous No.82325166 >>82325206
>>82325159
>people to talk to
Yeah, just not you. You're not worth that.
Anonymous No.82325206 >>82325227
>>82325166
correct, so better accept it
Anonymous No.82325211 >>82325227
>>82324518 (OP)
Motherfucker sometimes it takes me 30 minutes to write a message
You're talking to people who grew up on the internet and are therefore very slow brained
Anonymous No.82325227 >>82325236
>>82325206
I do accept it by removing them when they pull this disrespectful shit. Then they have that retard
>wuh huh buhhhh?????
moment like 2 days later when they finally notice and add you on an alt (which they need because people block them for mistreating them) to ask why you removed them. Then you tell them to kill themselves and block the alt too.

>>82325211
Discord has typing indicators, obviously you'd know if someone is actively writing to you.
Anonymous No.82325236
>>82325227
>Discord has typing indicators, obviously you'd know if someone is actively writing to you.
Yes and I type in a txt file write next to it then copy paste it so they don't see me struggling for half an hour