Thread 82381940

To vrgins who never had a girlfriend ever, how do your parents or siblings react to you never bringing home a girlfriend?

>>82381940 (OP)
they dont care at all whatsoever actually

havent spoken to my mom in like a year and before that for years. im excommunicated from my family. havent seen my brothers in over a decade. dad died from covid

>>82381940 (OP)
It went through 2 phases
Initially claiming I was gay
Now no longer caring because I am rich and no longer living with them

>>82381940 (OP)
>parents
Understanding since both of them are spergs
>sister
Joked a few times that worst case she'll have to play match maker and find me a gf

>>82381940 (OP)
I'm sure they speak about it behind my back, but I don't come from a family where we address issues in the open. We mostly just ignore things until they bubble over.

>>82381940 (OP)
my dad is the only who cares. whenever i spend time with him, he reminds me in a kind way why my social life is shit. always telling me to go to meetups, message thots on instragram, etc
i understand he's trying to help, but i'm just not a normalfag
i just want to move out already and be happy with my tulpas

>>82381940 (OP)
My family only """cares""" now since it's starting to make them look bad to the extended family.

>>82381940 (OP)
no idea as a euroneetchad. im just comfy in my government sponsored apartment no worries no pressure

>>82381940 (OP)
Mom asked me if I had a girlfriend then paused for a second and asked me if I had a boyfriend. Dad saw the place in renting and suggested it would be perfect for a wife and two kids to join me in. Yes dad I want that too, I want it so bad but I don't think it will happen :(

They gave up on me in my teen years.

>>82381940 (OP)
>mom
She mentioned many, many times in the past that she wants grandkids from me but has never said anything about never bringing a girl home.
>younger sisters
Similarly no comments about no gf however they do occasionally tell me I need to be a dad or I'd be a good dad. It hurts a little bit but I understand they mean well.

>>82381940 (OP)
When an uncle of mine came out my mom said it was ok for me to come out too so she probably had some hope still
My dad doesn't seem to care and he's the one I live with. My uncles every once in a while ask, I just say it's never happening cuz I'm not looking for one and then conversation ends there

I live a thousand miles away living my own separate life.
They couldn't care less.

>>82381940 (OP)
>i hope you get a gf soon anon so she makes you get rid of your motorcycle
quote from my sister from some months ago after she saw me pop a wheelie

>>82381940 (OP)
my mom doesn't seem to care. she has never mentioned it. i don't talk to my siblings

>>82381940 (OP)
My mom wants grandkids and is constantly trying to set me up with/interrogate me about women but a few months ago I told her I don't want to get married and she kind of just said "whaaat, you don't?" But didn't ask why. I think on some level she knows it's mostly because of her but is scared to find out

>>82382959
I forgot to mention: the extended family only cares because they want a free party and banquet my potential wedding to attend since my cousins already got married more than 10 years ago.

>>82381940 (OP)
Dad asked me if I had a gf like 3 years ago. That's it. When we were going to my cousions wedding (1 year older than me) my mom said that i'll probably never get married.
Both of my brothers are younger than me and have had relationships already. They don't say much about my situation.