Thread 82393676

she's falling out of love with me and i'm not sure if she's realized it yet

>>82393676 (OP)
No such thing real love is eternal, she was never in love with you to begin with.

fUXCKING NORMGROIIIIID REEEEEEEEE
FUCKING SEX HAVING RELATIONSHIP BEING IN NROOOOORRRMMIEEEEEEE
FUUUUUUUUUUCK OOOOOOOOOOOFFFFFFFFFFF

just creampie her

>>82393682
that is true, but i was hoping that i would have more time to become a person worthy of her love before this started to happen

>>tards
our relationship isnt sexual

>>82393690
based creampie solution poster

>>82393676 (OP)
cant have your feelings hurt if you never make yourself vulnerable, my guy
i dont think none of these roasties are worth loving anyways

if i ever get a gf, i just hope i could date another girl at the exact same time, so if any leaves me i still wont be alone

but if you never give your heart to anyone, then it cant be broken

>>82393757
far from a roastie, but yeah i tried keeping my distance to more of an extent than i have in the past, but maybe i shouldn't have tried to be with her at all in the first place

>maybe i shouldn't have tried to be with her at all in the first place

A HINT OF LIGHT IN THE DARK

ONLY ENOUGH TO KEEP FROM GIVING UP

IF I COULD GO BACK TO THE START

TO BREAK THE PATTERN FORMING BETWEEN US

>>82393700
>our relationship isnt sexual
no wonder she's falling out of love

>>82393700
If your relationship isn't sexual, then how is it really any different from a simple friendship, sibling relationship, or that of close work colleagues who also hang out after work?

>>82393676 (OP)
So romance her. Show her she isn't wasting her reproductive years waiting for you.

>>82393700
Self sabotage.

It sounds like this girl confessed or you noticed her feelings. You then got all caught up in your self worth issues and decided you weren't good enough. Even though she'd already confessed or was giving you the heart eyes so obviously you noticed; she liked you AS YOU WERE. And you decided that wasn't good enough. ARE YOU FUCKING STUPID OP?

we met online, told her i wasnt ready for a relationship because i wasnt, we talked every day for a few years, got tired of having fwbs in the meantime
she never had a relationship and i've only been in terrible ones so we never really made things "official" so to speak because ive learned that getting into a relationship = that person will end up leaving me
she'd always tell me she loves me and wants to marry me one day, or make art for me, but over time those things slowly stopped and although she continues to talk to me every day she talks to me less and less and those other things stopped happening
she thought she accepted me as i was, but in a more idealized sense, because i only really showed her the person i wanted to be and not who i really am
i recently forgot her birthday and i think that's the point when she's going to realize how much of a waste i really am. i never deserved her love to begin with

>>82394047
>she'd always tell me she loves me and wants to marry me one day, or make art for me, but over time those things slowly stopped and although she continues to talk to me every day she talks to me less and less and those other things stopped happening
She gave up. She thought you might change your mind about wanting a relationship and set about showing you what she had to offer. And it felt so good to be the one to be on the receiving end of all that effort and energy that you took it for granted. You weren't appreciative and she noticed it. You didn't respect her and she noticed. She noticed you weren't putting the time or energy into your relationship so she stepped back to see what happened. And you forgot her birthday. You led her on. You didn't deal with your issues even though she wanted to marry you. And now she's leaving you "just like all the others" because YOU fucked up and didn't communicate what was going on in your head and didn't respect her or her feelings enough to act on them or let her go.

How many years of her life did she waste on you because you couldn't get your shit together?

Now, she's probably of beta/simp make so you can probably salvage this. Start with an honest conversation: you noticed that she's stepping back from your conversations. Ask her what's happening (don't assume it's about you) and admit that it helped you realize what losing her would do to you. Then you arrange to fly/drive out and meet her at your earliest opportunity. Be romantic; a cozy date, flowers, chocolate... and then lay all your cards on the table. What's going on in your head, your tendency to self sabotage and that you might need her help to get your head out of your ass, your feelings. And then you offer to make a real shot at a relationship and hope to spend the rest of your life making it up to her.

If you aren't willing to do that then let her go.

>>82393676 (OP)
sucks to fucking suck normalnigger!

>>82394173
yeah, you might be right. i was planning on just breaking things off tonight but when you put it that way it makes sense why she'd give up on me. i may as well just be honest about how i feel about her and why i'm such a fuck up, there isn't anything left to lose at this point anyways

>>82394320
Good luck, OP. May taking responsibility lead you to your happily ever after (or actually fixing your shit).

>>82393676 (OP)
Women get like this because they want to be raped and antagonize men into it. Thry think something is wrong with you on a subconcious level if you aren't poound their pussy all the time since you basically get a free pass. You play the game and get fucked legally or don't and she leaves you because women want men who are willing to sacrifice themselves for the sake of sex. It's a subconcious thing because she wants her children to inherit the rapist trait and reproduce more too at any cost.

>>82394353
thanks. realistically it's probably too late, and a bit difficult to communicate when she's too busy/disinterested to talk to me, but hopefully if i can get a response at some point i can actually tell her how i feel about her

>>82394394
you do realize that i am a willing participant in not being sexually active? not everything revolves around sex, freud

>>82394402
Let us know how it goes if the thread survives long enough

i'll try, but she still isn't responding to me, so i don't think there's anything i can do