>>82395312
>Forgiveness involves conceptualizing the all to human error of what happened and seeing the nature in yourself and then personally choosing to rise above it.
this is utter faggot talk. the only way to stop the terror of abuse is to terrorize them harder than they can terrorize others. these are people without empathy or the ability to be reasonable, they're hylics without souls or any shard of humanity in them, sociopaths who only understand self-interest and instinct. The type of man who hurts his own child shares more in common with a spider than a person, and we crush spiders because they annoy us.
I'm not advocating for unrestrained violence or anything, but just enough to inflict utter fear into these people. They should cower in the presence of who they hurt.
I slashed my abuser with a knife in self-defense and took him to court to take as much money out of him as I could. I helped make him lose total custody over my brother, even going so far as to have back up plans to put him into homelessness if I didn't get what I wanted. I organized a good chunk of his destruction (with the help of others of course), and I don't give a fuck about what some push-over is going to say about "forgiveness" and "letting go". If a man hurts you, hurt him harder so he'll never come around to attempt anything like it again.
These people are evil, they need to be tortured in the way they torture others so that they learn they can't get away with it. Honestly, in my case, the man's still abusing others (guilt tripping his family into paying for his legal costs to the tune of 20k). He deserves a bullet in the head for who he is, but normalizing vigilante behavior would be far worse than any benefit of killing a man like him would bring.
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