Thread 82397960

>got tired of being rejected
>decide to self improve
>picked up new hobbies like cooking to diversify my otaku hobbies
>worked out
>took care of my appearance to the point where some people accuse me of being gay due to how much care I put into my looks
>always treated people with respect and asked how their life has been and offer my help when they ask
>I can discuss lots of topics ranging from fashion to politics.
>always was told I look good and should pursue modeling gigs.
>treated women with respect without chivalry bs like giving seats or holding their bags cause they are strong enough to do it themselves.
>never had sex despite having opportunity for a fwb which i politely declined because I wanted first time to be special
>focused on work and got promoted enough to be respectable at work
>don't smoke or drink, live a healthy lifestyle
>have few friends because I prioritize deep connections instead of having lots of buddies.
>still get rejected with generic "not my type" and ghosted later
What am I doing wrong? I tried asking out friends, dating apps, hobby places and nothing worked. clubs and bars are no go because I don't drink and find dancing to be boring

>>82397960 (OP)
>What am I doing wrong?
One or more of the following:
1. You are way uglier than you realize
2. You are way more socially retarded than you realize and it scares people
3. You are boring
4. You are mentally ill
5. Gay and don't enjoy the company of foids
6. Plain ole' bad luck

>>82397985
>You are way uglier than you realize
I have received lots of compliments from my looks both women and men. I do admit i look androgynous though but hey, if tomboy lovers exist, same thing for men should be a thing right?
>You are way more socially retarded than you realize and it scares people
Nope, whilst I feel insane boredom talking to most people, I can still communicate and people don't feel disgust by my presence. I wouldn't had friends otherwise.
>You are boring
I have lots of hobbies
>Gay and don't enjoy the company of foids
I am not, I do enjoy tomboy girls but I enjpy company of women as long as they aren't normies who have no hobbies whatsoever.
>Plain ole' bad luck
Anyway to raise my luck stat desu?

>>82398024
Why do you even want a GF in the first place? Look what you managed to achieve with your free time which you won't have once you are in a relationship.

>>82398024
>I do admit i look androgynous though
this guy fell for the women like twinks psyop lmao

>>82398061
Because this is why I self improved myself??? I don't want to be lonely anymore, I just want to be happy.
>>82398070
I am not a faggot, I just like long hair and my face is clean shaven because I hate facial hair which makes me look a bit feminine but aside from that I am 100% not a twink.

>>82398095
>changes his entire life just so pussy could notice him
Kek anon no wonder you are still a virgin. You are pathetic. Women don't like pathetic people.

>>82397960 (OP)
>rejected girl
>why don't I get any chances with girls
Just admit you're a sperg. I've had about 7 chances with girls and fucked them all up in different ways because I'm retarded. I'm sure if you think for longer you'll remember way more chances you've had

>>82397960 (OP)
anon, this ->>82398112 uninronically, dont take it as a bash women are legit disgusting creatures and can smell when all someone wants in life is to be with one, and its a massive turn off/ick for them

>>82398112
How is me fixing my issues for a goal of becoming likable "pathetic"?
>>82398115
I am not a sperg, I genuinely had no luck with women, only time I had was that time when I asked my friend out and they told me they would fuck with me but they wouldn't want to be in a relationship and I have standards so I politely declined the opportunity to join the sausage train.

>>82398135
So let me get this straight. This is how it works right?
>ask a woman out
>understand that you are wasting her precious time so you show your best qualities so that she knows your value
>get rejected because they get turned off by someone wanting to be with them?
I am asking this because it makes no sense whatsoever.

>>82397960 (OP)
Just by reading your post I can tell that you are extremely boring to be around.

>>82397960 (OP)
from the way you've described yourself op, women might perceive you as someone who's either creating a fictitious nice guy persona around himself or just someone with an extremely boring personality. You also sound a bit autistic which might be another factor because foids hate autists or dudes with boring personalities. Ever wonder why abusechads get showered in pussy?

>>82398185
I always thought other women and sluts were odd for this, until my sister started doing this to guys she started dating after getting kicked out of her abusive bfs (ex's) house. Literally doing all the shit she wishes her would do. Yet she is STILL crashing out about not getting even a fraction of these guys good man simp behavior from him, while leading the others on. That's when I realized women aren't odd they're legitimately retarded.
>Tldr women want simp behavior (which ultimately makes them get the ick) from men who wouldn't bother doing it for them in the first place because women are retards who don't know what they want

>>82398215
>>82398217
But if I was boring, I would have 0 friends and yet I have a couple of mates. As for the tism allegations, Again I am not autistic, I was checked when I was little and the test came back negative. As for the nice guy allegations, How do i avoid this? I already stopped doing all the chivalry since the only people that do so are nice guys and neckbeards and came back to treating women the same way I treat men which means no holding bags and other stuff. which may make me appear like I am acting nice instead of actually being nice.
>>82398222
Could it be that your sister is just retarded? Like retarded people exist. Like smokers for example. No way half of the Earth's population is like this. The numbers don't compute.

>>82398252
People put up with boring people, then talk shit about them behind their back, or maybe your friends are boring too.

>>82398252
having friends doesn't mean you can't be boring. Its pretty normal to be friends with someone who you think is plain but I don't think anyone would actually wanna be romantically involved with them. Also, bit of a tangent but have you ever taken a test for autism spectrum disorder?

>>82398453
I did when I was a kid. It came back negative therefore I am not autistic.

>>82398528
weird. your autism is radiating from that text alone

>>82398252
>Could it be that your sister is just retarded Like retarded people exist.
Sure anon countless testimonies of men from not only the modern age but also from the ancient greeks that women are borderline retarded and snake like in behavior just all happen to be people who are retarded not at all correlated in a unique identifiable group.
>tldr Saying men are violent is not inaccurate but saying violent people who happen to be men is the issue one answer to that PER CAPITA
Also try out Patrice O'Neal's wisdom on women that is on the money
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sfkv2MLMWw0