>>82399955 (OP)
it happened to me too bro. but back in highschool when i was still around people. i think there were several occasions where i shot down opportunities without knowing it. for some reason it was not registered as a possibility in my head and i thought everyone else thinks exactly like me.
that one time was weird though in retrospect: my bro had talked to this girl apparently (without me knowing) and so for some reason out of the blue we held hands idk even know how it happened but the whole time i was thinking we were joking around. and then eventually she made this weird hurt face at me, i presume when the clocked that i thought we were joking.
god it was so weird. but she was a nice girl i hope she is doing great and the experience didn't hurt her in a long lasting way.