If you feel like you're invisible just do this.
>always thought i was invisible no matter what i do
>even my own family forgets me
>decide to make being invisible my personality
>have the mindset that you dont intend to see these people ever again so there's no reason to limit yourself
>when im at a low-level social gathering i act however i want because no matter what no one will care anyway
>push some boundaries, flirt with random people, be as nice or as rude as you want
>at the end, analyze how it went and make a list of what worked and what didnt
>do this for every subsequent gathering until you find something that consistently works
Been doing this for years. When I was 17 I went to some random kids graduation party and I grabbed some of beer from the adults area. They told me that's alcohol and I'm underage and I just stared at them and took more then left the party. People only care about themselves so don't be afraid to do what you want.
>always thought i was invisible no matter what i do
>even my own family forgets me
>decide to make being invisible my personality
>have the mindset that you dont intend to see these people ever again so there's no reason to limit yourself
>when im at a low-level social gathering i act however i want because no matter what no one will care anyway
>push some boundaries, flirt with random people, be as nice or as rude as you want
>at the end, analyze how it went and make a list of what worked and what didnt
>do this for every subsequent gathering until you find something that consistently works
Been doing this for years. When I was 17 I went to some random kids graduation party and I grabbed some of beer from the adults area. They told me that's alcohol and I'm underage and I just stared at them and took more then left the party. People only care about themselves so don't be afraid to do what you want.