>>82405550
Then make her, herself, Anon. When it comes down to some situations and getting what you want out of them, sometimes you have to put a little "pressure" on some people to get what you want out of them. Now that "pressure" is going to look different for each and every individual (there shall not be a mistake with that) but this is only because us humans of course have different personalities and what's not.
Let me cut to the chase, I'm telling use manipulation to get what you want out of her.