>>82409568
Nope not at all. I just live in a place with very few women my age, even less so single women.
Last year I was lead on hard by a woman. Gorgeous. I think it even was intentional. But at some point the fridge at the workplace started physically standing inbetween me and her, and that gave me a clear "no go".
My coworker had a bf, but he was never home. We're talking work 3 weeks away, home 1 week. She always did shit alone, always was at home alone and only had the fridge to hang out with.
We spoke every day, and we hit it off proper. Then the fridge started going "But you have a boyfriend".
To me it hurt the most out of everything so far since we really did hit it off. Would've hurt less if she told me "Hey we can't be doing anything I have a boyfriend".
But because the fridge made it so awkward and gay I actually lost all ambition to ever try to date anyone again. We're talking me giving my coworker a gift that she really appreciated, only for the fridge to go into my office when we're the only ones left and just stare at me. "So why did you give her that gift?"
"idk i wanted to be nice".
"Oh nice huh? You know she has a boyfriend right?"
Stuff like that. And since it's a small town I'm now known as a desperate guy and that you should stay far away from me. I'm more or less a predator/perv because how dare I approach women who are approachable.