Thread 82415748

Or in other words, why does society always act like being cute or nice or innocent is opposed to male identity

I mean I know why, it's because we live in a deeply misandrist country, but still

I really want to be cute, in like a puppy-dog kind of way. I want to be attractive to women and make them feel safe around me. I also want to be strong, and responsible, and I want people to treat me with respect without me needing to force them to.

Why does it feel like your only options as a male are either to be infantalized or feared? What the fuck man?

I'm sorry this probably makes no sense to read. I don't really understand how to describe it myself. Maybe I could describe it as

"I want to be desired without having to make myself smaller or more palatable to others"

>>82415748 (OP)

>Why does society tell me I can't be both cute and masculine at the same time

It doesn't. There's only masculine.

>>82415754
This is exactly what I mean. Women try to make every unique male trait out to be just rape and killing all the time

>>82415754
>Women get horny for Ghost
Damn

because men aren't seen as people and you're not allowed to feel emotion or do anything that could inconvenience a woman's rape fantasy (except rape them, unless you're chad)