Women are followers who only want you if other people want you. That's why going to a bar all alone is almost always a mistake. The "independent strong willed" women are especially guilty of this.
>>82417615 (OP) >he could have other girls but he chose ME
it's all about the ego boost. the only way dating an incel can provide an ego boost is if he is willing to be submissive and subject himself to humiliation in order to be with a woman.
>>82417615 (OP)
going to the bar alone works because you end up not being alone. and then you can go to other social events/parties with other people rather than being alone. bars are the one place where you don't really need to be interested in some hobby or independent task other than just socializing at your own pace.