Thread 82421706

spending so much time in front of my computer screens makes me really mentally ill. i wish i had friends to go outside wif

i think the internet frens are a surrogate for our damaged self esteem sometimes

It can be really hard to make friends irl without putting yourself in some pretty nerve-wracking situations, like full on friend meetups and stuff. I never had much faith in those anyway for some reason...

>>82421706 (OP)
No offense, but if you know something causes a problem and you don't take any steps to a solution, you can't expect any different outcome. Perhaps even going outside by yourself, even just being around people without interacting with them will help build confidence.

>>82422037
Anon I have to ask you a question. Are you available? And most importantly how old are you

>>82422804
this is normie advice i go outside multiple times a week by myself and it doesnt change anything

>>82422820
That's sudden, anon. I'm almost 30 now (ouch...) and I've been in a relationship for 7 years now, though it's (unfortunately still) long distance.

>>82423029
It's normie advice, yet how would you describe the people you would like to be friends with? Normies.
Have you tried searching up hobby groups in your area? Like maybe taking yoga/exercise classes as part of a cohort, biking with strangers, etc. I got out of my social deficiency shell by taking up a part time job and trying to ask coworkers to hang out. It's not the best and we're not best friends, but it's a stepping stool to build confidence

>>82421706 (OP)
dont worry anonette, its okay
can i kis yuuo

>>82423383
absolutely not. i dont want to be friends with normies. i hate normies. yes ive done hobby groups go away with this normie tier advice its condescending.

>>82423432
ur not gonna move forward with that mindnset

>>82423521
shush. i hate normies i hate them so much. i want to connect with people i understand and who understand me.

>>82423536
ok, what kind of people do you understand?

>>82423541
people like me. outcasts, pariahs. people who are broken. people who are rotten, who are forsaken. people with the same degree of terminal online.

>>82423562
you have a j*b though, you're larping

>>82423585
i am sick in the head and can create and compartmentalize personas and channel my menhera into a job but it is taxing to my sanity and i want to stop pretending to be normal and adjusted nad just be an obsessive retard

>>82423600
can i kiss you and make you feel better then?

>>82423608
disgusting. absolutely not. go die.

>>82423432
"I wish i had friends to go outside with, but they have to meet x, y, z criteria"
This alone is enough to explain why you will always be alone. You don't want friends, you want to be codependent with somebody or some people. You think that hanging around a group of people just like you will fix your problems. It won't. A group of miserable people complaining to each other about their misery will in the end be nothing more than a miserable people.

>>82423632
correct! i am mentally ill and want codependent people to bond with and connect with. and believe it or not it doesnt need to be a circlejerk of misery! it can eb the most fun times ive had.

>>82423644
you can codependtly be my gf

>>82423682
u can kys im never dating ever again

>>82423699
rude you're acting like im not hurt

>>82423699
u hurt my feelings fuck u hope you gfeel happy