Thread 82427718

I don't understand the "male loneliness epidemic." What exactly do these people think is stopping them from befriending and socializing with other young men?

>>82427718 (OP)
>do these people
which people?

>>82427733
The young men complaining about the male loneliness epidemic. Do you not have any reading comprehension?

Men fucking hate each other but in the same breath will lie that they totally love their bros. Men are snakes

>>82427718 (OP)
the other young men

>>82427752
but it's not the young men (other than the social-media figureheads) who are complaining about some wide-spread social issues

>>82427760
Are you stupid? The people complaining are the ones who claim to be affected by it. People didn't randomly start saying young men are lonely

>>82427718 (OP)
Its about companionship. And women not wanting to date 80% of men

>>82427718 (OP)
>What exactly do these people think is stopping them from befriending and socializing with other young men?
Women.

>>82427773
The men that are actually lonely 100% don't use the "male loneliness epidemic" phrase nigga

>>82427773
>claim to
hehe
>People didn't randomly start saying young men are lonely
normally, the instinct of someone is to complain about
>waaah, I'm so lonely
not
>waaah, men like me are so lonely
the later requires some medium and people who are overblowing shit for article clicks and YT video views

>>82427718 (OP)
My only friend killed himself when I was 15 three years ago and I don't trust anyone else, I've been doomed

>>82427783
>companionship
are men not supposed to be companions or what?

>>82427754
You got men confused with women

>>82427793
You act like we didn't see the rise of the self labeled "incel" which was the same thing. Or are you goin to say that was a media psyop too

>>82427828
>of the self labeled "incel"
nigga, spot the difference:
complaining about personal issue
VS
complaining about some wide-spread social issue
>Or are you goin to say that was a media psyop too
might as well be, considering britbongs even made movies about that

>>82427839
Now I know you're stupid, half the shit incels spout is blaming society for creating an incel caste

>>82427844
yeah, and incels were invented in this century, while lonely men have far longer history

>>82427851
I don't think you know how to hold a conversation. Indian, child, or retard. which one you are, I'm not sure

>>82427864
I don't have to hold a conversation in the first place

>>82427718 (OP)
men and boys are humiliated non-stop in our culture. the only gynocracy approved male bonding activity is watching sportball, which is utterly empty negroe worship. juvenile male mischief is utterly despised in modern culture, any sort of warrior code really has no place, and acetical and mystical forms of religion are dead and buried. conversion where you pontificate is only really found online in niche echo chambers. the things that make the male mind really tick are totally absent or seen as shameful, so men have retreated online where they can simulate this stuff.

>can't befriend women because you might want to have sex with them

>can't befriend men because you might end up in a grooming ring on telegram

>>82427906
>>can't befriend men because you might end up in a grooming ring on telegram
what?

>>82427904
Have you tried just asking guys to hang out instead of posting racist buzzword dribble online? Guess what, we had hobbies 15 years ago that were mocked and we still got together and did them. And we still made bonds with each other over them.
Is this what the problem is? You're afraid of humiliation by some mystery audience?

>>82427864
>I don't think you know how to hold a conversation.
Said the retarded childish Indian incapable of holding a conversation

>>82427948
>no u
ah, child it is

>>82427864
>>82427948
>>82427959
that's some serious superiority complex fuel

>>82427932
>play ptcg with people
>go home
>don't really make friends through it, more acquaintances I see at tournaments
>still have a healthier social life than the average man
it's a problem, anon, it's not that easy to solve
and for what it's worth I don't care for race ideology and neither of the couple old friends I keep in touch with share my ethnicity

>>82427718 (OP)
Trauma and society rejecting and treating men like suspect rapists thanks to feminism. Men are disposable and often just get abandoned, and this is internalized from childhood. This is not to mention the destruction of third locations during the pandemic and everyong "living" online now or the deminished job market and economy that forces people to spend all their time applying for the opportunity to sweat their ass off to make peanuts so they can eat ramen noodles. Even if you "make it" there's nobody to hang out with and little to do, and you just end up back in digital hell anyway.

I, at one point, had friends in highschool 10 years ago. I got sick and developed mental illness, and there wasn't an attempt, on either of our parts, to force the friendship to keep going. This is just how male "friendships" are by default and unforced. I plummeted into hallucinations and confusion, and neither of us thought to do anything about it(partly because that's gay. But my fucking friend had recently came out as gay, so I'm pretty sure it's a male thing) We're the NPCs, and women are the people.

Normally, male disposability would be a virtue, but feminism showed us about toxic masculinity. Our fathers abandoning us(or our mothers divorcing our fathers) and leaving us with our mothers showed us that too. We don't want to be disposable forces of nature anymore when nobody even appreciates or honors men's sacrifices and we'd be fighting for a fucking country that hates us and would see us die.

I don't want to be a toxic male who gets bitches and always has a hangover like millenials and up. It's not worthwhile or sustainable anymore. But if I'm anything but that, then I'm a faggot or an egg or a sbyboy who no woman wants to touch with a 12 foot pole whose only way of having "fun" is though so-called homosexual expressions that give even other men the ick plutonically.

>>82427754
I wish I could have brotherhood and companionship with my fellow man but the truth is that the majority of them act like fucking women nowadays. Ain't my fault.

>>82428284
For reference, I am not gay. When I said "my fucking friend" I meant that as an expression of exasperation. This doesn't mean I wanted my friend to leave and didn't have any plutonic brotherly emotions towards him. And I had other friends who weren't gay who ended up doing the same shit with me.

>>82428285
>I wish I could have brotherhood and companionship with my fellow man but the truth is that the majority of them act like fucking women nowadays. Ain't my fault.
This is the problem. Too many people think like you do. What would a man acting like a man be in your mind? Someone who sacrifices himself for something external, I'd presume. Even when there's nothing worthwhile to do that for. Someone who thinks they're avoiding being a cuck while being the cuckiest person alive. Is it the confidence you're after that defines a man? Or the money? Or exercise? Or is it just looks?

I'm sick of the double bind, you know? If I act like a "man" without having anything to show for it, then I'm evil. If I don't act like a "man" then I'm not a real man and I'm too icky for you.

>>82427932
I have a big group of buddies who love racist schizobabble and I have a gf who im cuddling with rn. I homebrew tabletop games and a mystery religion is the core of my life. I just lucked into having these things, through little or no merit of my own. saying men should just force their way through ostracism and shame to get do these things is true, but it doesn't deboonk that the ostracism and shame are real and hurting men.

>>82428401
>Is it the confidence you're after that defines a man? Or the money? Or exercise? Or is it just looks?
It's none of those things. I want to be friends with men who don't blindly judge or hate and who understands there is a struggle going on and that there is a quality to brotherhood. I don't just want 'smoke buddies'.

>>82428441
You should try punching her in the head before sex. They really like being punched in the head and raped. Report back how it went.

Feminism is designed to hurt men and we live in a feminist shithole what's hard to understand

>>82427718 (OP)
Nothing is stopping them, maybe circumstances.

>>82427754
This is a woman who posted this.
Male loyalty and love of your brother transcends time and space.
You will have a friend from childhood and meet up again and it's like old times. You'd die for your bro right then and there.
Male loneliness right now is more a momentary, situational thing. Your brother(s) have moved onto other things, you've moved onto other things (or not.)
You wouldn't disturb your brothers in that when it's not necessary. They have their own shit going on.
Women aren't like that. If they get back together with their sisters, they're probably sizing each other up, getting catty. They monkeybranch from friend to friend . That friend from when they were a child? There's no loyal there.
They need to constantly squak to each other to maintain the bond.
The bond between your brothers and you is like time travel. You find yourself back with them, you're back to old times. Just shooting the shit.

>>82428660
>It's none of those things. I want to be friends with men who don't blindly judge or hate and who understands there is a struggle going on and that there is a quality to brotherhood. I don't just want 'smoke buddies'.
The kind of men who don't judge or hate blindly are not going to be "men" though. There is a quality to brotherhood, but what is that quality in your mind? Because if you're going by one who just doesn't judge and is agreeable, it sounds like you actually want a man who acts like how we think a woman should(but women don't). So, are you a "queer" and just want virtuous people who call themselves men as your friends while they act like trad women, or can you actually answer the question of what a man is to you?

>>82427718 (OP)
Autism, fear of rejection ( by other male groups ), and to be quite honest some pretty terrible personalities. You gotta learn that not everything should be said and not every hobby should be shared with everyone. You can share most of your hobbies with at least one person and at least one seperate person would be able to talk to you about each one of your hobbies. But no one will want to hear about all of your ideas and weird hangups all at once. Even other spergy guys whobwill accept youbfor your autism will have a hard time keeping you around if you can't ever just talk about something else.

>>82428709
>>82428692
Again, this is a woman posting this.
Women do not understand male bonds. At all.

>>82428677
Nigga, what? How is feminism stopping you from forming connections with your male friends?

>>82428709
Basically what >>82428723 said.
As men we can have respect for each other and have different viewpoints as long as we're generally fighting for the same cause. Why would I want to be friends with someone who hinders my goal and community?

>>82428723
The only female post in the thread is mine, >>82427754
The rest are coping screeching monkeys

>>82428733
because you're stuck trying constantly trying to find or reinforce a deep bond with some whore who'd replace you the moment it becomes inconvenient. male bonds are sparse but deep.
you can't focus on your brothers if you have some woman whose bond you have to constantly reinforce, or a potential brother who is stuck in the same cycle.
in this aspect, women are like vampires. they drain your fellow man, and they drain you.