Thread 82428618

Thread for discussions about selfharm and mutual support

Anon edition

>How are you doing today?
>Any plans for today?
>When was the last time you hurt yourself?
>Why did you hurt yourself?
>Is there anything bothering you right now?

Here's a bunch of helpful links

> long list of self harm alternatives (thank you muddy):
https://imgur.io/a/7Q2zgw7

>a first aid post cuting:
https://www.lifesigns.org.uk/first-aid-for-self-injury-and-self-harm/

> wound care guide:
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1CsvJs8qNCVkHWHKekMSmCn6qn0GBEcgnq9fIqlA6Uv0/mobilebasic

>a bpd workbook:
https://d-pdf.com/book/1781/read

>a bpd Information Book (anon said it's exceptionally good)
https://annas-archive.org/md5/1a4f329474320214a120a4d553c6b60c

> bdbt (dialectical behavioral therapy)
workbook is intended for BPD but can work for anyone:
https://cursosdepsicologia.com.ar/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/THEDIA1.pdf

Please don't post any drastic images and if you have to, spoiler them. Sorry if I made a mistake.

Hi :3
So, what do you guys like to do in your free time?

>>82428727
hi.
how are you anon?
in my free time, i like to exercise, read, and write.
what about you anon?

hello

>>82423411
>sorry about that.
don't be it's ok
>once you're done with school nobody will ask you
not the reason why but true

>>82423489
>think you will never make any friends?
im unlikeable and weird

aaaa buump hello anos heyyy

I'm on a train ride back home

>>82428727
Hello :>
I like making maps in hammer and I loke bikes
what about you anon?

>>82429376
Heya
nta but
>like to exercise, read, and write
you sound productive

>>82429837
Hiya ali ^^
haven't seen you in a bit
I saw you said something about a project last thread, what was it about??
and also, sorry to hear you're not well

heyo cut thought i'd just swing by because i've been on r9k all day

>how are you?
fine actually, i just got back from getting some goods to make smores. felt like smores at 2am last night so i thought i'd get the stuff for them
>plans for today?
day's over for me, just games for now
>last time you hurt yourself?
wasn't cutting but i bashed my frontal lobe against a bathroom door a few days ago having a stupid fucking bpd episode
>why?
lost my debit card and my favorite hairbrush and headphones broke all in one day. new debit card comes soon but the other two i need to replace over the next few months :))))))) fmstl
>anything bothering you right now?
state of reality, the world, yeah

>>82428727
honestly lately it's just been games and exercise

nothing much to tell. i might go on a walk today.
>>82428727
hello anooon !
honestly, even if admiting it is shameful, i usually spend most of my time on bed, or at my computer. most of the times i'm listening to music, or talking to a few friends.

>>82429837
hey gator, nice to see you around
>im unlikeable and weird
i don't think you are. you have been very nice to me so far, and i really think you're cool.

Im so pathetic I can't even sh properly...
Every time i try to do it i end up with some pathetic scratches and i don't even know why i mean its not like im not trying and the blade is not dull either i just can't properly do it...
Ive had cat scratches worse than that ffs

>>82430798
>you sound productive
i try to be lol. hope your train ride was smooth.

>>82431007
>Im so pathetic I can't even sh properly...
implying that there is a way to sh properly. if you intentionally damage or injure your body, then you have self harmed, no matter how "properly" you do it.

i hope whatever you're dealing with anon goes away and that you find your peace of mind. do you want to talk?

>>82430798
was about someone named Andres Vesalius he wrote the first book about anatomy and we had go present it was fun tho

>>82430839
hello s'mores are so delicious.

>>82430938
well that's incredibly kind of you, and your cool too

>>82431169
Well you know if you were to slice a tomato with a scissors it would still be sliced but you couldn't call that properly done yk

I guess i wish i could talk to someone but i also don't really want to

>>82431295
>Well you know if you were to slice a tomato with a scissors it would still be sliced but you couldn't call that properly done yk
bodies aren't tomatoes and you don't need to be "good" at hurting yourself for it to count.
also wanting to talk but also no wanting to is normal anon. take care of yourself. i hope your pain subsides.

>>82431295
>Well you know if you were to slice a tomato with a scissors it would still be sliced but you couldn't call that properly done yk
our bodies aren't tomatoes and you don't need to be "good" at hurting yourself for it to count.
also wanting to talk but also no wanting to is normal anon. take care of yourself. i hope your pain subsides.

its nice these exist; I feel like I have a place to actually talk about my feeling/actions.

Want to cut so bad but cant find my blades
HAHHAWSHHAHHHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

>>82431220
>hello s'mores are so delicious.
they absolutely are, i had three. i don't have a gas cooker or anything i could toast marshmallows with so i just slapped them in the oven for a few minutes and it worked just as as good

almost home but what I get back I'll go to sleep
so goodnight friends and see you tomorrow!

looks like i'm late again. today and yesterday were hard as nails tho. I'm not sure how much longer I'm gonna be able to funtion like this. Also can't open social media anymore since it's all just one cesspit of negativity and such. sad sad world currently

>>82432062
sounds like the best way to have them I tried to do with a cooker before and it was a lot of Hassle.

>>82432147
social media is the worst part of the world

>>82432244
>social media is the worst part of the world
yeah, i guess sometimes I wish I wasn't aware how people really are since all it does it feed my reasons to isolate myself.

>>82432324
well people online are much different irl I'd say people irl are mostly nice

>>82432810
Oh i 100% agree, the thing that bothers me most is how invasive social media is on the real world. I tend to see a lot of people who got their styles and/or personalities fully from social media. also a lot of people tend to be terminally online nowadays, it's sad to see.

>>82433023
that is very true, social media is basically the culture for so many people, its what they are. and it's quite hard not to be somewhat terminally online at least for some (me)