Thread 82435219

Why do you deserve a diamond ring, fembot?

>>82435219 (OP)
because I would be a loyal wife and I would take care of everything around the house and I would always have dinner ready and I would have as many kids as he wants and I would be like a perfect 1950s housewife except for the racist stuff

>>82435254
>because I would be a loyal wife and I would take care of everything around the house and I would always have dinner ready and I would have as many kids as he wants and I would be like a perfect 1950s housewife
Oh my god I think you're the o-
>except for the racist stuff
Dropped.

Ahem
>great at cooking and baking preserving
>gardener
>makes house a home, keeps it clean and appealing
>family oriented, love seeing both of ours all the time
>nympho
>plan fun stuff, from picnics to road trips
>always pushing you to do more, not an enabler, never happy stagnating for you or me
I'm a potential wife and deserve a diamond

>>82435278
well I'm not white so

>>82435254

I don't want children. Is that all right with you?

>>82435322
Are you also fat? How many orbiters do u have bby gurl?

>>82435318
>Always pushing you to do more.
I like that, but it's such a thin line between that and not being happy with where we're at and just being a nag and a cunt, and most women can't thread that needle.
Tell me the difference between the two.

>>82435254
>because I would be a loyal wife
>fembot
>loyal

>>82435342
Like say I meet you and you are working at an ok job but it's dead end, it's been a few years, you are losing money wage wise continuing to work there- I'd help you find something else to make use of your skills so you can job hop. I'd support you and make sure you felt confident and built up at your interview and first day

>>82435323
no
>>82435329
I'm not fat and I don't have any orbiters and that whole idea is just stuff that incels made up
>>82435346
I have never cheated on anyone and I never will cheat

Why do people even want diamond rings? These things are always flimsy, and diamonds fall out.
I would want my wedding band to be just gold and sturdy, hopefully like the relationship.
And the foid would probably think i am being cheap, ffs.

>>82435355
>Harvesting orbiters and obesity are incel lies
Wow you're so wise
Shut up retard. You'd ghost the average robot in a day.

>>82435362
What? Diamonds are hard as fuck, silly. You make sure it's set well!

>>82435353
What about if I'd gotten a recent promotion, and just quit smoking, what would you do?

>>82435373
Those are two impressive changes, both with challenges. I'd make sure to be patient with you during the transitional period

>>82435372
Diamonds are hard, but gold isnt. and they are embedded into it and held in place by tiny fins.
You are going to be wearing this thing for like the rest of your life.

>>82435254
not only does no one believe you but not being racist is a dealbreaker even if the other stuff was true which it is not

>>82435318
>great at cooking and baking preserving
>gardener
>makes house a home, keeps it clean and appealing

Diligent women make my heart melt.
>inb4 tranny :D

>>82435410
Not trans and to admit not that diligent I just like having my home a certain way and feeling comfy. And preserving/making food is common sense. My mom is very traditional and taught me everything. Did your dad teach you stuff too?

>>82435362
you are just being cheap diamonds are literally the hardest thing they literally can't break
>>82435370
I didn't say that being fat is a lie but the whole idea that women just keep men around who they aren't attracted to as backups is stupid
>>82435401
like there's different kinds of racism like if your talking about racism against indians then I get it but like against black people then that's not right

>>82435379
>Not 'congratulate you and enjoy life together for six months'.
You were so close. Listen, life can't be a carrot dangling from a stick. At some point, if you never get to actually taste the carrot, you realize it isn't worth chasing it. There's no point mindlessly pushing someone to do more and more if you never actually take time to enjoy the fruit of their labor between those periods, or make them feel valued for having achieved those things.

>>82435219 (OP)
I deserve one because I already planned out everything. I have a lucrative career that I'll use to support the two of us in our 20s, while he is progressing at his own career. All those years together should be enough time for us to be sure we fit each other well. Plus it'll give us both a lot of time to mature, improve, and gain experience needed for maintaining a healthy relationship. By the time I'm in my late 20s, we will get married, try for a family, and when it happens I'll quit my job and he should be making enough to support us by then. Minimum 2, maximum 3 kids. I'll focus on taking care of them and the house and keeping him happy, and he will focus on providing for us and keeping me happy. While I hate any outdoors work, I do enjoy cleaning and I really enjoy organizing things. I'll try to get better than he is at cooking, but it seems near impossible; at least I can be better at cooking than him.
If I actually am infertile, and neither of us are interested in adopting or any other means, then I guess we will just spend the rest of our lives together. Maybe I'll keep my job and we'll have more money than we know what to do with. I know he will probably enjoy that with his hobbies.
I can't really think much farther ahead than that, because by the time we are that age, we will be completely different people than we are now; but still, sorry for thinking so far ahead, I just want to spend the rest of my life with him

>>82435452
No, my dad wasnt good at teaching much. He did give me a push at the start but I have very much surpassed him.

>>82435472
I am obsessed with practicality. Cant have diamonds poking your fingers and being uncomfortable now.
Can I buy a separate diamond ring?

>diamond
Why the hell would I want one? When my fiancee proposed to me, I didn't want one. Instead, he got me my favorite metal and gemstone: silver ring and amethyst stone.

>>82435498
>listen
Men who say this are a red flag. We aren't a match which is fine. I just need a more partner minded man not a domineering insecure man

>>82435550
The implication here is that you think thanklessly persuing financial success above all else and people 'being patient with you' when you achieve that goal is 'being partner minded', and that has horrifying implications about you.
We really are just ATM's to you, huh?

>>82435318
>deserve a diamond
Does it have to be a diamond or would you be willing to take a ring with a different stone?

>>82435472
How is such a thing stupid when tons of women do it? I'm sure there are men you talk to that even subconsciously register as a "back-up." You're human. You're a hypocrite and a liar trying to save face.

>>82435573
not that person, but that's idiotic. Just like you wouldn't want a wife who doesn't know how to cook or do anything to take care of a house; a woman wouldn't want a husband who can't provide for the house.
Would it be right for her to say "We really are just house slaves to you, huh?" No, because it's a partnership faggot, one person has to take care of the house and the other has to work. The only reason why it's more often the woman is because she's the one who can actually create the family and nurture them

>>82435573
>we're really just atms to you huh
the male equivalent of fine I'll just take all my toys and go home
Go home then I don't care my measured response above was met with impudence I already know you aren't husband material. You have a lot of growing up to do
>>82435589
I think it'd be romantic to have a diamond with our birthstones around it with a delicate setting as my engagement ring. Our wedding rings will be special something unique maybe related to something we shared together I still don't know much about them since I've never been engaged yet

>>82435637
Not the same.
This would be like having a wife who you expect to be constantly undertaking cooking and cleaning classes. You expect every meal to be better than the last, and expect the house to be spotless always, and when she does those things, you don't thank her, or acknowledge the effort she's gone to, or congratulate her on how good her cooking is. Instead you just expect more of her, always. She finishes her course and cooks a five star meal worthy of a goddamn king, and how do you react? 'I guess I'll be patient with her during this transitional period.' Not doing something nice to help her with her stress. Not supporting her as a partner. Just wanting more, always, never celebrating what she's achieved. You describe that to a woman and guess what they'll say? That's a man who doesn't appreciate his partner. But you flip the gender roles and suddenly, the man 'isn't partner minded'. That's horrific. That's absolutely fucked. Nobody should be treated like that by anyone, much less a partner who's supposed to love them.

>>82435688
No it'd be comparable if her NOT taking classes made your food become sludge and scraps.... which is what happens if a man stagnates in his career. I've improved many men's lives, I helped a gas station guy get to chrysler (dumped him for other reasons)

>>82435710
Please, just stop talking. Fuck, I'm glad I met a girl who isn't this unappreciative and selfish. It's disgusting that men are so desperate for companionship and have so little self respect that they'll tolerate your kind. Don't call yourself a woman, you're not. You're a fucking parasite.

>>82435763
Sorry I live in the real world where inflation exists. If you aren't getting regular raises or job hopping you are a cuck male and not husband material. Your gf sounds fat btw.

>>82435498
That's a tranny larper bro, don't take it so personally and get asshurt. "Real" women are much worse anyways.

>>82435688
Going to be real, I genuinely am unclear on what the two of you were speaking of before; but I will say this, potential is a whole lot different than actuality. I can say a lot of things and have things looking on the upside for me, but nothing is ever set in stone.

You'd have to be with someone who had shitty parents, mentally ill, or just is a bad person for them to never appreciate their partner's achievements and expect them to be perfect. I don't think anyone is saying that

>>82435254
>because I would be a loyal wife
mhm
and im pretty boy chad who is the heir of the next russian monorchy, if were playing make pretend

>>82435888
> I genuinely am unclear on what the two of you were speaking of before
It's just two incels splitting hairs over what each is "entitled" to, in reality the vast majority of women don't operate on "prospects", women will stay with violent alcoholics for years and have children with them, not because they can't leave but because violence is exciting, and its an investment they can't get back, women aren't calculating and splitting hairs like an autist over it, it's just a feeling. They know if they leave they will be bored, and their pussy will be sad, it's that simple.

>>82435219 (OP)
I'll give her my time my love my space my energy, but she don't need no fancy cars or diamond rings.

>>82436049
I mean some stay with abusive people because it's exciting (i.e. abusive household in childhood, so they think that's what life is), but majority is because it whittles the other person down and makes them think they deserve this, and this is the only person who can be with them, and if they just do better or he just recovers a bit, then they can be happy. But it almost never turns out. Most commonly where the woman stays is that it's not abuse all the time, maybe when he's had a bad day or got drunk; then he'll start breaking stuff and hurting her. But he always apologizes afterwards, promises to never do it again, says how much he loves her, tries to do everything to make it up to her, and begs her not to leave.
Abuse is a very complex thing; it's rare that it's women who do it because it's exciting.

>>82436049
>it's just two incels
That's a weird way to dismiss me? I am a normal woman and nothing I said was crazy. Just, omg, wanting to help a man make a wage to keep up with inflation. You just seem a little weird. I mean full offense.

because i will bear you with as many children as you want, you can fuck me whenever and ill be so happy to have it, you can abuse me and hurt me and it'll turn me on, and i will still lovingly raise our children together the best i can do. as long as you genuinely love me and only me, ill love you forever and ever and eveer. take care of me and ill do everything i can to be your dream.

>>82435254
Would you listen to him when he talks to you about his personal problems instead of getting the "ick"?

Would you communicate with words instead of vague "hints" and tantrums?

Would you accept that you and him will disagree on things sometimes without being arrogant and believing yourself to be always right?

These things are what really matter to men who want long-term relationships. We can clean our own houses and make our own food. We can be flexible on the amount of kids we have. What we cannot do is be our own friend.

>>82436184
I would never abuse someone i love.
>inb4 she gets the ick for being nice.

>>82436184
what if I don't want to abuse you or hurt you?

>>82435639
>think it'd be romantic
That sounds kinda sweet. I just have a distaste for diamonds because they're massively upcharged, inherently worthless, and are usually sourced from human misery.

I prefer other stones, and good precious metals.

>>82435219 (OP)
she deserves one because i love her

>>82436546
this reminded me - fembots, how do you feel about synthetic lab diamonds?

>>82435219 (OP)
i dont even want a diamond ring, i dont care, id accept a courthouse ""wedding"" and no ring. id accept no marriage at all. but id cook good food and have kids and worship the ground my husband walks on and do my best

>>82436659
I find it hard to believe that there really are all these anonymous terminally online girls on 4CHAN of all fucking places.
loneliness is wild

>>82436690
idk women have always been on here. ive been on here for 9 years at this point. ruined my teenage and adult years. its part of the reason im still alone

>>82436707
how did you evn find r9k

>>82436707
if you're white and live in the US i'll date you

>>82436707
yeah, I think you may be right. The number of crazy rdrama.net bitches I was dming was wild
and rdrama is sadly a reddit clone with voting and all the related problems

4chan is unironically the best social website

>>82436712
i used to watch those 4chan mystery youtube videos when i was younger, like 10-11, and then i decided to actually come here and i just never left

>>82436724
im white but not in the US

>>82436725
it is the best social website, theres nothing else truly like 4chan

>>82436725
you have to go back

i'm @gnomed btw

>>82436739
I HATE rdrama and I deleted my account because the WHOLE WEBSITE is nameposting and discord drama :( otherwise good lil community

reminds me my old /vg/ days

>>82436759
lmao you would have hated today, that's all that got posted. some of the foids decided to facedox themselves for no reason and there was a bunch of shit about ted and the raccoon r-slur

>>82436725
>rdrama.net
holy shit this is pure, unadultered cancer

>>82436768
lmaooooooooooo
such a great filter

>>82436767
unfortuantely I did a bunch of coke last night and dopamine scrolled all day today :((((((

>>82436776
>such a great filter
>I did a bunch of coke last night and dopamine scrolled all day today :((((((
you do NOT say

>>82436776
I still like the website but I wish there was an alternative. The internet is dead so unfortunately it seems like it's either here, rdrama, or the farms. I might try the sharty if I were still a teenager.

>>82436779
the whole point is to keep out retards who can't take a joke, like you.

I would not be a good wife because
>I don't want children
>I don't like sex that much (still want it sometimes, but i realize i'm not as obsessed about it as most people)
But i would also be a good wife because
>Highly intelligent
>Sensitive
>Deeply moral and virtuous
>Beautiful with a nice body that will age gracefully because no kids ruining it
>Loyal
>Curious (i love reading, philosophy (i write), video games, sports, animals/nature)

I think life with me would be fun, interesting and full of love. But not wanting children is a dealbreaker to trads.

>>82436787
yeah but you have to actually make a joke first, hope this helps sweetie

>>82436779
dude, it's hard work doing coke, like I wanna share it with cool people, but then for some reason I instantly get clocked as a social austist by all the party people at the venue and just end up doing bumps akwardly in the bathroom :(

>>82436787
>or the farms. I might try the sharty if I were still a teenager.
glad I never went on either
I found some cool underground instagram pages for my city, so we'll see where that goes

>>82436801
>I instantly get clocked as a social austist by all the party people at the venue and just end up doing bumps akwardly in the bathroom :
this is insanely pathetic. just fucking say something to them like damn

>>82436810
getting there, it's honestly way easier to hit on the baddie, because at least that's like more of a formula. and I'm pretty hot (says bint), so I can pull a phone number or two

I simply cannot hide my powerlevel in this prog-woke-lefty city to save my fucking life

>>82436823
>ywn have an antisemitic alcoholic gf who posts on rdrama

why even live?

>>82436795
Youre the dumbest whore in this entire place. Your feet are perfect, what do they taste like? I want you to sit on my face while rubbing your feet on my chest.

>>82436824
bro... these woke girls are all getting mass chudded right now
I am on the fucking front lines blasting the Kanye West nigger song out my windows and I think (for better or worse) girls are waking up from the mass delusion(s)

but also racism is fucking gay and jews should run the world desu

>>82436795
I dont see the point of a wife without children. Especially with how dangerous it is for guys to even marry nowadays.

>Deeply moral
>Highly intelligent
>I don't want children
I see a narcissistic wine aunt in your future.

>>82436795
Why don't you want children? Are you just afraid of pregnancy or is it the children themselves that repulse you?

>>82436953
>how dangerous it is for guys to even marry nowadays
Talk about narcissistic again. I have more to lose in marriage than most, and still don't fear it. I'm accomplished, in an intellectualized profession, recognized by my peers, and i have a lot of money from it. I come from proletariat and made it on my own. Get over yourself.

As for the kids, yes that is what i said. Trad men are not interested if no kids are involved in the deal, but i'm not interested by them either. Live and let live, i guess.

>>82436977
Children don't repulse me at all, the poor things. I've never liked the idea of pregnancy, sounds like body horror to me. But that is something i could transcend, i'm in control of my fears. I just don't want to be a mother, don't think i would be that great because i have a highly depressive personality, am too neurotic, and too much of a loner. I also am the child of the zeitgeist and am too comfortable not having responsabilities for another human. I love children though.

>>82437031
Don't you think that you'd be a better mother than those who reproduce without putting any thought into it? Even if you're neurotic and depressive you'd at least care about your kids, make sure that they were at the bare minimum fed and that they regularly attended school.

Obviously I can't force you to reconsider but you have to keep in mind that the future belongs to those who show up, and we do have a responsibility to plan for that future. Idiocracy is already too close to becoming a documentary, and every step in the opposite direction is a good one.

>>82437031
Another thing to keep in mind - that comfort in your lack of responsibility will fade over time, turning into ennui and apathy. Ever gone a long period of time as a NEET? It's nice at first, not having to worry about anything, but that's not how our brains are wired. We need something to fight for, something to struggle against, or else you're not really living.

>>82437119
>Even if you're neurotic and depressive you'd at least care about your kids, make sure that they were at the bare minimum fed and that they regularly attended school.
Yes but i would probably resent them for it. I already have a hard time balancing my work (which i love) and the things i like to do (reading, writing, etc.) and it often makes me irritable. I do my best to correct this trait but i know children in the middle of it all would drive me insane. I'm not saying i'm right and you're wrong, but arguments about the future don't strike a chord because there are many ways to be influential, my womb isn't the alpha and omega of what i can do to better the world. Kids must be desired, and i don't desire them, therefore i will not bring life just for the sake of a pernicious sense of duty.

>>82437152
Fundamentally true. But again, i chose to struggle in other ways. I'm exigent with myself in other parts of life, most of the time. Since i come from a poor background, most of my friends from school are of the sociotype to have children as soon as possible without thinking, and they're always miserable. They can't sleep, even vacations are tiring, they don't have time for themselves, etc. It's egoistical, but when i spend time with them, i always leave happy about my lifestyle choice. Obviously they tell me that they're happy too, good for them and the kids, but i don't envy it one bit.

>>82437210
What if your husband made enough that you could be a stay at home mom? And then you could go back to your job once they were in school.

>>82437264
Doesn't sound appealing, i love the work that i do and i wouldn't like being financially dependent so i don't even consider it, plus i still wouldn't want kids in that scenario. Honestly i made up my mind a long time ago, also you forget the other part of my post which is just as important if not more; i don't like sex that much. I have a very low libido, and that's even more ostracizing. I can find men who don't want children but it's much harder to find men not obsessed with sex. Sex is the first step in procreation and i don't even like the first step.

>>82435254
Holy gem of a woman.

That said, if in the off-chance we ever married I'd insist you take it easy now and then and let me cook or clean once-in-awhile.

Because I'm young, smart, resourceful and gifted, also charmful, artistic spirit, modest, intelligent and honest. Frankly I'm too good for you phalloids

God, so many subhuman jigaboo pathetic simpniggercuckfaggots here, get the fuck off of my misogyny board subhumans, back in my day none of this shit would fly. The only thing worthless roastoids deserve is to get raped, tortured, maimed, mutilated, gored, brutalized and killed. Foids are meat sacks born to suffer and die for the amusement of their superiors, the mastergender, men. The only good foid is a dead one. And no one here is a real foid, just trannies larping.

>>82437562
Everyone is larping, faggot. Come join the fun.

>>82437562
lack of misogyny jumscare

>>82435219 (OP)
Dammit. I just want what my parents have. They are literally best friends who got married. I wish that my brain chemistry wasnt so fucked. They seem so happy. I wish that i could be happy.

>>82437515
>"charmful"
>"artistic spirit" used seemingly as an adjective
i'll do without

>>82436736
If you're white and in Europe I'll date you and bring you to live with me.

>>82438865
im not european either, sorry

>>82438922
Ok I'll make an exception for Aussie, Kiwi or Saffer.

>>82435219 (OP)
My wife is no joke you better shut up mister

diamond ring i'd buy for a fem"cel" vs diamond ring i'd buy for blonde stacy

>>82435362
I am a jeweller and I tell people all the time not to touch diamonds. Part of it is self interest (I refuse to work with the bastards), part of it is that diamonds just aren't very good. I habitually point people to moissanite if they want a sparkly clear gem (it sparkles more than a diamond, and is a 9.5 mohs, very beautiful).

>>82435372
>>82435472
Diamonds are hard but not tough. A good hit can shatter a diamond, especially along the cleavage plane where it takes surprisingly little force to make it split. Worse yet is diamonds have a whole four perfect cleavage planes, and this makes their hardness directional. They're only the hardest gem along certain directions, on others they're not.