Thread 82438107

I don't know what to do. I love her but she told me not to visit her and that she does not want a relationship with me. Should I just visit her do you think it would change her mind? I think I am making a huge mistake if I listen to her and that I will lose her forever.

>>82438107 (OP)
Last time I asked for advice on here you called me a loser faggot so ditto to you buddy

>>82438107 (OP)
if she's told you not to visit her, then going anyway will be the final nail in the coffin. she won't think "aw this guy's so attached to me let's give him a chance", she'll think "fuck this creepy stalker weirdo"

>>82438107 (OP)
You gonna get stalking charges if you do that stupid romeo and Juliet movie shit.
Learn to look out for yourself first anon. You come off as a doormat with that behaviour.

>>82438134
>>82438138
But if I do nothing I will lose her I am sure she will find someone else once she goes to uni.

>>82438148
sounds like you never had her bro, if she doesn't want to see you. if you go and see her against her will she will probably never want to see you again, at least if you hold off then at some point down the line there may be a chance.

>>82438107 (OP)
Yeah the answer is obviously no. Don't go to her place uninvited this would be a serious mistake.

>>82438158
How do you know this I have heard that you have to push womens boundaries and act like a chad who does not care what she says. I am pretty much a dormat and always went with what she wanted and now I am in this situation. Maybe a change or course will help me I can not siddle idle here hoping things will change and think about what if I had done something.

>>82438169
I don't plan to do that just visit her city and tell her I am there and if she could see me.

>>82438188
Be prepared for disappointment but don't go to here she lives if she doesn't reciprocate. That's how you get in trouble.

>>82438214
I know I would never do that. But maybe she will be okay with meeting up once I am near her.

>>82438178
i have made the same mistake as you three times in my life so far, and it has always ended with the woman totally cutting me off, and me being treated like a leper when around mutual acquaintances. of course every case is different, but given your "doormat" position with her, the chances she sees you rebelling as a good or attractive thing are very low imo

>>82438228
It's your show, guy. Do what you want.

>>82438243
I do fear that as well but if I do nothing the what if will always remain inside my head. I love her and wish nothing more than to be with her.
>>82438248
Sure I am just asking for advice.

>>82438148
Life isn't a stupid Disney or Hallmark romance movie.
You sound quite young so you should take some time to work on yourself. There are plenty of women out there, don't let oneitis ruin your life.

It will work better for you if you completely ghost her, block her on all social media and pretend she never existed.
I've had women come back into my life 7 yrs after doing that to them lol. If you chase them you will chase them right out of your life.

>>82438107 (OP)
If it was really meant to be you will cross paths again anon. dont do any weird shit that will make her hate you forever. there is more chance of her coming back if you ignore her and do not fuck up any future chances by being a stalker now. be a chad. ignore that bitch even though you love her.

>>82438243
>this
When a woman gets a certain impression of you its hard for a foid to ever change that unless you make significantly different changes in your life (eg getting jacked, getting wealthy, social success)

She already views you as a doormat so its best to cut your losses and work on yourself so your next experience isn't bad.

>>82438306
I mean it is okay if you have destroyed your ability to love and pairbond but for me she is special. No other woman is like her.
I do know that if you chase them too much that they will respond badly.

>>82438333
Dude I'm 40 years old. I've been around the block quite a few times.
I'm still capable of pair bonding but with the right woman, and there isn't a lot of healthy women out there these days.
I've made your same mistake several times in my life when I was younger. You seriously sound like me when I was in highschool.
Go ahead, don't listen to me and see what happens to you. Don't come crying to me when you end up facing jail, or at the very least having a rep of being a creepy stalker.
Ghost her, work on yourself.

>>82438107 (OP)
she will take you back if you find a new woman..
you new to show you dont need that bitch a she is the one needing you..

>>82438107 (OP)
She's warning you for your own good. If you go to her, Jamal and his friends will beat the fuck out of you and maybe even kill you before going back to running a train on her

>>82439251
all women fall to jamal and his bbc buddies in the end

>>82438278
Don't do this man. She's not interested. She'd have asked you if you were ever going to be there if she was. She will not suddenly become interested if you stoop to going there.

See pic rel. Don't emotionally invest