Thread 82441318

Anyone else seem decent on paper but can not get a girlfriend?

>6'2"
>gym four days a week
>eat healthily
>have a master's degree
>decent job
>own car and house
>7/10 face
>admittedly a sperg

I just saw a guy in the supermarket with a cute little blonde wife, had two kids together . . . the guy is 5'6" tops and missing teeth. A few days ago I saw a big fat sweaty neckbeard wearing a Warhammer 40k T-shirt holding hands with a real QT3.14. Otherwise see average and below average looking guys with normal-looking women all the time. I'm 32 and have only ever fucked callgirls, never had a girlfriend, never been in love, don't think a girl has ever even liked me.

Anyone else like this?

>>82441318 (OP)
lookspill is stupid, personality pill is the truth.

99% of r9k uses are non self aware autists so they can't realise that even if you're a manlet, as long as you're a funny, socially adept, assertive and imposing, maybe even violent, women will love you. not if you're an overly quiet weird obsessive sperg who speaks with half chewed words.

>>82441560
Yep this 100 %. It is all about being NT. Autistic men like me will never ever have a gf women HATE autistic men so much it is unreal.

>>82441318 (OP)
If you have all of that going for you it really is all your fault and you have no one to blame but yourself.

>>82441573
>Another case of normalfags blaiming autistic men instead of the women who hate them and refuse to date them
Every single time.

>>82441604
Im autistic myself. If you are a 7/10 women will overlook your autism. You either overestimate your looks or this really is all your fault for not putting yourself out there.

Anon put yourself out there. You are hot af on paper but if you do not put yourself in situations to meet people you will have 0 luck

>>82441631
I am not op and you are not autistic.

>>82441642
>I am not op
OP needed to hear it anyways. Hate people like him coming here to complain when he literally has everything going for him.

>>82441696
Why he already said it himself he autistic this is the sole reason. Women hate autistic men I have experienced it so many time.

>>82441778
OP here. I was diagnosed with Asperger's as a kid. I don't think they call it that anymore, but rather would just fall under the Autism umbrella.

>>82441778
>Why he already said it himself he autistic this is the sole reason
Yes they do but if you are a 7/10 you are a catch to someone. Being autistic is a huge problem for sub 6s though. He has a masters degree as well so he isn't incompetent. I'm assuming that he lives a fairly normal life.

>>82441830
Yeah it is what it is. Women are very cruel for treating us this way and then also the normalfags who come here every single time claim that they are autistic and have gfs. It is all such a joke and sad at the same time. I wish a girl would love me but this will never be because I am just too different.

>>82441842
OP here. I basically go to work, go to the gym, and do Muay Thai. Fairly normal but kind of lonely.

>>82441318 (OP)
Are you white? You didn't mention your race

>>82441318 (OP)
are those listed things really what you want to be loved *for* though?

>>82441888
Yeah, blue eyes and everything.

>>82441913
I mean, everyone is attracted to something.

>>82442001
>attracted to something
Wouldn't it be nice if that thing were *you*. Wouldn't it also be nice if you were attracted to *them*.

>>82441560
FPBP

All of these "why can't I get a girlfriend" posts are the same where the first things they list are their education and career like it's a job interview at the bank.

Having a social life and social skills is the most important of getting a gf.


Incels on the other hand only focus on what's immediately quantifiable e.g. their bank account, height, weight, body fat %, how much they can bench and squat, salary, how many square feet their house is - things they can easily measure.
>>82441571
Autistic people get gfs all the time, because they don't sit around going "people HATE me!!!!" when in reality people are barely aware of your existence and you're the one who's hating people

>>82442135
Sure keep blaming the victim while the autistic men who post here keep suffering in loneliness. You know that being autistic means you can not have a social life. This is what autism means not being quirky like some of the larpers who claim they have autism say.

>>82442185
I'm autistic, have autistic friends, and the girls I've been with are also autistic. Some were autistic + other mental illnesses on top.

Not like non-verbal fully retarded capital a Autistic where we're bashing our heads on cupboards in grandma's living room where we live.

OP has a job and a house of his own and drives and everything so he's also not a full blown retarded Autist. He's just a sperg like any other redditor or loud woman with blue hair.

>>82441830
If you're a sperg and not actually autistic you have a chance. Given your stats you have a much higher chance than most in your situation. You need to train yourself to be social. Force yourself into uncomfortable situations, cold approach women and get abused and dumped. Social interaction comes naturally to normies, spergs are born lacking but unlike a true autist you have the ability to learn, train, and fix yourself. Treat it like going to the gym, but with mental pain instead of physical.

>>82442276
I don't want to keep entertain your larp any longer it is vile and disgusting to larp as autistic when you are clearly not. Multiple friends and gfs why do normalfags keep lying like this? Nothing autistic about you.

>>82442321
>you are le normie and a fake autist.... BECAUSE YOU JUST ARE OKAY?!
How come you're not shitting on OP for having a job and a car and a house?

I thought le real autists just sat around bottling their piss in grandma's basement collecting disability.

How dare OP have an education and a job?

>>82442349
Having a job a car and a house something someone with high functioning autism can achieve with work. I also have a job and a car. Having many friends and gfs is not possible to have when you have autism you larper. I have no idea why normalfags love to larp as autistic.

>>82442381
>Having many friends and gfs is not possible to have when you have autism you larper.
You can also achieve these with social work.

You've never seen an anime club or dungeons & dragons group at your high school or college?

im the same as you OP but im skinny(conflicting answers on if this is good or bad) and i have a bachelors degree

>>82442406
>You can also achieve these with being neurotypical.
I don't go to high school or college anymore, only work. I never made any friends or found a girl who liked me the few times I did any social activy. It is so funny how you think autism is just being a nerd.

>>82441318 (OP)
theortical attractiveness means jack shit. you either have the "it factor" or you don't, and what "it" is differs from women to women

>>82441318 (OP)
stop bragging faggot.
You probably are too much of a coward to talk to women. that's why you get no pussy.

Meanwhile I don't work out all and have several women flying me out to ride my cock

ps. I'm under 6 ft

>>82442406
For me I came from a small town so unless you were a sports bro there wasn't much to do for "nerds".
I had good luck with joining a gym. The environment is pretty supportive.

>>82442463
>the few times I did any social activy

>the few times

based retard complains that he hasn't made any friends or found a gf after talking to people socially 3 times his entire life.

>>82442586
I love how this entire conversation is straight from the normalfag gaslighting guidebook. Great work never forget always blame the victim.

>>82442606
and I love how you're the autism police despite being fully functional.

If you really were King Shit of autism, you wouldn't even know how to operate a computer let alone be posting on 4chan in written English and solving captchas.

You've probably never even pissed in bottles. I bet you're not even a NEET either, never been one either.

>>82441560
>99% of r9k uses are non self aware autists
Most of them are schizoids who believe they're high functioning autists, though. People these days can't tell schizoids from autists for some reason.

It's because you don't talk to women. Most if not all the incels on this board don't and they blame it on arbitrary things like height, looks or whatever. As long as you take care of yourself, try to make conversation, you should be good.

>>82442693
>Just socialize aka be non autistic :)
Every single time lmao.

>>82442738
it's not IMPOSSIBLE for autistic to people to socialize.

>>82442738
Yes, dummy. Women hate men who are weird and autistic, like you.

>>82442750
But very very hard and without any reward. You can also say that guy in a wheelchair can finish a triathlon it would just be very hard. Normafags instantly treat you bad when you are autstic and there is nothing you can do about it.

>>82442761
This is what I said yes, thanks for agreeing with me.

>>82441318 (OP)
I seem terrible on paper and am terrible in reality and still manage to get an egf every couple of years

I HATE SEEING UGLY GUYS WITH HOT GIRLS.> IT MAKES ME WANT TO PUNCH WALLS. HOW IS THIS EVEN POSSIBLE. I AM GOOD LOOKING AND JACKED> WTF MAN> I JUST WANT TO BE LOVED> HOW ARE THESE UGLY PEOPLE GETTING IT> THEY MUST BE BETABUXXERS CUZ WTF. OR THEY ARE NT. women hate ND guys like me. I am so done. How is this even real life.

>>82442773
guy in a wheelchair can compete against other wheelchair dudes at the special olympics and those basketball leagues for people with no legs.

Likewise, never in a million years would I tell autistic people to try and dress and act like Chad and go out to normie night clubs and try to flirt with Staceys.
Like that cartoon of the guy who shaves his beard and lift weights and then finds himself talking sports with friends he doesn't care about because he'd rather be playing video games. Make friends with people who play video games.

Go out to book stores and LARPing events and board & card game stores and epic nerd barcades or metal bars - whatever your specific interests might be.

>>82441318 (OP)
Same and i'm a femanon. I think you don't realize how many people (women included) are lonely in this era.

>>82442853
STFU.No one cares. you are a girl. go ona dating app and post face and body and thousands of guys will want you. GTFO OFF OUR BOARD.

>>82442853
Femanons would be less lonely if they adopted neet bfs

>>82441318 (OP)
neither can ugly and fat men. I dated someone in person a few years back, he hopped back on dating apps a few weeks after we hooked up at a anime convention and he still has trouble finding a gf even though he's self improving.

that said, Idk if he has a gf or not, I just know he talked about dating apps after he cut contact with me. he and I had public discord drama after our hook up because I was salty about being dumped, so maybe he's keeping his life private now.

tldr; in my experience no man at all can get a girlfriend, handsome or unattractive

>>82442135
>Autistic people get gfs all the time
Statistically they don't. You're the type of guy to point to a lottery winner and say "see? He did it, so can you!". Obviously a hyperbole, but still.

>>82442819
You have to compete with chad and normalfags if you want to have a gf and this is a battle I simply can not ever win. I am not funny, I am not charismatic, I do poorly at talking with strangers. And I was at events/places like this nothing happend. Why do I even keep talking with you. You honestly think I would write this if I never tried. Autistic men are simply not welcome.

>>82441318 (OP)
>>admittedly a sperg
Women have autism radar, anon. They universally do not fuck anyone even remotely near the spectrum. This is just the reality we live in, women expect you to either be charismatic and engaging, or some controlling asshole that satisfies their daddy issues, there's literally ZERO in-between. So if you want to get laid you'll either need to suddenly morph into a socially adept smooth talker, or start hitting them and verbally abusing them. Those are your only options to attract women.

>>82442896
Your defeatist attitude sickens me. Stay alone then, loser.

>>82442895
It's not impossible for autistic people to get autistic gfs.

>>82442896
normies and Chad have enough normies and Staceys of their own, they don't need to nor do they want to be adult women who are into 1980s anime and silent era films and roleplaying as a level 10 witch on the weekends

>>82442642
You can be generally competent while being socially incompetent. In fact, if you're generally incompetent, then you're more likely to lack self-awareness, which can be a positive thing when it comes to social success. Getting embarrassed too much leads to become a recluse and a lack of self-awareness protects an autistic from this, while also making socialization easier.

>>82442938
>It's not impossible for autistic people to get autistic gfs.
I'm not claiming otherwise, but data has shown that most autistic men cannot get a girl, those who can are the exception, and they don't prove that all the other ones can get gfs too. The successful autistic men have either great luck or the way their autism manifests can be tolerated by women, ie maybe they struggle with social ques and eye contact, but can still be fun and sociable.

>>82442928
Great you really did the whole gaslighting playbook from a to z one upboat for you kind stranger.
>normies and Chad have enough normies and Staceys of their own
Statistically not true and just wishful thinking. There are not enough women for every man to begin with so normalfags and chads will dip in the pool of "autistic" women. And even this women don't want autistic men. I have talked with autistic women and they treated me the same.

>>82443002
>but data has shown that most autistic men cannot get a girl
what data is this

>>82443019
There is enough data out there.

>>82443006
Your problem is that you're both a bitch and an asshole, and autism has nothing to do with it.

You've complained of gaslighting about 400 times in this thread so far because other anons were able to focus their autism into something like movies or music and make movies or music their entire personality and find other movies and music autists.

and now you're falling into the incel textbook nonsense of how Chad is out there having sex with autistic 3/10 women because the Staceys are having sex with.... not Chad.... not sure how that all plays out.

>>82443051
>0.2
>0.4
are these supposed to be scary numbers?

>>82443019
>>82443051
I had this graph in mind. Pretty bleak

>>82441318 (OP)
>>82442001
You're literally on easy mode and you're still a failure that seethes at manlets almost a foot shorter than you. Just kys

>>82443019
>>82443051
another thing that incels love to do is treat jpegs of graphs and number like utter astrology.

They CANNOT get a gf and NEVER WILL because there was jpeg of a graph on 4chan that said that 23% of men haven't had sex this year.

>>82443113
You're an idiot. Instead of looking at the data, you just resort to "I know a guy" and figure that's much better. You cannot see past your own nose, you think your own personal experience is all there is. A completely empty-headed thinking that only the privileged or lucky can afford.

The "I know an autistic guy who has a girlfriend" rhetoric might as well be astrology, but legitimate studies aren't.

>>82443190
He is a normalfag they don't understand statistics because they would go against their just world fallacy. You are talking with a golem.

>>82443190
>>82443223
Show me the stats where 100% of all autistic men died alone as virgin incels. There isn't.

Like I said, you treat statistics like astrology.

>>82441560
Maximum plebbiit user cope

>>82443502
>still posting the OKCupid picture from 15 years ago asi if it ever meant anything beyond "women are more attractive than men"
may as well be throwing chicken bones down on the ground, shuffling tarot cards, and reading your tea leaves.

>>82443475
As the other anon said, you do not understand the concept of statistics. I can't tell whether you're trolling or you genuinely don't understand, with r9k it's impossible to tell.

>Show me the stats where 100% of all autistic men died alon
Show me a study that states there are no lottery winners.

You keep talking about "astrology" and "tarot", as if that isn't your level. In any case, responding to you any further is a waste of time, so I won't.

>>82443784
>you do not understand the concept of statistics
Actually that's you, even if it was confirmed that 100% of autistic men never get a girlfriend you should aspire to break that rule.

It's not 100%, nowhere near it. But you act like it is.

>>82441318 (OP)

>fucks whores
>decent

>>82441318 (OP)
I'm convinced that just as important as looks is stuff your body movement (on every level, not only communicative body language), voice, and smell/pheromones.
Have you ever witnessed or heard of a guy who is pretty good looking but proper Chad level good looking, yet he seems to drown in pussy? We're talking crazy sexual conquests; women, including hot high quality women, just can't get enough him; and yet no one can pinpoint what he has that other obviously better looking guys don't.

There's clearly an 'it' factor or factors distinct from physical appearance, and picked up entirely subconsciously by women, that nobody has managed to pin down yet that truly elevates you sexually if you have 'it'; even worse, these factors seem to be something you're born with.
If you were both physically an Adonis and had the 'it' factor(s) real life would be like porn for you.