>>82445238
While there have been many campaigns to curve masturbation (the original being /fit/ helping /a/ anons get a gf by not jerking off to the waifu but lifting for her pre 2010). I think knowledge of your own hormonal system would be useful to research and how things you do effect it.
For you an anon who might be wanting to transition or just appear more feminine. Go ahead and do whatever you want but get your hormones checked, a simple online search can find blood testing clinics and get a hormone panel to find out where you are compared to the general population.
High estrogen ironically is good for sex drive but bad for attracting women. If you crash your estrogen you will have no interest in women for instance but if you have high estrogen you will have stronger sensitivity to sexual stimulus but relatively less drive to pursue it compared to mid range estrogen.
Its why women during ovulation respond to flirting so comically, their estrogen is so high that slight genuine interest floods their brain with dopamine and their receptors are more sentivie on top of that BUT they are experiencing it so strongly that they struggle to pursue as you are when you flirt with them. You see this in gay bottoms and fat guys as well (obesity aromatizing your testoserone into more estrogen)
However older women/cougars have lower estrogen and can be more aggressive especially mixed with their panic to secure anything.