Thread 82456103

>be me
>walking down the street after work
>find a lady selling cd's
>i see some that i'm interested in
>they're are really cheap
>start talking with the lady
>we talk for like 30 or more minutes about music and other stuff
>buy a cd
>leave
>another day, going back from work
>can't walk down the same side since i'll see her and i have no money to buy cd's
>go to the other sidewalk
>walk
>go back to the other sidewalk
>repeat for months

why am i like this

>>82456103 (OP)
undersocialized, next question

>>82456128
true. how do i overcome this behaviour 'cause i don't wanna say hi and then "sorry, i'm broke"

>>82456245
Say hello and just small talk it up. then, and this is the important part, leave when the conversation dries up. DON'T LINGER.

But, social skills are hard and you should probably delete your 4chan account

>reddit spacing
I've lost my mojo

>>82456306
thanks, i'll frame this so i don't forget

>>82456314
dojo

>>82456385
two (you)s for the price of one

>>82456103 (OP)
Having a 30 minute conversation with some lady you just met is honestly leagues above what most anons, including myself, are capable of.

You could always stop by just to say hi. If your first conversation went well, then I'm sure she'll remember you and be happy to see you.

>>82456992
thanks, i've improved a lot in my social skills with strangers, at least now my voice doesn't go to shit when i try to talk.

>she'd be happy to see me

i hope so, i'd never wanna walk again even near that street if she told me something like "why were you avoiding me" or something like that, now the anxiety is killing me but i'll try someday, if i fail miserably i'll make another lame greentext

>>82457069
at this stage in your social development, it's important to admit to others that you do "weird" things because _______
This will filter out anyone who's unkind, and people will genuinely try to give you good social advice and easy interactions. Might even make some irl friends

>>82457186
you're right, i'm just very, very avoidant and don't like letting people know personal stuff. i know that's sounds and probably is annoying, but i've got my reasons. still, next time i come back i'll try to talk to her and praaaaaaaay that she never saw me cross the street like an idiot, if she did then i'll have to explain how dumb and shy i am, but i'll do it.

thanks for your great advice anon, i really appreciate it <3