Thread 82456108

Why is the "women care about personality more than looks" myth so widespread despite being obviously false?

>>82456108 (OP)
Women actually do preference personality over looks past a certain point. Women value extroversion and mild to extreme psychopathic tendencies massively.

>>82456108 (OP)
Even the ugly guys they're with, it's always a rich guy who pays for everything. It's a cope normie men tell themselves.

Genetic limitations are too depressing for normies to accept, so they always cling to things that we can change. That's why they say eating pussy is more important than dick size.

>>82456108 (OP)
Because normies are fine with saying things they know are false to maintain a self-righteous delusion. It's a way of circle jerking

Yes it's mainly women but men engage in it too to placate them

>>82456108 (OP)
The truth is that it's because women's standards are so fucking high that they think most guys are ugly so to them they think they're dating ugly guys, when in reality they're just dating an average guy. because of that they all collectively believe they care more about personality, which is true to a degree, if you think all men are ugly but you date one anyway because of their personality then personality matters to you a bit.

so it's kind of true and kind of false, it's tricky.

>>82456108 (OP)
Don't forget "men are visual creatures" when plenty of men would settle for an ugly hamplanet if she's genuinely kind and loving

>>82456108 (OP)
My personality is irreparably rotten anyway so I really dont give a shit what women think

>>82456108 (OP)
It's overblown but still true. The reason it's so widespread though is because society runs on dudes that need to believe they can get a partner regardless of their appearance.

>>82456108 (OP)
They care about looks, but care about money more

>>82456108 (OP)
The bulk of gynocentrism is built on hazy, enigmatic lies and magical thinking. These lies come from the same part of the mind that is meant for mythologies/spiritualism/reverence. Modern culture is anti-myth and therefore lazy gynocentric ethos comes in to fill the dead air. Men who partakes in this impulse are lazy and nihilistic lesser animals. They see it as a chance to finally become dumb and hypnotized at the expense of their entire gender.

>>82456108 (OP)
because it's true if you include status and resources as part of personality, which frankly it is. personality encompasses everything someone experiences about you aside from your physical body, and people's behavior is status and resource dependent. also "social proof" etc.

>>82456108 (OP)
My sister is 100% asexual so I can only assume she really is with her husband because of his personality. He's still 6'4 though

>>82456197
Plus ugly people don't get treated as well, that's just common sense. So of course their "personalities" will be worse off anyway after years of mild yet cumulative disrespect

>>82456108 (OP)
Indeed. Though fuck-apps showing up foids as Chad-only is destroying this myth.
Seeing as even normies are realising that is the case; and that they are also incel as a result of it.
In another ten or twenty years, no-one will believe that myth anymore. They are just as visual as men; perhaps more so.

>>82457528
I think men are still more visual, it's just that their standards are ridiculously lower