Thread 82466893

I don't need any pickup artist bullshit. I learned a few weeks ago that some people in the CIA are actually trained in how to be seductive. I'm certain looks is still king, so looksmaxing (getting fit and not being fat while also grooming yourself and dressing so you don't look crazy) is going to be super important, but women, unlike men, care a lot more about personality (masculine traits) and generally being masculine (being strong, successful, and at least appearing competent) in day to day life. Women also typically want some level of emotional attachment.

This shit is super complicated. Assuming you've already done your job at looksmaxing and are a 7/10+ in looks, how do you actually seduce and become close to women? Moreso than just hooking up with them. How do you fast-track a close relationship with a woman and charm her?

Also, how do you secure a relationship with a woman, that is, to make her less likely to get bored of you or dislike you, to make her very attached to you?

>>82466893 (OP)
Step 1) be attractive
Step 2) exist somewhere she can see you exist

>>82466964
>Also, how do you secure a relationship with a woman
A relationship is defined as an interaction between two or more persons. It's not secured by anything, we use the term "bound" or "bonded" to describe a reliance and trust that develops over time. The obvious test of a bond is that when apart or disconnected they'll want to be connected again. They'll "miss" you.

>>82466964
>to make her
You mean like a slave?

For a slave usually we use methods like imprisonment, purchase and severe physical violence such as beatings or other torture methods both physical and psychological to eliminate the will to live or seek freedom.

>>82466991
What if you're legitimately autistic and frequently make social faux pas? Women aren't hypervisual like men. They're still primarily visual, but they do care about a man having a masculine personality and generally being masculine in life, at least seemingly most women. I'm pretty sure female sexuality is more complicated than male sexuality.

She'd prefer death over leaving you, because she knows death would be far less torturous than her other options.

>>82466893 (OP)
Listen to patrice o neal. Im 5'9 and was a loser growing up until I listened to him. To get women dont treat them like anything special and be honest thats literally it.

>>82467016
>What if you're legitimately autistic and frequently make social faux pas? Women aren't
You don't know shit. Autistic women exist pair up with one of those fellow losers they're easy to spot as social misfits who act bizarrely. This shit isn't complex, you are too simple.

>>82467016
I mean this in the meanist way possible
Be attractive or just have visible collar boners
If you gotta ask your not filtered just be anemic n such or however tou spell it

>>82467024
>dont treat them like anything special
I'm not so sure about this. Sociopaths, narcissists, and borderlines can be extremely manipulative to keep a person around, and that usually involves some form of special treatment.
>and be honest
Of course you want to be genuine with a woman. You don't want to be pretentious and wear a mask all the time. You also want to get close with them.

>>82467024
>To get women dont treat them like anything special and be honest thats literally it.
Not precisely but yes if you treat women as men (really assume she's got a dick) they tend to get motivated to "win" like it's some sort of competition and they view you as more valuable. If you idolize women you'll only find out how fucking wrong you are about them. They are men, they do have a dick (a very tiny one without a super long urethra in the center.) Treat them as they are, not as you imagine them to be.

>>82467024
He has alot of good clips of him dismantling women who hate him at First and sometimes even getting them to get naked just by talking to them. Try the first 3 episodes of the black phillip show and the 12th episode that one is good too. He has alot of other stuff tho.

The less you care about what women think, the more success you have

>dumbass, meat head frat boys and players
>barely give a shit what women think, get lots of sex

>normies
>give kinda a shit what women think, has a few successful relationships

>simps and basedboys
>constantly angsting over the thought processes of women, adopts feminism and other beliefs to try and get in womens heads

>incels
>literally spends all day crafting intricate theories on the thought processes and psychology of women, gets no sex

They're womb men.

>>82467039
You give them a false promise of love or you only give it in little bits. She gets offers from all kinds of men and if she meets a man whos submissive from the get go she already has him by the balls and there's nothing interesting about him. Now compare this a man whos fine without her and doenst NEED her but is willing to give love every now and then that love has alot more weight to it.

Treat women as if you're already in a relationship with someone else and you want to be 100% loyal to that person. Don't be fake, just act "as if" you absolutely will not "cheat" on your non-existent partner whom you are absolutely loyal to forever.

This drives women fucking crazy.

>>82466893 (OP)
You're dumb asf if you think women care about personality more than men

>>82467077
You can tell someone is dumber than shit when they use a term like "looksmaxing". They probably participate in nofap or other retarded memes designed to mock them.

>>82467044
Its better to treat them like theyre not special thinking about how she has a dick or whatever is useless advice you need to know deep in your bones you'll be fine without them.

>>82467003
>>82467011
>You mean like a slave?
I'm a bit ashamed over this, but over the past couple days, I started a couple threads about sugar mommies. I am legitimately mentally ill, and my mental illness gives me a type of insomnia that makes getting or maintaining nearly any job that doesn't require a lot of skill impossible. I am also from a poor family with no saved up wealth, so I can't even do shit like risk making investments to start doing some sort of work or get an expensive college degree in something like engineering, even though I'm almost certain I'd be able to get a STEM degree with a decent GPA.

Anyway, I've determined that my most realistic option, unless something crazy suddenly happens in my life, is to actually get a wealthy woman and latch onto her. I live off my boomer dad, and he's already got health issues. I need a woman with a house who could give me financial security. I do receive NEETbux, so my medical and dental insurance are covered, but I only receive around $1200 total each month for food and in cash. This isn't enough to take care of myself.

Soggy biscuit:
>a whole group of totally non-homosexual dudes line up together in front of some sort of biscuit (brit for cookie) and jerk off (no homo) together jizzing all over the biscuit where the last one to cum eats it.

Nofap
>a whole group of totally non-homosexual dudes line up together in front of their PCs and don't jerk off (no homo) together and none of them get girlfriends.

>>82467077
Women have a habit of getting the ick if a man is socially awkward or if they perceive weakness (essentially a lack of masculinity) in them. Not all women, of course. Masculinity comes from personality.

>>82467116
Yeah dude it's worthless advice for a homo who is really into dicks and can't live without her having one.

>>82467132
>Women have a habit of
>Not all women, of course
When Women sends its people, they're not sending their best. They're not sending you. They're not sending you. They're sending people that have lots of problems, and they're bringing those problems with us. They're bringing drugs. They're bringing crime. They're rapists. And some, I assume, are good people.

>>82467116
>thinking about how she has a dick or whatever is useless advice
this is precisely what i want
>>82467143
>it's worthless advice for a homo who is really into dicks and can't live without her having one.
literally me

>>82467028
Seems like they want NT men. Don't think I've met any autistic women.

>>82467465
It's common like 1/10. Mostly amongst Europeans, thought to correlate with other human species like Neanderthal and species we interbred with for millions of years during our development. The last interactions between discrete Neanderthal and human species were around 50k - 20k years ago during the last glaciation. Sea levels were much lower, 100 meters or more. British Isles were connected directly to mainland Europe and "modern" humans immigrated from central Asia eastward and westward into Europe and south-east Asia overwhelming the natural dark-skinned hunter gatherer tribes and breeding them out.

Those remnants of other species are said to make up a significant source of genetic material linked to autism traits.

Amongst other groups like south Africans there is little to none of that later genetic content so they lack those genes making that "type" of autism rarer in those populations. There are many types though as "autism" is like "ADHD", "Diabetes" and other generic group labels. They're just generalizations where if you actually look more closely there are tons of sub-groups and wild differences between them.

For example, where would you expect to find the autistic woman in a college class? Hanging out with friends? Chatting in a group? Reading alone?

What is the best way to approach her? Hanging out? Chatting? Reading alone?

Shit's fucking simple dude. What's the best way for her to approach you?

>not to
That's correct.

Try asking a question you can answer in the affirmative.
>how could this work?

Now try it and find out. Experiment.

If she's not like you, things you thought she could do to you and would work to get you to like her won't work to get her to like you. You can't figure shit like that out until you try it and see for yourself. 9/10 times you'll be wrong, but 1/10 you'll succeed when you thought you definitely were wrong to start. It'll blow your mind to find out it works when you least expect it to.

Strategy 1) Nude standing jumps
Step 1) disrobe
Step 2) approach the victim
Step 3) hop

Not recommended for real life.

At least not unless she asks you to perform this ceremony in private and dresses up as a nude bunny before asking to see you wag your tail.

>oh my fucking god it really looks like an elephant
really?
>*hysterical laughter* *grins super hard speaking through her teeth* yah
you know it's a bit hard to believe you when you're grinning that hard it seems like you're lying
>can you do the hop thing more i think i'll die if i never get to see it again and probably die if i do but i don't care i'll die happy
okay but you have to hop too
>it sort of hurts my tits but deal

>>82466964
basically be assertive and not a dork, coming from a woman

>>82466893 (OP)
Oh you outsmarted me, you must actually be smarter than me.

>>82467948
I've heard of various stories where a woman is dating or married to a man, he ends up losing his job or quitting, and she essentially ends up putting up with him for years. I know of one case where an alcoholic essentially partially disabled himself through his alcoholism and later died after liver failure. He was a very nice man. His wife was also loving, and she took care of him for many years. When the man was still working, she was still making around twice as much as him. They married when they were teenagers, though. I also know a woman who divorced her husband shortly after marrying him because he apparently became an idle bum.

It seems like some women tolerate essentially taking on the role of being a parent for their partner, financially providing for them and taking care of pretty much everything in the household, including cooking. Women will marry men who don't tolerate talking about budgeting or paying bills. I'm nowhere near this bad of a person, but, at least in my current state, there's no hope for me to get a job due to the type of insomnia I have, so I figure I need a woman who could provide a place to stay for me and financially support me to a small extent. (I receive NEETbux, but it's not enough for me.) I could do the cooking (I've been learning from my dad who is actually a chef.) and housework, including things like laundry and cleaning. If she wants me to do anything else, I could do it. I just can't get a job, but it's due to insomnia. I'm not a lazy person, I promise. I workout really hard almost daily, and I've been doing this consistently since January 2024, but I started lifting in 2013.

>>82467974
I don't understand this post.