Thread 82475826

Last month, my friend (21, male) left me (22, female) depressed and without any sort of closure. He berated me for being autistic, or in his own words "too disabled", and continued to be a hurtful ass about things outside of my control. I apologized to him for all of it, but he ignored me and stayed silent for several days until I practically (embarassingly) begged for him to say anything back. I never got mad at him directly for saying those hurtful things, I only apologized for what I did to have made him mad in the first place and tried so hard to mend the relationship. However, as the weeks go by, it's become increasingly apparent to me that he no longer cares about me. He never accepted my apology, he never apologized to me. It should have been obvious to me much sooner.
The one thing that makes me happy now is seeing him become increasingly depressed on his social media posts. You can tell something has changed within him. He's not as lively or as active as he used to be, he's frantically searching for friends to fill the void in his heart, and perhaps most hilarious of all, he is retweeting suicidal Sonic the Hedgehog fanart (which is very abnormal for him). Maybe my brain is making all of this up just to make myself feel better, but in any case, I do feel slightly vindicated now.

>>82475826 (OP)
Typical chadsexual female who only wants chads who aren't into her. Your standards are too high

It sounds like you are in the right, maybe you shouldn't have even apologized.
Is the sonic thing ironic from him, you think?
I've only have one autistic woman for a friend, and I would never berate her. We don't talk much anymore, and it is entirely my fault. Really just too much going on in my life and me feeling drained.

>>82475826 (OP)
man... how long have you two been friends for?

>>82475921
>It sounds like you are in the right, maybe you shouldn't have even apologized.
no it doesn't, sounds like she's in the wrong completely and also a heartless whore

>>82475826 (OP)
So you likely didn't apologize for the right "thing", or went too far because of autism at some point.

What did you really tell him, nona? I know that you know. Spill it.

>things outside of my control

grow up you petulant, spiteful, selfish child

>>82475951
The context of the situation was that we went to a concert together and I didn't tell him until the last minute that my dad would be driving me there and waiting for me in the parking lot. He got annoyed at this but the concert itself went fine. He expected us to hangout afterwards, and he became agitated with me after I left. The next day was when he berated me. My response was frantic and all over the place because I had never seen him so mad before. I apologized about my dad, said I couldn't really help it because I'd never driven to that area by myself before. I also offered to repay him for wasting his time (twice) to which he also never responded. I also apologized for being frightened/startled of him.

>>82475939
About 3 months

>>82476027
None of that is your fault OP
Sorry he's a retard that didn't properly communicate to you

>>82476034
>3 months
bruh
3 months is barely enough to get to know someone, do you get attached to people that easily/quickly?
you poor soul.

>>82476059
to be be fair if you talk all day every day because you're NEETs with nothing else to do 3 months is a LOT

>>82475826 (OP)
I was gonna sympathize with you since I did the same thing when I was a young teen (he since killed himself so it all worked out) but I learned you're a foid and I know how evil you women are so, just give Chad a break,
God, I hate you women so much, genuinely evil.

>>82475826 (OP)
you're a bad person. get a life. stop taking satisfaction in the misery of others.

>>82476126
Yes, this is pretty much the situation for the both of us.

>>82476027
You do sound autistic as fuck and there's likely something missing, but maybe you can't see it.

Godspeed, you lovely autist, someday you'll find someone that won't snap at you for that kinda stuff.

>>82476221
fat retard fuck kys

>>82476126
>>82476221
yeah fair enough, but not enough time for other things to develop, like trust
without trust, you can't form a friendship

it sucks but move on and don't look back, anon
it'll only make things worse for you and keep you from finding good company

>>82476244 (me)
especially when >>82476027 is in place, what a fucking retarded reason to lash out at someone over
if he made that much of a fuss about some insignificant shit like this, imagine what he would've done over something serious
if you ask me, you dodged a bullet, anon

>>82476261
>other people's thoughts and feelings are insignificant!

autists really are just sociopaths huh

>>82476331
Pin Pon!

The only difference is they're not aware of it

>>82476331
he didn't communicate with her what the expectations were, got mad and lashed out
a bad friend, let alone whatever he was trying to worm himself into

>>82475826 (OP)
Wow that 21 yo guy must have such a good personality. He seems to really have charmed you with his mind and his clever quips hes probably got a silver tongue that always makes you laugh with his jokes. Hes probably very skilled at a hobby too and you are constantly impressed at his high intelligence and skill. Killer fashion too im betting he wears jeans and sneakers and a hoodie, not like how the other guys dress

>>82476331
>other people's thoughts and feelings are insignificant!
didn't say that, you idiot
guy raised his own expectations, had shit planned in his head, and then lashed out at OP because shit didn't go as he thought they would
at most that's a bummer, i can understand why he'd be bugged that OP's dad brought and fetched her from the concert but i mean, is that any reason to lash out at someone that hard?

a good enough reason to warrant such a fit would make this one seem insignificant in comparison, anon
like what the fuck...

>>82476390
>emotions have to be rational and logical!
I hope all autists get wrangled up and executed

>>82476587
she apologized for it too, he didn't accept her apology, so how could it be said she doesn't care about his retarded feelings?
kill yourself, retard
trying to hurt autist girls like the faggot that you are, I can't even find them and you retards walk into this shit and don't properly communicate to them and get mad

>>82476604
"autist" girls are just BPDemons who got a diagnosis that excuses their retard behavior

>>82475826 (OP)
omg such a cute hamster

>>82475908
This I have never ever did this to a woman and have been treated like this all the time by women. Only chad get to experience this. But because I am autistic I get treated like trash by all women in this world.

>>82475826 (OP)
I'm glad he is suffering for making fun of you and emotionally abusing you. He's just an asshole

>>82475826 (OP)
you dont seem very nice