Thread 82481465

Autistic men like me will never experience love from a woman. Even autistic women don't want anything to do with autistic men. I have never ghosted anyone but have be ghosted so many times, I try my best but it is never enough because I am a walking ick generator for women. I wish I had a aspie I could love forever but this will never happen.

>>82481465 (OP)
Autistic women would like autistic men if autistic men made some effort to be normal and mask like autistic women do. The inequality is a big issue there

>>82481465 (OP)
autistic women never suffer like autistic men dont think if you get one she will understand you

>>82481465 (OP)
Go for schizophrenic women and have many many fucked up babies please

>>82481473
>bro haha just mask wdym you dont know how xD? just mask yourself bro everyone does it are you retarded xDD??
shut the fuck up please you have no clue about autism dumbfuck shithead

>>82481473
Autistic woman can mask easier it's not a lack of effort it's an inability to do so on the same level. Even if they do studies show people can clock them as autistic still in seconds at most.

Plus women get the pussy pass still. They have intrinsic value meanwhile men must earn their value by societal standards so they start off at a deficit.

>>82481473
I do mask and have a job but that is not enough because I will still give them the ick. And besides why should you mask with another autistic person does not make much sense to me.
>>82481479
Still better than non autistic women they don't understand me at all like zero understanding.
>>82481487
I don't have any women to go for, I don't mind schizophrenic women if they are nice and share my interests or hobbies a bit or want talk/share things.

>>82481465 (OP)
I'm a autistic woman and I'm infamous for grooming a fellow autist who was 17 at the time. we do love autistic men and even groom them

>>82481524
you look like this oro

>>82481524
If you are an autistic woman, lower your standards and date me. Stop being so picky and shallow and chadsexual.

>>82481473
>The inequality is a big issue there
I'm above average in most things and I'm polite enough. Being normal isn't always a good thing.

Skill issue my retard, i'm autistic and i don't have this issue, social shit is a skill you need to learn like maths, by going outside and talking to people, or by not being a loner during school, if you failed the latter it's not over, go outside. IF YOU DO NOT SOCIALISE YOU WILL NOT BE GOOD AT SOCIALISING duh

>>82481524
You are chicken even if you are autistic everyone knows what stuff you did and what you wrote here.

>>82481599
its a spectrum disorder theres many types of autism retard your obviously not autistic enough and more of a normie to ever understand

>>82481473
Women don't get penalized socially for being odd, moron. Especially not by men. You're not masking shit, you're being indulged.

>>82481599
I don't want a girl who is social I would only meet normalfag women there who don't understand me at all and don't share any of my interests.

>>82481473
It's because autistic men who can mask themselves into mainstream society are on another level to the general population. There's a serious lack of high-quality autistic women, most just become alts and sub-normies who bitch about stupid bullshit, eg whine about traditional, right-wing men whilst being insane leftists.

>>82481465 (OP)
>pic rel
>small but very powerful
Is she supposed to be small? Maybe I've seen too many pics with her and apu

>>82481662
Yeah apu is a frog ofc he smaller than her did you ever saw a frog who is bigger than a woman?

>>82481685
well then this leads me to believe she is like a foot tall

>>82481699
Apu is a big frog.

>>82481589
Being normal is usually a good thing. It demonstrates value and ability - even if you aren't so normal, it's good to have the skill to fake it. Also abnormal usually suggests a lack of care for the people around you, and self centeredness

>>82481717
>normalfags actually believe this

>>82481717
>It demonstrates value and ability
Most people aren't that principled at all, and they aren't that hardworking either. I don't see how that shows value or ability.
>Also abnormal usually suggests a lack of care for the people around you, and self centeredness
I am abnormal and I am the complete opposite of what you just described. You can ask my colleagues and assistants and being caring/nice is probably one of the first descriptors they would say.

>>82481613
okay but being able to type like this is the minimum you need to be able to socialise so stop wallowing in "waa waa i'm autistic it's so over.." and go outside.

>>82481621
nah still met this autistic woman at a pub and we instantly could tell we were autistic, no need to uphold the normality anymore and we enjoyed talking to each other BUT me and her still act normal to everyone else, that's etiquette, you wouldn't speak Swahili to an English speaker essentially.

>>82481627
I don't think the gender disparity is like this, women have an empathetic buff and are way better at masking because of this to be fair.

>>82481717
this reminds me of an autistic mtf tranny i saw who was narcissistic as shit and did not care for social situations, just wanted it done the way he liked, he wore a big cowboy hat, a dress, and didn't shave one bit of his massive beard. REGARDLESS of these kinds of people, just don't be a narcissist and your abnormality will probably be appreciated.

>>82481465 (OP)
In class today I asked an extremely ugly girl for a pencil and she looked at me disgusted. Neither guys or girls talk to me. I hate normies. I want friends.

>>82481884
bro what class how old are you exactly to be in a class? can a nigga borrow a pencil?

>>82481893
Do you know the average age of someone on r9k bro?

>>82481944
no mate, nobody could lie on the internet about their age :O but why's this kid not trying to hide it or smth

>>82481846
>nah still met this autistic woman at a pub and we instantly could tell we were autistic
I don't go to to pubs or drink any alcohol. The chance to meet a girl at a pup or bar who is into nerdy stuff and not a total slut is pretty low.

>>82482048
well i'm one lucky guy then aren't i

>>82482065
Yes you are I guess. Are you from the uk? This type of women is also more common in there for some reason. Here in central europe are bars only for party goers.

>>82482096
yes, you could probably guess, there's quite a bar culture here, still, haven't been in a bit. i have never been to a party though there are some here, they're seperate venues from bars, and i would probably wear ear defenders to make it nicer.

>>82482122
See this is the problem I know that in the uk pubs are a bit different to bars and we simply don't have something like pubs here. Is she your gf now or did you just talked with her?

>>82481473
This is just wrong. Truth is women can act as autistic they want consequence free. In fact women can act in any way they please and still find a man who values it. Faggot masochist men love dominant women, chads love shy quiet girls who are easy to manipulate, and just about everyone loves a goofy autistic girl who is fun to be around. Men on the other hand can only attract women if they are Chads or are very good at emulating Chad. Women do not actually love shy nerdy guys like in anime and movies. Well not if they are handsome and tall anyway.

>>82482140
well it would've been nice if we entered a relationship but we were uni students, this was her hometown, even went to the same school as me a year above, but her university was a 4 hours drive away. if we did enter a relationship there would definitely be a logistical problem. i learnt her native language before i even met her so we could make unique jokes and topics with that. while she was here, we went gym together, we watched movies together, we still text occasionally, however now she does have a boyfriend and i'm glad for her honestly, she thought she could never make it as an autist in that regard i think. i'm happy with the time we spent together and look back sometimes.

The problem with Ashbies is that if you are not their special interest then you don't stand a chance. But that goes for autism boys too.

>>82482227
So she is not from the uk if you had to learn her language? I guess it is easier if they don't fully understand you or are from a different culture. Maked it easier to think that different social cues are just part of this culture so it is funny/quirk.

>>82481465 (OP)
I still miss her everyday.

>>82482315
nope we're both children of immigrants who were born here, we speak native english better than our own "mother tongues". admittedly the cultures are both middle-eastern neighbouring countries. i was already learning her language before i met her, so it was a surprise on that day we met. we both had english social cues, just that we could mix our languages or switch between for fun.

>>82481465 (OP)
i had a crush on an autistic redheaded boy in middleschool named nathan. i tried to ask him out to the 8th grade formal and he told me he didn't want to go with me because i wasn't smart enough (he had better grades) and i had short hair which he said was "dude-ish". he went to the formal with his sister and wore a minecraft tshirt.

>>82482654
>Asked him out
He must have been very attractive, only time a woman would ever ask out a man. Being very attractive can negate autism a bit for some women to be interested in you. This is why some autistic men get to reproduce. Most don't.

>>82482721
he was a pimply thirteen year old with a pug nose. he was also shorter than me. i just liked his laugh and how he crinkled his nose and that he did card tricks in study hall.

>>82481465 (OP)
I know it's hard for you retards to actually wrap your mind around it because of your social dysfunction and your brainwashed by Disney and Anime and bluepill social programming from a young age but real women don't love men. They can't love men it's not their biological function. Females use men for resources, social status, children and narcissistic supply. Normalfags all on one level or another know this intrinsically and just gaslight themselves into believing it's well worth it and props up their self-esteem and sense of values and "duty". Watch a nature documentary or something about mammals. What you want has always been a fantasy. Chad doesn't get it, star athletes don't get it, billionaires don't get it no man gets the relationship and affection you want. You can literally look at the life story of thousands of real world examples in your life aroung you and famous people you'll see the same exploitative situations, behavior patterns and problems over and over again. Your romance dream desire is a fiction even if you were your 10/10 dream self. Come to terms with it and move on already.

>>82482745
>and that he did card tricks in study hall.
So he was some extroverted boy who made other people laugh, yeah I don't think he was autistic.

>>82482765
this is a cope and not reality.

>>82482782
nah sounds like my kind of extroversion while i was in school, and i'm autistic.

>>82482782
his mom was a part of school faculty and any time he got in trouble she would be like "no he's autistic it's not his fault". so i' pretty sure. also a lot of other kids hated him which made me feel bad for him which was part of why i liked him, i thought it was mean that they would be mean to him just because he wanted to make friends, and i like card tricks. i guess i thought he was nice and they were just being jerks, but he wasn't, and ended up being pretty mean to me afterwards.

>>82482171
This, 100%. Being a woman is living life on tutorial mode. Everyone loves you unconditionally and desires you intensely because you were born with a vagina. That's it. It's hilariously simple but people always try to cope by overthinking.

>>82482785
Nah it is reality you young fags just desperately lack real life experience to know that and you can't handle how depressing it would be to acknowledge not only are you never getting what you want out of life it never was possible in the first place. Hopefully you finally come to terms with it before you make too much of an ass of yourself being overly emotional and whiny over it. You can get married, have some kids, do the whole oofy doofy husband performance but this sentiment of experiencing "love from a woman" is a misconception of humanity you really need to let go of. Lie to yourself if you really insist but don't say nobody ever told you.

>>82481473
Autistic men are literally incapable of masking lmao it's over for us.

>>82481465 (OP)
Date chicks with BPD (aka Best Pussy Disorder) don't know why but they seem to be into it

>>82482881
>BPD (aka Best Pussy Disorder)
kek this is such a cope for
>this is the only pussy I can get because this bitch is retarded and insufferable to most people especially men with self-respect so I'ma cope and say the sex is fire as a excuse of why I just made a clown of myself to pander to this wackjob.

>>82482881
BPD women are the worst in the entire world, not only are they most of the time very boring and try to cover this fact by overly sexulazing themselves, they also can not love at all, have massive mode swings and will dump you without any reason. Also they don't "care" about it when you happen to be their favorite person for some time, you could be anything they would not care. Usualy they fall for some abuse chad.

I have a sperg gf as an autistic man, she is so adorable i love her so much

>>82482999
aww all the best :)

>>82482964
The trick is to read about the disorder, then treat them so you're always on the pedestal/white side for them and they're fucking obsessed with you.

then get rid of them before the go retard mode (you get about 6 months on avg)

>>82482906
you saying they don't fuck good tho?

>>82483075
This is usless nobody in his right mind would want that. I want a relationship to last forever not be on a timeline.
>>82482999
Not everyone is so lucky most will never have one.

>>82483099
imagine dating a stable well-adjusted caring and emotionally available girl.

that's like... some gay shit or whatever

>>82483127
Yep and I am gay for wanting this.

>>82483149
true AND gay? That's fake and straight

>>82481473
wholesome alternative: neither autistic man nor autistic woman should mask, and instead both must fully unmask and partake in feral nymphomaniac sex

>>82483262
If I didn't mask at all I'd definitely be admitted to a psych ward for evaluation.

>>82483437
just be a non-verbal chad. the neurotypicals can't handle our autism, so they get nothing. only our mighty fellow autists deserve to bask in our full power

>>82483262
this shit would be insane

>>82483535
i've already seen it happen, it's rare because two unmasked autistic people meeting each other is like two unicorns crossing paths, but when it happens it's the highest expression of pair-bonding in all of nature

>>82481473
If both of you are autistic why tf would you mask? Are you retarded?

im autistic too and im a female. I genuinely think I look good, and probably higher than average, but at the same time my social skills, awkwardness, and reluctant behavior to make any connections blows all my physical shit out of proportion for normie men.
which is why I find a bit of comfort with these typa threads low-key. im not really into bio males, some are cute. I like another type of male. ill keep the fantasy to myself

>>82483617
Masking, acting normal, is desirable behavior. Don't be a lazy loser.

>>82483672
So you indulge in some fan fiction with an imaginary character instead of going you for autistic men who would not mind that you are the way. I guess this is how it is.

>>82483805
>Don't be a lazy loser, guy who is born with only one leg but is expected to run a marathon
it's only desirable to the filthy unwashed normie masses. don't fall for this neurotypical propaganda, your autism is desirable to your true autistic brothers and sisters, whereas your masks are undesirable to them.

>>82483830
No anon. I like ftms lmao what are you on about

>>82483805
Nigga I'm not a normie if you act like one around me then I don't want to be with you.

>>82482782
Getting attention doesn't mean he was extroverted. Everyone wanted to do group projects with me (and do none of the work) when I was at school because I was a top student, and I still didn't have any friends.

>>82481465 (OP)
the solution is transwomen but they dont like us either