>>82481796 (OP)
>Why are so many incels Chuds?
Because being socially normal is the single most important thing when it comes to attracting women. At least this is what I've learned in my 30yrs on this planet. It's not that being non-NT automatically gives women the ick, because it doesn't.
But women are taught to wait for the man to make the first step. So if you as a man are risk-averse, high IQ and socially inexperienced, you will never make that first step, either out of high inhibition or high intelligence making you not see any point in taking the risk. In my case I was shy as a teen and then I just didn't know how to respond to the women who might've been into me. And now I've grown so used to not having a woman that I prefer it and see advantages to it, so I don't even want to do it anymore as it would be counterproductive for my goals in life.
>Does being a Chud make it harder to get laid, or does not getting laid make one a Chud?
I think it's the first one. Not getting laid has not had any effect on my personality. I was shaped into what I am by high IQ and bad experiences with age peers as a kid. It taught me that most people are shit and I'm better off shutting myself in with my hobbies and escapism. By the time I was in my teens and expected to try approaching women or at least interacting with them, I was already jaded.