>>82486042 (OP)
Men are retreating from relationships because women simply aren't worth it. You come with too much baggage and not enough value. Ask yourself why, what actual purpose or value could you bring to a man's life that he can't get easier on his own or somewhere else? What troubles or problems would you add to a man's life that offset anything positive you could bring to it?
When the answer is simply that you are a set of holes with tits, that's because that's the only thing of use you have to offer him, and when he tires of that, the headaches you would create for him are not worth the value you would bring. Could you be funny, smart, kind too? Sure, but I can find funny, smart, kind people without tying my life to them.
Women used to understand that they needed to be a man's peace, because he has no desire to invite chaos into the life he's built for himself. If you are not his peace, his comfort, then there is literally no reason to keep you around.