Thread 82500475

Why are people such assholes who expect so much of you? No one ever told me "Hey anon, it's okay to be shy. It's okay to like staying inside. It's fine if you're not ambitious". It's always "you should talk more". "You should put yourself out there". "You shoud do this and that". People are all cunts and they are the reason I feel uncomfortable in my own skin.

>>82500475 (OP)
people oftne splurt out unwanted advice in order to make themselves feel useful. they don't really think about the situation. it is okay to be shy, it is okay to stay inside, it's okay to not have ambitions. life is ultimately only yours and no one has the right to tell you how to live it. but it is proven that by going out, talking to others more, and generally being more outgoing and stuff the average guy is happier, and that's why they all tell you to do that. but we're not the average guy, and most normies fail to see that.

>>82500475 (OP)
It"s because they don't actually care for what you want, it's that simple.

can't you just not care about what they say? it's not a big deal and nothing to lose self confidence over

>>82500475 (OP)
People base their entire worldview on their subjective experiences. Which means that if they haven't experienced your level of suffering they cannot understand it. They will never understand. They have no theory of mind. I was born with shit genes and bullied so much my entire life that I unironically prefer the pain of being alone than the pain of getting constantly attacked by everyone just because I'm an easy target who can't retaliate. Recently I explained my situation to a normie and he was almost admirative. He told me most people would kill themselves in a few days if they were in my shoes.

>>82500475 (OP)
I'm going to touch you, OP
You're getting touched tonight

>>82500475 (OP)
i mean if you just stay inside then you dont have to hear them? not really sure what the issue is.
>>82501771
why are you spilling all your guts to a normie though? what is the obsession with them validating that you are a defunct abuse victim?

>>82501793
If you're a girl then I don't mind

>>82500475 (OP)
That's simple. They want you to fail so they can laugh. They're angry your life doesn't such as hard as theirs.

>>82501793
>I'm going to touch you, OP
>You're getting touched tonight
Really? Is that a promise?

>>82500510
It's also true that those things you list are muscles you train, and get easier the more you practice it. It's fine to want it in limited amounts, but there's so much you won't find unless you try.

>>82501622
I fucking wish, anon. It stings every time and there's nothing you can say to make them stop.

>>82500475 (OP)
They want to exploit you in the future, they want you to be useful for them, they don't care about you but rather about how useful you are for them and their shit