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Anonymous No.82553030 [Report] >>82553043 >>82553102 >>82553134 >>82553135 >>82553154 >>82553164 >>82555593 >>82556187 >>82557224 >>82557399 >>82557512
finding gf
>want to find a gf here who's white, not fat, a virgin, isn't batshit crazy and at least a 6/10 or higher
am i more delusional than the average tranny?
Anonymous No.82553043 [Report] >>82553125
>>82553030 (OP)
okay so you want a white gf are you white as well? or black?
Anonymous No.82553102 [Report] >>82553181
>>82553030 (OP)
Probably. My standards are even lower and I can't find one
>not fat, has a reasonable body count (i.e. max 4 - 5), isn't crazy and is my looksmatch (probably like 5/10 or so)
Anonymous No.82553125 [Report] >>82553165
>>82553043
i'm white, i even had a girl tell me i'm conventionally attractive but was too retarded to do anything about it
Anonymous No.82553131 [Report] >>82553181
im using this as a way to see if my standards are too high
>3/10 or higher
>any body type so long as you aspire to be healthy
>virgin, not a lot of experience with women
>not evil
Anonymous No.82553134 [Report] >>82553181
>>82553030 (OP)
I just want a girl that is virgin and people say my standards are too high so idk anon sounds nice but sounds alittle hard unless you have a good personality
Anonymous No.82553135 [Report]
>>82553030 (OP)
It's fine just a bit standard. I want
>brown, bookhead, into philosophy, movies and music, into internet archiving and has wavy hair
Anonymous No.82553154 [Report] >>82553596 >>82557011
>>82553030 (OP)
how old are you?
if youre like 16 possible
if youre 40 that probably aint gonna happen

yall should get over the virgin thing. most of you are gooners whose minds are ruined by porn anyway. dont pretend you pure.
Anonymous No.82553164 [Report]
>>82553030 (OP)
Im gonna go find a gf who has a reasonably high bodycount just so i know she isnt too stupid to not get what she wants, women who have sex before getting married are too stupid to even fuck.
Anonymous No.82553165 [Report]
>>82553125
another pointless whitecel problem why tf do you people even exist on here
Anonymous No.82553181 [Report] >>82553210 >>82553263
>>82553102
that sounds reasonable desu. how hard have you tried to find a gf
>>82553131
you'll have no problems with those standards
>>82553134
that's probably the hardest part. most girls have been with AT LEAST 2 guys by the time they're 18. i do have a decent personality however but that prob isn't enough
Anonymous No.82553210 [Report]
>>82553181
Nta but ive had women say they want to fuck me and then their strapon has balls on it and its like bitch im not gay just not afraid to show my wild side every now and then.
Anonymous No.82553263 [Report] >>82553330
>>82553181
Not really hard desu. I find it's like one of those things in life that I would like, but it's not to the point I will orient my whole life around it. Plus, I am not really sure how to 'try' haha.
I went to a lot of extracurriculars in high school and am in uni now so I know a lot of girls but none have expressed interest in me yet. And I think stuff like cold approaching or whatever is kind blegh. So yeh.
Anonymous No.82553330 [Report]
>>82553263
girls are really subtle when they show interest so you prob just haven't noticed. and by try i assume you mean ask a girl out which yeah is kinda daunting
Anonymous No.82553596 [Report]
>>82553154
sorry to burst your bubble but i'm not a coombrain
Anonymous No.82553613 [Report] >>82554240
>want to find a gf here who's crazy, not fat, broken, is batshit crazy and at least wants a househusband neet hikki asocial creepo loser bf husband
am i more delusional than when i was abusing benadryl?
Anonymous No.82554240 [Report] >>82554260
>>82553613
anon are you ok
originaruuu
Anonymous No.82554260 [Report] >>82555582
>>82554240
Yeah I'm ok, thank you for asking. My drug abuse days are long behind me. I just have a very particular type and am incurable mentally ill.
Anonymous No.82555582 [Report] >>82556247
>>82554260
thats good you've stopped but why tf do you go after that kind of girl. whats even appealing about a girl like that
Anonymous !HKiI8Junas No.82555593 [Report] >>82555652 >>82555700
>>82553030 (OP)
probably
everyone here is batshit crazy in one way or another, sane people don't end up here
it all comes down to finding the kind of crazy you like
Anonymous No.82555613 [Report] >>82555644 >>82555652
I'm a 10/10 white woman who isn't fat, but I'm batshit crazy and not a virgin.

I'd still fuck you just for the hell of it, though. I love dominating timid loser boys.
Anonymous No.82555644 [Report]
>>82555613
i wish you were a real woman
Anonymous No.82555652 [Report] >>82555684
>>82555593
i disagree i've met some chill people here
>>82555613
thanks for the offer but i'm not one to get dominated :)
Anonymous !HKiI8Junas No.82555684 [Report] >>82556167
>>82555652
>i've met some chill people here
insanity doesn't always manifest explicitly like that
could just be you haven't known them long/well enough to notice it, but in the remote case you did meet someone sane in this place, well... good for them
can't imagine those kinds lingering around this place too long though
Anonymous No.82555700 [Report] >>82556167 >>82556708
>>82555593
>sane people don't end up here
>Implying that anyone would actually want to meet anyone from 4chan.
Oh sweetie.
Anonymous No.82556167 [Report] >>82556708
>>82555684
you'd be surprised how many good people there are here but also what this >>82555700 anon said
Anonymous No.82556187 [Report]
>>82553030 (OP)
You're delusional if you think you'll find a girl HERE with standards like those.
As a general rule of thumb, whenever a girl is on this site, add +4 points on attraction scale because of how thirsty men here are
3/10-> 7/10, etc
They also have like 10 different dudes they're talking to btw
Anonymous No.82556247 [Report] >>82556662
>>82555582
She'd be just like me so we'd instantly have things in common. I get along with those types better anyway.
Anonymous No.82556383 [Report] >>82556662
Everyone I have talked to off here has had some pretty significant mental issue
Anonymous No.82556662 [Report] >>82556739
>>82556247
fair enough
>>82556383
i've only talked to one person here and they do have some trauma but nothing like bpd or schizo just depression
Anonymous !HKiI8Junas No.82556708 [Report] >>82556797
>>82556167
>you'd be surprised how many good people there are here
i would, wouldn't i?
it's a shame my experience doesn't exactly line up to that, but if yours is better than that, then that's all that matters, really
OP asked for a take on the matter and i replied with mine, if i'm wrong then all the better for him
those are instances where i'd love to be proven wrong, to be quite fair

>>82555700
>anyone would actually want to meet anyone from 4chan.
i would, sometimes
for better or worse i'm mostly physically isolated from >90% anons here, so...
Anonymous No.82556739 [Report]
>>82556662
>fair enough
It's hard to find people like that. The ones who are broken enough usually think they're not worth dating so they don't try and the ones who do don't want or can't support a househusband. It's a very particular niche.
Anonymous No.82556797 [Report] >>82556840
>>82556708
anon i am OP. i should probably stfu tho cuz i only met one person here. if you've talked to that many robots/fembots and they sucked i should prob expect more of that
Anonymous !HKiI8Junas No.82556840 [Report] >>82557103
>>82556797
having discussions is healthy, so keep at it, anon
>if you've talked to that many robots/fembots and they sucked i should prob expect more of that
maybe, i've been here for a bit over 10 years by now, but despite being a newfag still, i talked to a fair amount of people
it's as you say, there are some nice people around here, but every single one of them was batshit in one way or another, there were just a few that were the kind of crazy i could appreciate, lol

but yeah, don't get your hopes up, and be careful of who you chat up, aye?
again, i'd love to be proven wrong on that matter and for you to find a bunch of great people to hang out with, among them a nice girl who'll treat you well
take care of yourself, my dude

>Captcha: PVMPD
>time to get pumped, captcha says
Anonymous No.82557011 [Report]
>>82553154
comparing a gooner internet porn addict who is a virgin to someone with actual intercourse experience is like comparing a video game GTA5 addict to an actual criminal.
Someone who watches gore on Liveleak to an actual serial killer.
It is not at all the same.

A persons first time, male or female, is such a core experience its basically GUARANTEED to end up in the top 20 highlight slideshow when you're on your deathbed and see your life flashing before your eyes...
Do you want your partner, your soulmate, the person you've married and spend your life together with, pull the "Rose from Titanic" and on her deathbed instead of you - her partner - they think of the time when they had steamy hot sex with their first highschool flame several decades ago as one of their last thoughts.
Uhmm, No thanks.
I want to share that core experience with the person I want to spend the rest of my life with.
Anonymous No.82557103 [Report] >>82557218
>>82556840
so you've been here 10 years and you haven't found anyone decent? yeah i'm really fucked. when you say batshit what exactly do you mean btw

don't worry i'm pretty good at staying anonymous and being careful in general but thanks for the warning regardless
Anonymous !HKiI8Junas No.82557218 [Report] >>82557283
>>82557103
>so you've been here 10 years and you haven't found anyone decent?
aye, but maybe i should've specified that i mean regulars, not newfags who have been here for like a couple months or so
the people who are here forever, the newfags who aren't tourists, those are all batshit in one way or another
the few decent people i found were tourists, for better or worse, and they quit not long after

>when you say batshit what exactly do you mean btw
they all have one or more things that make them an oddity
for instance, i've met anons here who isolate themselves so hard that they go months without talking to anyone
others are a bit too unhinged and believe in the crap being thrown around here (da jooz, genuinely racist people, etc.) but they all had some redeeming quality about them that made me look past that (e.g. some were very kind, some were really funny, had ambitious plans that made sense, etc.)
they'd be the kind of people you'd hang around, but you definitely wouldn't want your family finding out about them (or rather, the shit that made them oddities)

>i'm pretty good at staying anonymous and being careful in general
ok nice, i'll trust you to it then

>Captcha: MSGND
>messaging neurodivergents, captcha is full of messages today huh?
Anonymous No.82557224 [Report] >>82557290
>>82553030 (OP)
Anyone who expects a virgin these days is delusional.
Anonymous No.82557231 [Report]
hell, you could add big tits to that list and you still wouldnt be as delusional as the average tranny
Anonymous No.82557283 [Report] >>82557366
>>82557218
i gotta be honest you sound like a tourist yourself if thats what you consider oddities. being racist is pretty average and isolating for months is just what depressed and lonely people do. thanks for your advice anyways anon
Anonymous No.82557290 [Report]
>>82557224
why? Its not like they are born as sluts with a bodycount.
Every single female has that trait at birth and they actively have to do something to loose it.
Even "I want my man to earn 30K a year" is a higher standard, because even while 30K isn't much, you actually have to do something to get that, put work in.
Asking for virginity isn't even a fucking standard because It requires no active effort and 100% of the female population could reach it simultaniously, there is no bottleneck.
All it requires is to NOT fuck someone until you want to get married, doesn't sound so hard.
Might aswell say:
>anyone who expects someone to not be a fat fuck these days is delusional
Just because we live in a society where Mcdonalds / cheap goyslop exists and its both easy and somewhat enjoyable to get that fat.
Like, you can just... not... do the bad thing (Eating like a landwhale / riding the cock carusell) and everything's allright.
Anonymous !HKiI8Junas No.82557366 [Report] >>82557479
>>82557283
>if thats what you consider oddities.
the guy who isolated himself wouldn't even talk online, guy would basically go no contact for months on end from anyone, i can understand some people isolating but still talking online here and there and just not chatting to anyone irl but to isolate that much, even though he craved company and didn't seem all that depressed... well, it's an oddity to me
everyone here gives off the "sad boys" impression, but that guy talked nicely enough to at least mask it pretty well

and the racist cunts are pretty bread and butter here, true, but to the outside world they're oddities at best, especially considering how they behave here and in private too (and how obsessed they are with race and shit that they have to make everything revolve around it)
maybe i should've mentioned who it is i was comparing people to when saying that... my bad
but i still tried to just scratch the surface, there were other encounters i'm not so proud of which i'm not quite willing to disclose...

i get that i sound like a tourist but such is the price for whatever little privacy i have
it's up to you if you want to believe me or not
good luck out there, anon
Anonymous No.82557399 [Report]
>>82553030 (OP)
Is it really that hard to go to europe what are you a retard or something?
Anonymous No.82557479 [Report] >>82557516
>>82557366
you too anon, it seems you're either a brit or an aussie correct?
Anonymous No.82557512 [Report]
>>82553030 (OP)
You want an ideal rather than weighing individuals as they come, which will always be a loss if you aren't willing to invest the time to get to know someone because of some small transgression here or there. That is ultimately the problem with dating in the modern era. People just want to skip to the supposed correct relationship part, ignoring the fact that you necessarily have to get to know people as individuals and gradually weed through to find something worthwhile and compatible for you. Any approach that offers big sweeping filtering of people will always leave you with a hollow chunk of halfwits who will filter you just as quickly.
Anonymous !HKiI8Junas No.82557516 [Report] >>82557678
>>82557479
south american, actually
sometimes i wish i was a brit or aussie, i wonder what it'd be like to be a foreigner, what it'd be like to unironically say "oi m8" or see things upside down :^)
Anonymous No.82557678 [Report] >>82557726
>>82557516
lol i thought you were because you said cunt
Anonymous !HKiI8Junas No.82557726 [Report]
>>82557678
lol yeah, my english is a frankenstein of american, british and australian english
mostly american english but i borrow some words/expressions from other variants as well, although... pretty sure americans also use "cunt" fairly often too